Do you have a long time girl friend and what's your secret?

@katie0 (5212)
Japan
October 5, 2012 4:47pm CST
Why many women fight with each other? I don't feel jealous, competitive and never thought about their men as a possible someone but why so many women can hate others just by looking at them or at first meeting them? And what's your secret, if you have a long time friend, for the success of the relationship? How long has is it lasting? Girls should be united, we live in a very sexist world and shouldn't be putting other women down. I just don't get it or do I think like a man?
3 responses
@GemmaR (8526)
6 Oct 12
I am a girl, but I do have a long term partner and we are very happy together at the moment. One of the things that you have to think about is that you have to be able to talk to them about anything that might be troubling you at that time. If you cannot do that then I don't think that there is any chance that you have a future together because it means that issues are not ever going to get resolved and the two of you will just keep going over the same things in your own heads. Communication is key, and can make or break a relationship.
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
6 Oct 12
What you mean by partner?
@pahak627 (4198)
• Philippines
5 Oct 12
I have long time friends which had started during my childhood. But the best of them lives in the adjacent town. We seldom see each other these days. But we used to have bonding moments before. We just have the same likes and dislikes that's why our friendship lasts.
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
5 Oct 12
Childhood friends are the best aren't them? So you guys are like sisters, but if not as close now at least as cousins
11 Oct 12
Yep, I'm so happy to have my girl friends for years now. I can say that our friendship has gone a long way. But, I know what you're saying, girls can be so competitive with each other. I'm not sure if we can blame it to our hormonal imbalances. We tend to be irritable and moody when we're undergoing this regular phase. Imagine the women going through the same phase at the same time!:))