broken my heart

October 8, 2012 12:15am CST
my lover is very angry with me,he doesent even want to talk to me,but i dont know the reason,but i know he loves me alot,he cant live with out me,but last saterday i went to one of my friend's house and i just passed time with my friend without talking to him like one hour,so he scolded me for that,but i think it's not fair,and now he doesent want to talk to me,he saing if im with my friends...,im forgeting him.but thats not the true.how ever now he angry with me,but i cant take it,and i dont know what to do.can you pleace tell me
6 responses
• India
8 Oct 12
You are lucky that you got a boyfriend who doesn't want to miss you for single hour. Love talk and kiss will be effective to calm him down. Maybe he loves you more than you believe. Talk with him.
@ajlasent (485)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
That's true, although I think getting mad over an hour's disappearance is a little too much... Or that may be just me.. ^_^ But true, You have a boyfriend who cares much for you so next time try no to worry him by telling him of your whereabouts... ;)
@subhojit10 (7384)
• India
8 Oct 12
Hey i can understand your situation very well and it does happen with most of us. I think u should try to convince him properly that u had almost forgot to give him a call and he should not be tensed about this as u love him very much and no force on earth can tear apart your love for him. I can understand his possessiveness for u but u should also convince him in such a way that he forgives u easily and realizes his mistake. What say?
10 Oct 12
i dont think that is possible subhojit10 becouse if i say like that he'l must tell that im forgeting him when im around my friend,he doesent like like that.so i don't understand what should i say.sometimes he's very strict to me,so im so afraid he'l shout at me.
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
11 Oct 12
Talk with him, that's the best thing to do. Every relationships has up and downs and problem is always on the way. Little misunderstanding may lead into break-up so, better to have it resolved the earliest time possible.
@shreed_14 (460)
• India
9 Oct 12
Hello there. I think it was really mean on the part of your boyfriend to get mad with you just because you were with your friend and didn't call him. And that too for just an hour. If he really loves you a lot he should understand you and not act in such a weird and unfair manner. Just because you guys are together doesn't mean you don't or can't have a life outside it. There must have been many occasions when,probably, he went out with his friends. I am sure you never reacted in such a manner. I think it is necessary that you talk to him and try explaining things. All the best. Hope things get sorted between you two soon.
@ajlasent (485)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
I think that's a little unfair though... He should try to understand you were with your friends. Maybe you could leave a message when you hang out with your friends and tell him you'll be with them for a while so he doesn't get so mad... :) Just try to explain the situation as clearly as you can.
• Canada
8 Oct 12
If your guy gets mad at you for spending time with your friends, then he's no good. I say this with experience, and he will likely become abusive toward you without you knowing it. Though it does already sound like he's abusive with attempts to control you in what you are doing, and whom you are seeing. Seek new love, move on and forget him. He's garbage.