Do you kiss your partner every time he/she left for work?

@simonelee (2718)
China
October 8, 2012 1:57am CST
I read an article online that that those who kiss their partner goodbye each morning live five years longer than those who don’t(befit of kissing). So start giving your partner a passionate kiss every time he/she leave the house for work. I've seen some couples who are no longer passionate with each other, sparks are gone. As if they are bored with each other. I hope you don't belong to this scenario.
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@celticeagle (119865)
• Boise, Idaho
8 Oct 12
My ex was really funny about affection. Sometimes we would kiss good-bye and sometimes we wouldn't. I remember running out to meet him onetime and he didn't like it. I still think that was weird and it was fifteen years ago. I would be tickled if my loved one did something like that to me. Happy to see me!
@simonelee (2718)
• China
9 Oct 12
Girls are sometimes unpredictable. Girls are by nature sensitive, responsive and reactive. Normally they immediately react to any stimulus. However, most of the girls are less confident in any work or situation. Depending on situation or circumstances they immediately react and try to adjust. This is the unlike nature to boys. It is, therefore, difficult to foretell or foresee what, how and when those girls would report to the given circumstance. Generally, the nature of boys and girls are not the same. So, boys have to really work it out with their mind and brains to get near to the heart and mind of the girls.
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@celticeagle (119865)
• Boise, Idaho
9 Oct 12
Girls should be unpredictable. This keeps the mystique alive. lol Girls aren't alway less confident. I think men tend to react and try to adjust also. Men need to talk and communicate so women can do the same.
@natliegleb (5184)
• India
8 Oct 12
sometimes i do that and kiss over her forehead and feel good ,but at times ,if its soon ,we rush off very fast
@simonelee (2718)
• China
9 Oct 12
How about a good by kiss instead?
• United States
8 Oct 12
I don't live with my boyfriend :( So I don't get to kiss him when he goes to work everyday. He's in the army and has been sent to Korea, which is half a world away from where I live. Even though we don't live with each other yet, we still kiss each other everytime we say goodbye to each other and leave to go back to our houses. Sometimes he'll kiss me for no reason, I wonder if those random kisses can also extend the lifespan
@simonelee (2718)
• China
9 Oct 12
Well, you can still give him a kiss through the phone.But, i am not sure if it has the same effect/benefits but i can assure it's a good feeling. Any plan visiting your partner this year? I hope both of you survive in a long distance relationship.
@UmiNoor (3535)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 12
I think I've read about this before. I do kiss my husband every morning before he goes to work or if I have to go out before he goes to work, I will definitely kiss him before we part ways. It's not the passionate kiss just a peck. If it's too passionate, we won't part ways. LOL.
@simonelee (2718)
• China
9 Oct 12
That's nice. Yeah! definitely he'll be late for work.
@nadrolski (220)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
i did not know about that belief! well, for knowing that, COOL! and with regards to the question, YES, i always give a kiss to my wife, as well as my daughter on her fore head, every time i leave for work. for me, kissing them blesses me good luck and energy for my day at work. actually, aside from kissing them before i leave, i also kiss them when i arrive at home from work. and with that, it lessens the stress relaxes me :)
@simonelee (2718)
• China
8 Oct 12
So sweet. Keep it that way and you're family will love you more. Only few men who are tough in showing how loving they are. Your wife is so lucky to have a man like you. Keep it up and you'll have a happy family.
@Raine38 (9195)
• United States
8 Oct 12
I didn't know that, that's cool. I always kiss my husband goodbye whenever he goes to work, it's already a "tradition" lol! We also kiss when he comes home. I do hope that in the following years to come we will still be this way. We're just a newly we'd after all.
@simonelee (2718)
• China
8 Oct 12
I didn't know either. Glad i was in the mood to open my mylot account. It just happened that i read a discussion about kissing and i started browsing to look for the meaning and "different types of kisses". Hey, congratulations. Definitely it will last if you don't put pressure on him, just enjoy each others company and be more patient and open your mind since you're still on a "adjustment period". After two years of adjustment sure thing you master him. Good luck!
@gaiza12 (4889)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
My bf really wants to do this act eveytime we part ways, that was before we left the country for work. I too believe that kissing goodbye to our partners is somewhat giving spark to your relationship. I want to do this when I settle down, I want to kiss my partner goodbye everytime he goes to work or anywhere. Also, kissing him when he gets home or when I get home. I love this kind of showing my love to him. It's simple and might be somewhat a thing that we "used" to do everyday, but for some, it is still a way of showing you love your partner.
@simonelee (2718)
• China
8 Oct 12
Those simple act is a sure score for a lasting relationship especially to those who are not comfortable in saying sweet words. I do love this simple way, it is much better than saying "I Love You". I will definitely do this when me and my partner settle for life.
@momz2gd (295)
• United States
8 Oct 12
I believe it turns into a habit. If you do it everyday, then many people will kiss their mate/spouse. I don't because I am usually asleep when my husband leaves for work. I also sometimes forget, when leaves somewhere else.
@simonelee (2718)
• China
8 Oct 12
Does he work on a graveyard shift? Is he working as a Call Center Representative? You should make it a habit, a habit with love so he will think of you even if he's at work. Excited to come home early. It's never too late, right? He sure thing he'll like it.
@asliah (11148)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
hi, when i had a lived in partner he always kissed me every time he will go to his work in the morning,and that was really such good for me during that time because i felt his sincerity to me,and that i am missing now those kiss in the morning,i wish i could ind another guy that he can always kiss me in the morning.
• United States
9 Oct 12
Hmm that's interesting. Well, I guess my husband and I are living 5 years longer lol. We kiss each other good-night every night, still cuddle when we sleep, he kisses me in the morning when we wake up, when he's leaving for work, when he comes home from work, when he leaves the room and randomly throughout the day if we're passing in the hallway or in the kitchen at the same time. I love that we have been together in all almost 10 years (married for 2) and we still kiss each other like our relationship is brand new. =)
@babyeve (1051)
• Seychelles
9 Oct 12
I do not have a partner, I am single that is. But I bet if I had a partner i would kiss him everyday before going to work. Kissing forms part of a relationship and it is a good thing. It allows you to feel passionate towards your partner and also to keep the sparks like you said between each other. Love should never become boring, we must always find ways to keep it strong and alive.
@riyauro (6428)
• India
8 Oct 12
No I do it sometimes but not always. I forget it sometimes. i wish to do it everyday. Keeps the spark glowing. I think it is a good habit. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
@mermaidivy (15415)
• United States
8 Oct 12
I used to miss my partner more when he went to work because back then, we were fist married and I didn't have families or friends around; but we have two children now to keep me occupied, I don't feel lonely being alone now but still I would like to have him with me when he can.
@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
I still see my parents kiss before one leaves for work. They even kiss each other when they come home, they're together for 32 years now. My partner and I also kiss before anyone leaves for work. We also kiss when we come home. I think it's a nice gesture because it shows the person that you appreciate him/her or welcome him/her after a long day's work. I don't know about living 5years more if kissing, but I think it just intensifies the love and reminds the couple that before they leave for work, someone loves them, and after the long day, someone is home waiting for them and what ever happened during the day, there's someone there who loves them. Have a great mylot experience ahead!