i am sad my brother can't go home on national day!

China
September 25, 2012 4:28am CST
national day is six days away,my brother called to tell us he could't go home,i am sad about it,but i have not asked him why,i think it will incress the psychological burden for him,i don't what i do can let me feel better,do you have good advice?
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6 responses
@jenny1015 (13390)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
Just tell your brother to come home anytime he can and spend the time with the whole family. You can also ask him to have this bonding time with him.
• China
25 Sep 12
thank you ,i will tell him that.
@jenny1015 (13390)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
No problem. I hope you feel much better now.
• China
26 Sep 12
thank you ,i feel better ,but if he can go home,i will feel best.good luck!
@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
I think what you have to do is stick with it and accept it. But I think you could call your brother and encourage him more to go home on a national holiday. There's no harm in trying so it's ok for you to try it. Chat him once in a while too so that he won't feel that he is too far away from home. Don't be down, I know your brother has some reasons why he can't make it. :)
• China
26 Sep 12
yes,he has reasons,i don't know,perhaps it is so far,and the school is charming.good luck!
• India
25 Sep 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about this, don't worry, he will come to your house soon. may be he is busy with his work and don't have the ability to come to his house
• China
26 Sep 12
i hate the reasons,but i must accept it,good luck!
@dilrajj57 (1759)
• Pakistan
10 Oct 12
hi friend quanquanzhang, you are worry for your brother that he could't go home for national day, i dont know that where your brother are now, but i will pray for you that your brother come on national day. take care.
• Changzhou, China
10 Oct 12
I have the same thing with yours. My elder brother and I have a great age gap. So we could not stay together whatever in school or in work. And we only could meet each other twice a year, but the time we were together totally no more than five hours. But I still felt we are close. The point is communication. It might be a good idea if you could share all your moods with him whther it is happy or not. It would help to make him feel that you need him. It is that you also could know him well and also good to lessen his burden. Thank you!
@youless (90514)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Sep 12
We have 8 days off work in the National holiday and Mid-autumn festival. We will go to my husband's hometown for a visit. I have to say that it is not easy to buy the high speed train during this holiday and it messed up my original plan. As I planned to go to his hometown for several days and then go to Hong Kong for the rest days. But now it has changed. We will stay there during this holiday. I am not sure whether it is easy for your brother to buy the tickets or not. Buying it already costs money and energy.