are you sad if your boyfriend has never sent flowers ?

beautiful flowers - i like the beautiful flowers which let me feel happy
China
September 29, 2012 3:24am CST
i think every girls like flowers which are so beautiful .but if your boyfriend has never sent flowers to you,are you sad?if he says the flowers is not reality,are you angry?i wait for your answers.good luck!
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16 responses
@lynnes75 (443)
• Malaysia
29 Sep 12
Well, I wouldn't be angry if it's just wishful thinking for a romantic gesture from him, but if he forgets my birthday or our anniversary then watch out! Lol, seriously though, sometimes he doesn't get me flowers but some other gifts like a teddy bear or chocolate, or a book, so I'm happy then :)
• China
29 Sep 12
other gifts?i like it,if he can send me others and the flowers,i will be more happy,good luck!
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
29 Sep 12
I like to receive flowers but i don't mind if bf never sends flowers to me...even in my birthday.
@lynnes75 (443)
• Malaysia
29 Sep 12
I think most girls/women like to receive some sort of token of affection from their significant other. For some reason, flowers is the most common romantic gesture. I don't mind since I like flowers myself, but I prefer a more practical gift actually, lol! Like a book, a shawl or a pen. But there are also girls who don't mind if they don't receive gifts from their bf, like you Ryanong :) It's the thought that counts most ;)
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
3 Oct 12
I'm not angry cause he saves so much to give these unbelievable presents in special dates, he's really sweet and we are not even married yet but he's the one. I feel like I'm his whole life and happy with it. He's not a flower sender not even bring breakfast to the bed if it's not my birthday but I see the way he loves, I'm okay without the flowers.
• China
8 Oct 12
i can't feel i am his whole life,you are so happy,good luck!
@ShyBear88 (17427)
• United States
30 Sep 12
I don't care to much for flowers so when I was dating my husband he really didn't get my flowers which was fine with me. I wouldn't be angry if he never got me any. Every now and then he will get me flowers but he knows I prefer chocolate or chocolate covered strawberries.
• China
8 Oct 12
perhaps we have different culture,the flowers are not more important for lovers,i think,good luck!
@zip12ph (179)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
hi, considering how hard life nowadays, i don't think this really matters. I for one would even ask not for flowers anymore as long a he can provide me his time then i'm okay.Just to share a story of mine, my husband never given me flowers, but our marriage is successful.I think what really matters is the love that you have not no amount of flowers can surpass. Happy mylotting.
• China
8 Oct 12
he stay with me and provide me his time,i think it is basical,i think,if he can send me flowers,i will feel more happy,good luck1
@youless (91494)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Sep 12
I think it is disappointing that your boy friend has never sent you flowers. It may be shallow but it is true. Girls like flowers because they can show off. They like the feeling to be adored and cared. Receiving flowers can make other girls envy you. So if the boy really needs to send flowers, the best is to send her in public and the result will be the best
• China
8 Oct 12
what you say is my wish,in public,he send me flowers,i will feel more happy about it,i think,good luck!
@silverfox09 (4727)
• United States
29 Sep 12
My fiance have brought me flowers but dont send . It all depend on the country and culture , in my country people hardly pays for that service . The Caribbean is still new . I would not be angry are sad if my boyfriend never send me flowers because he bring them for me even though I much rather chocolate .
• China
8 Oct 12
yes ,what you say is right,perhaps we have different culture,good luck!
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
29 Sep 12
I don't mind about it..that's why my ex- never send flowers to me...
• China
8 Oct 12
perhaps if we don't pay more attention on it,we will be more happy!
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
Actually, I am the exception among the girls who likes receiving flowers coz I am really not fond of them. I mean, it is okay if my boyfriend sens me. If he doesn't, fine with me, too.
• United States
29 Sep 12
I am with you
@Paper_Doll (2376)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
What does he mean by flowers aren't reality? People do give flowers not only to their girlfriends but to those they love to show their appreciation, love, and care. Yes I know that some boys don't like giving problems as they are shy to bring them. I once had a boyfriend who was like this. When I asked him why he never brought me flowers, he said he didn't know I like flowers and that he is shy to bring them. But when our anniversary came, he really bought one for me but he gave those flowers to me in not so good condition because he inserted the flowers at his back to hide them as he still does not have a car that time. When he took the flowers out from the back of his shirt, petals are already falling. Although they did not seem to look good, I was still happy about it. I do appreciate the fact that he exerted his effort just to make me happy. It is really the thoughts that count.
• China
8 Oct 12
he is so lovely,i think he really love you,i wish you can happy forever,good luck!
29 Sep 12
Well, look at it this way - would you rather have a nasty boyfriend that was mean to you and didn't care... but brought you flowers.... or would your rather a nice, loving boyfriend who doesn't buy you flowers? I know my answer. Yes, it would be nice to have both - who doesn't like flowers? But it's more important to have a nice, caring, loving boyfriend who is good to you - buying gifts is not important, it's shallow and there are a million other more important things in this world!
• China
29 Sep 12
but if he can't send me flowers,i will feel sad,i think he doesn't like me as he swear,i think.good luck!
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
29 Sep 12
i don`t think the flower is always associated with love.. there are many men send the flower to the girl but they have an affair with another girl..
• China
29 Sep 12
perhaps,but i hope he can send it to me!good luck!
@fheroan (619)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
hi there quanquanzhang.. For me those do not matter. Chocolates, gifts, flower are less important than the person itself.. If my boyfriend is there just with me, spending time with me, it's more memorable than the flowers. For me that's enough and i'm happy with that. I won't start an argument or get angry just because of little silly thing. No offense though. Have a nice day!
• China
29 Sep 12
perhaps what you say is right,spending with me is more important,but i feel sad about it,i can't control,good luck!
• Indonesia
15 Dec 12
My boyfriend never send me real flower,, but he did send many virtual flowers by chatting. We are on long distance relationship right now and Im not upset cos he can't send me the real flower by now cos he made some international calls to me and it made me happier than if he send me real flowers
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
Actually, that is one thing that I am not sure why I really don't like. I am not fond of flowers. I don't know why, despite my "girly" persona, I just am not into flowers. There was even a time that my husband gave me 2 dozens of long-stemmed red roses on our 5th Anniversary that I really had to ask him why he bothered buying them? I may have sounded ungrateful, but I just don't like flowers. I think I am the only woman that is WEIRDLY unattached to a girly thing!
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
Before when I m still at my mid 20's when any occasions passes by like for example Valentines Day I always do expect that my boyfriend will buy me flowers. Because for me at that time whenever a girl receives flowers on special occasions it feels like you're special or being loved. But when time passed by today I am now on my 30's I haven't still received any expensive flowers from my special someone it doesn't really matter now. because he always say that "you can always buy flowers even if a man doesn't really love you all that matters is what happens he is still there for me. He still understand my short comings. And still loved me.
30 Sep 12
yeah,flowers and gifts to every girl is good.but I feel it isn't good reasons if girl haven't receive the flowers from her boyfriend.Love is not only flowers,only two people together is the most important.