It is quite exciting when I find those responses

China
September 28, 2012 9:56am CST
I always want to share my feelings in mylot, because every time when I find someone response to my discussion, I will have a sense of satification. It is a good experience to communicate with all of you, my friends, who approve my opinion or hold the opposite views, because I find I become more matur, especially in the ways of thinking, although I am just a new comer when comparing to others.
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@ravisivan (14051)
• India
28 Sep 12
Yes. probably this is a training ground for people to accept opposite views. however I always respond mostly for discussions more or less co-relate with the thinking of the discussion initiator. Sometimes I start a discussion thinking I will get a lot of responses and that too immediately. I post and wait and wait and wait. No response will come for a long time. But sometimes response comes immediately as this one. that again depends on how free others are willing to respond to our discussions. The quality of discussions alone is not relevant but also the time others are able to allot for this is important. factors vary from time to time.
• China
29 Sep 12
Yes,I share the same feelings with you. I can not deny that I always feel disappointed when no one responses to mydiscussions. But when I find someone's responses and his/her own feelings, I will be extremely happy. Maybe this means that my opinion is accepeted by people, and at the same time, I can find many people who understand me. Obviously, it will make me happy in many aspects.
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
When I was a newbie in this site years ago, I really get excited to receive the first response for my newly submitted topic. And when that didn't happen, disappointment set in. But I had some posted topics which received many responses. I had to keep up to comment back as a sign of courtesy and thanks for sharing their ideas and thoughts.
• China
29 Sep 12
I think we should always respect others' efforts. When someone response to our discussions, we should read it careful and make a comment back to exchange our own ideas. It is a good way to help us develop our own ideas. Also, we will benefit from it.:)
@SinfulRose (3524)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep 12
I feel the same. I am happier if a lot of people respond to my discussions--whether they agree or not (but mostly they agree). I think it's because if there are more responses, then it's an opportunity for me to gain more money here in MyLot by commenting back on their responses as best as I could. But other than that, I hold in high regard each person's opinion. It's because I want to learn what people think, how they think and learn how they impact me and the masses around. I also want to hear other's opinion aside from mine. And best of all, I get to learn from them all.
• China
29 Sep 12
I love mylot very much, because I can also learn a lot of things. For example, I always held back my words when others were discussing. But maylot tells me that sometimes my ideas are useful, because when I response to others' discussions, they may show their appreciation. Indeed, I think I become more confident because of mylot.
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep 12
I just hope that confidence show in real life situations as well and not just for online discussions. You see, I read quite a lot about other people's studies and peoples' behaviors regarding their personal and public life versus their online life. In one study it showed that those who are publicly shy and introvert are the usual chatty one's online. The same is for those who are extrovert but quite the opposite.
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
4 Oct 12
Hi, You are right. When we get more responses to our discussions we get more satisfaction. Ir is very interesting to read different views and ideas to our topic. Sometimes we have positive responses but sometimes some people disagree with us. But I don't feel sad by these responses because everyone has his own opinions. But I am enjoying this site very much.
• China
4 Oct 12
No one can meet everyone's demands, therefore, it will be impossible to make everyone agree with our own opinion. Indeed, no matter whether they agree with our ideas or not, it will make us excited when we find someone response to our discussions. And I appreciate everyone who response to my discussions. Thank all of you:)
• China
29 Sep 12
Indeed,mylot is really a good website and I am thankful for finding it.Mylot can not only help us to share our feelings or experiences with our friends on it,but also help the people who don't speak English as their mother language to improve their English level.What's more, it can also make us to earn some extra money.
• China
30 Sep 12
Yes, you are exactly right. We can benefit from mylot in so many aspects. Besides those advantages that you have listed, I think mylot has a magic power that can attract people's attention, what's more, many people will absolutely love it.
• India
29 Sep 12
Hi friend, good to hear about this, mylot is a great place to share about our thoughts and opinions, surely we will get more excitement while getting a lot of replies to our topic. Here we can share about various things and get opinions from other persons
• China
30 Sep 12
Yes, it helps me a lot in many aspects. At first, we would not speak out my ideas because I was not confident enough. But when I began to pour out my true feelings in mylot, I thought it became easier for me to express my own ideas, instead of conforming to others' opinion. Also, I get a lot of suggestion of solving various problems. Anyway, I think I really benefit from mylot.
29 Sep 12
I have not long started and I'm already loving it! I'm a big fan of forums anyway, as I love posting and interacting with people and getting responses to discussions etc, it's good fun to be a part of something and to make new friends!
• China
29 Sep 12
I am grate to hear that you also love posting discussions in mylot. Yes, here you can express your true feelings and problems directely, we are willing to share my experience with you, and maybe that will be helpful. Just enjoy it:D
@subhojit10 (7384)
• India
28 Sep 12
Well i can understand your feelings very well as we all feel the same as u feel when we get good responses from other people here on Mylot. there are at times when we expect responses from people but we hardly get any and that really disappoints us but we should keep on carrying to post the discussions and improve ourselves and achieve the motto for which we are on mylot. If u post good quality discussions, then the responses would definitely come up. What say?
• China
29 Sep 12
Yes, I cannot agree with you more. I always try to post some true things that make me feel happy, sad, angry or something else. I believe only when I post my true feeling in the discussions, I can make others resonate with myself and want to response to me. Anyway, mylot encourages me to speak out loud my true feelings, and I think it is quite helpful.
@sishy7 (26765)
• Australia
28 Sep 12
It is exciting when we receive responses. It is even more exciting when responses get more comments and the conversation goes further... I'm amazed how some users can consistently start discussions which never fail to attract many responses...
• China
29 Sep 12
Yes, I do think so. Sometimes, I post a discussion and hope someone will response to me immediately, but nothing happens. I also want to how those persons can always absorb people's attention no matter what they have posted. Maybe they just share the most impressive things that is echoing and make people have the desire to share their own experience.
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• United States
28 Sep 12
I originally signed up for MyLot because of the possibility of earning extra money. But, honestly since I started digging around, I find that I stay on here CONSTANTLY because it's just so much fun! I haven't responded to every discussion I have read (although I always have a response in my mind), but I have thoroughly enjoyed talking and discussing things on here with all of you. I won't say I have forgotten about the earnings, but it is no longer the reason I am here. I just enjoy the banter between MyLotters!
• China
29 Sep 12
Yes, in the beginning, I just consider mylot is a wonderful website that can help me earn some extra money. However, when I begin to post discussions and comments, I feel completely different. I can make friends here, and share my feelings with others, and enjoy the time spends with mylot. All in all, I feel extremely pleased when I communicate with others in mylot
@namiya (1599)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
You are right. it really feel nice if people respond to your discussions as it does not only means that they find your topic interesting but also a way of interacting and exchanging views and ideas with people we do not personally know around the globe.
• China
29 Sep 12
Exactly, I want to share my feelings may because I can get people's responses. For example, when I am in a low spirit, I will want to talk to someone about my miserable experience, because it may make me feel better. I believe that there will be a lot of people have the same feeling.