My inspirational lines from my husband who really change my life...

Philippines
October 4, 2012 1:04pm CST
When i met my husband i was unhappy and trying to fix my life from a very painful and hard experience.I can say my life has no direction when i met him. But my husband came into my life when i need a friend who's willing to cry and listen to me. One day he told me this" Forgive all the people who hurt and took advance to you. Forget all the bad experience in the past and start to have a good experience in you present life and cherish them in the future. Live you life with full of love, smile and faith in God, soon you will see that everything will be fine and you be happy for the rest of your life." I followed what he told me and i am living happily with him. Have a good night
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9 responses
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
4 Oct 12
That is a very wise man who spoke those words! What a wonderful way to lead someone into happiness...by suggesting forgiveness....that is the only way you can truly be happy!
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• Philippines
4 Oct 12
Hello Jillhill, forgiveness will help us to move forward with our life and lead us to come happy again. Yes, he is a very wise man and kind whose living without any hatred in his heart. Have a good day. Thanks
@subhojit10 (7384)
• India
4 Oct 12
Well i am glad to hear that your husband has been your source of inspiration and very rarely does one get to see such unconditional love, support and encouragement between a husband and his wife. Yes very much his words were inspirational to hear and i am sure u must have been moved by his words. Lets forget all the past happenings and miseries and concentrate on making our present and future glorious, happier and successful. Then only we can realize what life has in store for us and above all God is always there with us. God bless ya both. What say?
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• Philippines
4 Oct 12
Well, that's a great response, i think i am very lucky because he came into my life on the right time when i need someone who can give happiness and light in my life again. Thank you and have a great day!
@jaiho2009 (39077)
• Philippines
4 Oct 12
Exactly, forgiving is the best way to gain inner peace. Hatred won't do any good to us, emotionally and physically. Having inner peace is real happiness. It's better to live a life with no worries, no hatred and no pain inside.
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• Philippines
4 Oct 12
Your absolutely right, living without any hatred in our heart make us happy and make us a better person. Thanks. Have a good day!
@ASHUDEEP (1774)
• India
4 Oct 12
you are right friend in our life many times we have to face bad experiences and at that time we need lot of concentration and a inspirational person with us and yes friend your husband words are really true some time i am also in tension then my parents help me lot to recover so friend life is very short enjoy it and good night .
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• Philippines
4 Oct 12
I agree with you, when were down and in troubles we really need someone who can give us a good advice/inspirations to help us to back in the right track of life again. I am glad the your parents are there when you needed them most.Have a nice day!
@leateagee (3667)
• China
5 Oct 12
Your husband is a very kind and good person in my opinion. From time to time, we need people to motivate and comfort us. You are one blessed woman to have met him and now fo rthe rest of your life.
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
. he si very kind and i am hoping that he will never change.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
7 Oct 12
I wish the same.
• Philippines
5 Oct 12
Wow that was awesome and inspiring love story, and you're blessed to have a wonderful husband like him and you are cool enough to follow and listen and that leads to a happy and clean living...Keep it strong with God's love.
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
Hi aliahnicole69, i always feel blessed because he came in to my life and he always gives me hope when i am losing it. Have a great day. Thanks
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
5 Oct 12
The advice was very good. I also need advice like that. Not easy to do. But, it should be tried.
• Philippines
5 Oct 12
Hi indahfth, yes it's not easy to do but when you tried it and experience the feeling for you will like it. have a great day!
@Raine38 (9050)
• United States
4 Oct 12
Good for you, you married your friend. And he is right, we cannot move on with our lives if we will not let go of our past hurts. It's hard to look forward to a brigter future if we will always look back to our dark past. I'm so happy to hear that everything works out so well for you.
• Philippines
5 Oct 12
Thank you Raine38, i am happy too that after the darkest part of my life i found someone who guide me to the right path of my life and someone who love and accepted me for what i am.
@Hatley (159527)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Oct 12
hi Bhebelen your husband is a smart and wise man. Our husbands can be so much more than just mates. when I and my husband married I was shy and withdrawn and a pessimist and I really did not like myself at all. bu t he taught me this sort of a mantra: you are Patsie you are somebody you are unique. He would say yell it out loud mean it and I did. then this part. I am Patsie and I like myself. I am unique nobody else like me. I love myself just as Christ told us we must love ourselves so we know how to love our fellow man. I know I sounded silly shouting out these mantras. but soon I was more outgoing, more self assured, I started to like myself and love myself and be more loving to other people. also I had been filled with hatred towards my own father who molested me once as a child of 8. he told me to go to my father andtell him I forgive him for what he did, ask him why b ut fo r gie him.,so I did and while he re fused to answer my question why I left feeling like the weight of the world had been lifted off my shoulders. hatred only hurts the hater nobody else
• Philippines
5 Oct 12
Hi Hatley, i am happy that you husband help you too to love yourself and show to the world the real you. I agree that our husbands are more than a mates to us, they are like our guardian angels, teacher,and teacher who always there to support, guide and protect us. Sorry about you but experience but i am glad that you already forgiven your father after what he did to you. In our life like you i realized that hatred only give us a big burden in our heart and preventing us to be happy, but when we live without any hatred we live like a free birds who can able to fly any place we want. have a nice day!