When someone admits they love you...

How many times do you get these three words from others? just curious. In this situation, there always have two choice, if you like this guy, you just need to ask him to buy you a cup of coffee to shake your overwhelmed feeling off and then make a little talk to decide to go deep or not. the other way is to say thank you, go away.

I remembered when my boyfriend cOnfesses his true feelings for me, I wad like, "sure ka" translation, "are you sure about it?", with the matching eyebrows.. I don't know what to say, and his tears fall.. It's just that we are friends, and I don't know when did he started liking me that way. Afterwards, I said, "you are not kidding, right? Why me?". Rethinking abot what I said, I find it amusing and ridiculous, others would say thank you or I am flattered, even snob the person and won't talk to him, find themselves awkward with each other, but me, I said those things.. And in the end, I hug him..

Well being a man I think I would not expect anything in return when I propose to the person I love. I think that is expected especially when the person I am proposing to is not expecting it. So I guess saying thank you is enough in the meantime. If I were on your situation I might add that you would still think about it and give you more time to think about this matter. I think that would be just right so that the guy would not think that you are easy to get.

I know someone who doesn't speak of those three words yet but it seems that he feels in love with this girl, why? The guy told his father (boss of the girl) to keep the girl at ease and comfortable at work. The guy does his best to be a better son to his father and so he can request to his father anything good for the girl.Hope you get the clear picture of this.

When someone admitted he loves me, like you, I am actually shocked and was lost for words. But after a while, I laugh and told him he's crazy and I left. I went straight to the comfort room and cried as I was really surprised. I am waiting that for so long but when he finally said that, I was already tired waiting. He maybe thinking he said that on the right time at the right place but for me, his confession was actually too late. It's just so sad to know that you can no longer do something about it. It hurts.

Your post makes me remember when I was just teenager, I was probably twelve years old then when a guy two years older than me told me that she likes me. But since I don't like him I avoided him. I tried to hide all that I can, but he was close to my family and so my family would tell honestly my whereabouts whenever he would asked. I actually even hide with the pigs under my aunts house because I saw him coming. The pigs of made some noise because they were afraid of me, so I made no moves, I actually did not move a nerve to stop those hogs. I cannot handle myself well when a guy would tell me he loves if I don't like him reason I hide not to disapoint him.

Hi there! For many of us it is not easy to say these words and express our 'love' for someone. Saying thank you is a kind of acknowledgement and reciprocal gesture. You did the right thing by saying thank you. If you really love that guy, there could be other methods also to show your love and sometimes your facial expressions, simple smile and nodding is enough. It will help him understand your feelings for him.

I am happy and touched when someone tells me that they love me. It gives me a good feeling to know that i am loved and it makes me want to give that love back to the world.

Well I will be just flattered because someone has appreciated my beauty. Haha! :)

it is that you have to know if the person is okay for you and will love you back the same way. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.

Haha, saying 'Thank you' seems appropriate enough to me. You know, once a guy said that to me and caught me completely off guard, and I literally ran away! He was so shy after that, I felt bad, but what's done was done, and I didn't feel anything for him, so I guess I accidentally nipped any romantic feelings he had for me in the bud. We're friends now though, so everything's fine. It's good when people are confident enough to say "I Love you", whether it's from a prospective suitor, or a dear friend, or a family member. You either say "I love you too" "Thank you" or, "I love you too, but I don't love you that way." It's an honest and real reply, any hurt feelings will eventually subside.

haha, that is really cute to hear. So you blush and are at a loss of words. well, if your guy is crazy about you & if you feel the same for him, then you need not repeat. Just say "me too" if you feel tongue tied. Or you can also hug him, blow a kiss or just cling to his arm. My guy used to be very romantic and I used to blush. Hence, I used to just give a hug or whisper love you in the ear..even if I called him by his name..he'd tell me he loved my voice &asked to keep saying his name again..just miss that person a lot!

If someone in front of me can not understand you,I will think of a way to let him(her)to make it clear that,because of his(her)or else to say and I will be very concerned about,and the(or she)will be hanging around in front of me from time to time.

I personally beleive it's a good thing, since you are being honest of what you feel at the moment, nobody would like to say something they don't truly feel. The other person should be grateful since you are not lying about your emotions.

There are people who could easily say those words, while there are others who (even as they try) can't. I think it's important to know which person is saying it to you. I once had someone telling me something like that but I already told him that I only saw him as a friend. He kept on insisting I was the "love of his life" then I always told him that I wasn't because I didn't love him. It was only when I started avoiding and being rude that he finally got it. I didn't mean to hurt him that way, but he needed to see the truth. He kept on insisting that I was just hiding my "true feelings" because I was shy, I was annoyed so I told him that he wasn't my type. I guess he did try to get over my, several times, he would even show me a photo of her girlfriends. But he would still insist after showing me the photos that we were "meant to be". It wasn't until I told him I was married (I lied) that he stopped. It's really creepy when someone I don't really like or love would say those words to me. But the same words said by someone I truly care about brings butterflies in my stomach and fireworks in my heart.. Hehehehe.. Have a great mylot experience ahead!

I think thanking the person for telling how he feels about you seems the only fair thing to do in that situation especially if the feeling isn't mutual. It also sends a clear message to the other person that you cannot reciprocate the feelings he has. Well, assuming the person isn't dense or naive about it. Actually, this was according to my lady friend. As a guy, I haven't had the luck of some girl openly admitting how she feels for me

its all about trust if they love us and seem to be a nice person we can love them also,it all depends on the situation ideally

When I had a suitor like you before, I used to say with them that if they are really true to their intention to have me as their girl they should tell me right in front of me. I do not like them to express their feelings through texts or other person.One of my suitors were very shy so I think he can not do that and I am correct.As a result, nothing happened between us.I have a boyfriend now and he was very vocal in saying that he loves me very much and it sounds great for me and I really love to hear that from him.