friendship is like a glass

you must handle it with care,or else it can lead to inconsequential effects and pulling the legs,its so brittle so need to maintain it with care all the time

I'm sorry to hear about this! :( She doesn't deserve to be called your friend because a friend would take care your secrets like a gem. it happened to me too but I just let it pass because people like them doesn't deserve to take a minute in our mind. Hope you'll feel better soon.

Oh yes you are right there.I had a friend for years that I thought that I could trust and only to find out that she is not a person anyone would want if they found out what she was really like. I felt just like you, hurt, betrayed and very upset.Since then I do not trust anyone and I try my best to keep myself to myself, that way no one can hurt me like that again and they do not know what is going on in my life, so they have nothing to say to anyone about me.

don't take it negatively, but instead take it responsibly and learn things that might reflect your future. focus on what you have started by thinking things positively. No matter how difficult it takes just do it without expecting too much from others.

I am sorry for what happened to you. The thing that happened to you shows that real friend is really hard to find. But look at the bright side, you have learned her real personality. But you should still need to forgive her. Forgive her not for her sake. Forgive her for your own sake. And then, you should move on and try to be fried other people. Hope the pain that you are feeling right now would go away.

swissheart, consider this a lesson learned. Anyone who is your real friend will not listen to her. Of course you are hurt. The wound is still fresh. Time will heal it. Don't let your anger eat away at you. This will be unhealthy for you, but will do no damage to her. Next time you will know to pay attention to signs that you ignored this time. Be more aware of little things that potential friends do. You will see clues as to how your future friendship might be. Move on. It's the only thing you can do. I'm sorry for the hurt you are feeling right now. It will go away and when it does make sure the anger you feel goes with it. She is not worth your time or energy spent on brooding over it.

good day swissheart, when i have read your main topic, i was reminded of one situation that i have had with my previous college friend. wherein during those time when we were so closed that due to a very very small issue, everything was gone. hence, according to her, she have patterned the friendship to a glass. wherein, if the glass broke, it can never be repaired again though it cannot be fixed.

Some people are just not worth your tears. Just get over it because she was not worth it. Don't let others hurt you and be strong. I understand what you are going through but have to be tough. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.