is it foolish to wait a people who you love ?

China
September 24, 2012 4:31am CST
waitting is a hard process,when you meet a person who you have no feeling but love you ,you feel diffculty to get together with him.but lots of friends advice you to accept him,because you are not younger,what do you do?i want to give up and wait a people who i love.
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• India
24 Sep 12
Hello friend There are several points you should know about relationships 1) Who loves you but you don't love them because of someone else or any reason. 2) To whom you love but he/she does not love you or don't have anyone. 3) Both of you love each other (Ideal condition) There is not ideal condition with everyone, ya there are few lucky though like me who get true love :). If I had to chose then from first two then I would have gone with first one who loves me because that person will be more caring and will be respecting your feelings more than anyone as they will understand you better. If you will be running behind someone who does not love you or keep on waiting for someone then maybe they might not understand your feelings that well. One thing is sure, the person who loves you can always understand you better and I will not say that agree with your friends who are advising you to go with that person, but I will say you should decide it yourself and you should be sure that the person whom so ever will be with you will keep you happy. Yes, that person who loves you can keep you happy if you accept them instead of that person behind whom you are running and he/she does not understand your value. Go for the right person who knows your value and who truly loves you. Hope it helps :) Good luck with your relationship.
• China
24 Sep 12
thanks for your idea ,i think what you say is right,we should wait a people who knows my value and who truly loves me,good luck!
• India
24 Sep 12
Welcome friend. Yes, go for one who will understand you, understand your value, respect your feeling, trust you and truly love you.
@youless (112101)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Sep 12
I am not so sure. But if he looks fine and he is not a bad person, perhaps you can try to give each other some time to see whether you can accept him. If not, I think it is alright that you give up this relationship and wait for someone who you love. As the marriage is supposed to be lasted in your rest life. So it is better to find someone you love and he also loves you. Otherwise the life will be suffering.
• China
25 Sep 12
perhaps i can try to accept him,giving me a chance,good luck!
• India
24 Sep 12
Hi friend, there is nothing wrong in waiting for a long time if the love is real and sincere as well as your beloved person also reciprocate the same love and affection with you, if your love is one side, then there is no meaning in waiting for a long time
• China
24 Sep 12
thank you, now ,i know what i should do.
• Philippines
25 Dec 12
Waiting for a person you love who doesn't love you is such a pain in the *ss. It's like waiting for forever. If the person that person loves you, he won't let you wait right? Except if the two of you are working overseas then you'll just wait for him. In your case, the person whom you are waiting doesn't love you. I know there is this man who are made just for you, don't lose hope and love yourself until that man would find you.
• Philippines
24 Sep 12
I believe that we all have the capability of attracting the very things we want in life, and that includes the person whom you think will be perfect for you. I am a believer of the Law of Attraction because I have seen it work for me :) I have been where you are, and I remember that I really didn't feel good every time I was with the person other people thought was best for me, but to whom I wasn't really feeling the love. :) I went along with it because it made other people happy even if I wasn't until finally, I decided that the most important thing is to make myself happy and not others. I then set out attracting the very person I want to be with and share my life with by pretending that it was already done. I did not dwell on my age or what others thought until finally, I did meet him. And married him ;) I don't think you should settle for less. :)
• China
24 Sep 12
thanks for your advice,i think i should persit to wait him who i love,good luck!
@misjoseph (162)
5 Jan 13
I think you should find a suitable person who you love and cares for that will make you happy. A person who love you as well... this sound like a better life and a good relationship...