release the people who that love you,if you don't love him.

China
September 23, 2012 2:02am CST
we are always very greedy,we don't know how to rufuse a pepple who love you ,it is a difficult things because we know the love is important,but sometimes we will hurt the people who love us for our selfish,we need to have courage to say"no"!
4 responses
@berting600 (3461)
• Philippines
23 Sep 12
Do not make any move that could make someone thinks that you have some feeling towards his intention of loving you.You must free his way to intentionally not giving him any attention whatever he think must be done to make you love him,but please do it so that the two of you could still be friends after the closure was made.
• China
26 Sep 12
perhaps we can be good friends but not love!
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• Philippines
26 Sep 12
Giving him attention as a friendly gesture can make both of you closed friends only, and that your friendship would continue as long as it is just for the sake of friendship.
@akagami (250)
• Indonesia
23 Sep 12
yeah thats right cause if we give them hope,actually we don,t love it.we just hurt it.we have to say "no" even we hurt her/him heart.but we didnt hurt to much.
• China
26 Sep 12
i agree ,we need to say "no" about something.good luck!
@jenny1015 (13394)
• Philippines
23 Sep 12
We can always treasure the friendship with those people even if we do not want them to be as intimate as they want you to be. I do not think being selfish is the right word for it. We just do not love or care people the same as the other. It depends on how long you have known the person and how much you have shared together.
• China
26 Sep 12
thank you ,good luck!
@iBizkut (80)
• United States
23 Sep 12
Exactly! But just because you release them for a personal relationship doesn't mean you can't care for that person still and be there for a person in need. Because if you truly loved that person you would be willing to still be there even if you can't have them because you want the best for that person.(:
• China
26 Sep 12
i agree with you,we can care for them,good luck!