I was disappointed infinite

Indonesia
September 26, 2012 2:48am CST
My finance and raising a daughter, at that time,the year 2009 was only 9 years old and is now 16 years older. She, and I keep my finance because she is an orphan and destitute after the death of his father left I hope, she can help herself, her mother and brother, she did not keep my confidence. After adolescence, high school turned out she was pregnant outside of marriage....I am really disappointed....because of promiscuity and immorality eventually be ashamed of yourself, with a heavy heart I was off financing. Ever since I financed her, she turned into a proud, haughty, actually I already felt suspicious but what's a suspicion without evidence....indeed lead diffclt someone especially women...
5 responses
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
She has to learn from her mistake. You must give her some hard lesson otherwise she will be totally dependent on you.She learn how to make money so that she'll realize that money doesn't grow on tress. You daughter is in family way,it is time that you teach her that the world is not a playground.
@alottodo (3061)
• Australia
27 Sep 12
I guess as a young person she will learn soon enough but now she needs some care and looking after don't she? and Belle-of-the-ball? you still have a long way to go! and you never know what will happen tomorrow.
• Indonesia
28 Sep 12
Dear Belle I agree with you, she has to work harder and be responsible with his actions ...
• Indonesia
28 Sep 12
Dear Alottodo Yes...She must responsible for herself and her god...
@SIMPLYD (83124)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
I am so sorry to hear that about your daughter my friend. It's time that you tell her to take care of herself and find a job for her baby and her own. You have to be firm so she will know that you really are determined to cut her off from your care. Though, try helping her find a job after she has given birth perhaps.
@sishy7 (27598)
• Australia
26 Sep 12
I was actually a bit confused when reading this topic... I was not sure if he is talking about his daughter, or it is about some girl he helped financially...
@SIMPLYD (83124)
• Philippines
27 Sep 12
It was his daughter, sishy.
• Indonesia
28 Sep 12
Dear Simplyd.... I am Muslim and she is also Muslim she should know the limits of a woman's honor and should not get pregnant before marriage she should understand very well about it. Islam punishes hard for women who become pregnant outside of marriage,not the unborn child is wrong but both parents should be responsible. Adultery it is Satanic. She must be responsible for acting, , but I hope he should be able to help his mother and brother. Dear friend .... she's not my daughter. I just pay for it for her education because she's not able to (poor)and their daily lives. She is an orphan who I afford to be independent. And more importantly, she had to fight in order to live better. She's not only embarrassing herself but also her biological mother and all the people around her as well as educational institutions. It was not worth doing it, should she continue his educationfor lunch later life. If my friends into a position like mine, how??? Are you not disappointed.....today should be better than yesterday,tomorrow should be better than today. Dear Sishy7... I've talked a lot with her, as a woman she had to be very clever to keep yourself, because he had veiled Muslim woman...
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@alottodo (3061)
• Australia
27 Sep 12
What do you mean? she should be ashamed because she is pregnant? what about the person who impregnated her?
• Indonesia
28 Sep 12
dear alottodo.... She should be ashamed because of what is not worth doing before she got married....the man who should be responsible??? Is quite end there, of course not .... she must prepare herself and her son to live next candidate. Islam teaches more civilized life, home life sakinah Mawaddah Wa Rohmah...
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
I think alottodo is confused about your topic,indonesiajaya.
• Indonesia
28 Sep 12
yes belle....he is don't understand....it's okay...
• Netherlands
28 Sep 12
You need to be strong and firm when you tell her your going to cut her off. She needs to find a job and i hope for her that the guy that got her pregnant will be supportive.
• Indonesia
28 Sep 12
I hope so too....dare do dare to be responsible....
@Jatelo2 (166)
• Nairobi, Kenya
26 Sep 12
These things do happen my friend. The only thing that you need to do is always be prepared for any eventualities. I have learned that in this life disappointments are part of us and will never leave us. I'm sorry for you though!
• Indonesia
28 Sep 12
Dear Jatelo2 I was very disappointed....