What do you feel when a man cries?

@blinjk (613)
Philippines
September 24, 2012 8:56am CST
Men also cries but they are not like girls who just cry whenever they want.Do you think that it is a major turn off when you see a guy cry? Do you think that crying is not manly?Well,for me crying is a natural thing and it makes someone feel better and guys who cry also get hurt that is why they also cry or they cry because of happiness ( tears of joy).How about you guys?Do you think that a guy who cries is a major turn off or does it turns you on?
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12 responses
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
24 Sep 12
i think man is human too why we forgot this fact??
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
24 Sep 12
haha hello saudara:) i agree..human too=] can be happy sad loving and mad:D i won't be turned off too..It makes me believe he is brave to show he has weaknesses too.. Instead of holding on his pride to hide his emotion,he was able to let go and cry.. When he cries to his wife/gf/mother etc..he admits he can find comfort to the person with him..SO it's ok if my guy cries to me. I'd cry w/ him!:))
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
24 Sep 12
hello too sista.. i don`t think when the man cry (maybe) because his mother and father get trouble, the pride of man is reduced.. it show that the man have heart too right??
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
The first time I saw a man cry was when I broke up with one of my bf and that was ten years ago. They say you can get karma when you make a man cry. Anyway, I felt very strange that time. I was crying too but I cried even harder when I saw tears on his eyes. That was something I will never forget for the rest of my life. :(
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
26 Sep 12
so what about your ex bf condition now?? does he married?/ what about you too?? had you been married??
28 Nov 12
I see strength in a man crying. For me, it just means he is strong enough to express how he really feels.
@mikyung (2234)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
That's a human nature. We are humans that become emotional at times. As a man's point of view, crying,in general does not mean that we are those weakling but I believe it is a sign for compassion, disappointment, anger or even positive feelings, overwhelming experiences can be one. As for those who sees it, it depends on the situation and how people perceive it. Thanks
25 Sep 12
Well, it is okay for a man to cry. It's natural for us human being to cry, so there's nothing wrong with that. Every human being has the ability to cry when he feels pain or he's unhappy. It is a way of expressing what we feel, so I think there's nothing wrong with crying even if he's a guy or a girl.
@cher913 (25893)
• Canada
25 Sep 12
i don't have a problem with men who cry. it shows that they are human and have feelings. in fact, i would not date a man who doesn't cry.
@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
25 Sep 12
I don't see it as nether a turn on or turn off. Men cry just like we do but they don't wanna be judged or hurt so if someone sees that as a weakness men turn to such a$sholes. When I see my husband cry it makes me sad and I hug him and I try to figure out y he's crying. But that rarely happens :) thank goodness lol! Crying is not something one should be ashamed of. I don't understand y someone would view that as a weakness.
@kokomo (1868)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
A guy will cry if he is experiencing deep sorrow or deep desperation. A guy who is crying really loves very deep.They will cry if they hurt that most. My boyfriend already cried when the time that we were fixing our problems and that moment I felt like my heart was about to melt.I just thought that he really loves me that much and losing me is his biggest mistake.Of course , it is a major turn on on me.
@kongno (431)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
the first impression that will come to my mind is., men that cry are more passionate,on the other hand they can also be artistic they cry just to get someone's attention.
@STOUTjodee (3419)
• United States
24 Sep 12
I think most men grow up with the attitude that men don't cry. I see nothing wrong with a man crying, it's a way to release emotions. I've seen my husband shed a tear on a couple of occasions,like when he had a dream I had left. When he woke up I wasn't in the same room as he was, but I was there. He found me and he thought he had lost me, a few tears came out of his eyes. I personally,think it shows how manly a man is when he can shed tears.
• United States
24 Sep 12
Seeing a guy cry is not a turn off at all. Its good when a guy can appeal to his sensitive side and cries. Now Im not saying he should cry like everyday. However, for a guy to cry means that its a real serious situation and he is genuinely hurt and for me to see that and knowing especially if I caused it I would feel like crap. Sometimes when a guy cries it allows the females to see that they genuinely care for them.
• Philippines
24 Sep 12
For me it's not a turn off seeing my boyfriend or any man crying and I would not feel good at all. It must be something serious because men would not easily show people when they cry. If a man cry in front of you it must be that he trusted you on that matter if it's a problem that caused him to cry. But if there is an issue over a relationship and a man cries he must be sincere with what caused him to cry but don't be deceived. I had an ex-boyfriend who easily cries, he cried to me several times though it's not worth crying for and I can't feel the sincerity anymore. On that case that was a major "turn off". It might just be a "drama" so I would believe on what he says.