let me burst out what i feel..
By eiram23
@eiram23 (421)
Philippines
October 9, 2012 1:33am CST
Im kinda irritated!!
I'm trying to be good to everbody. Im trying to be the nicest person i can be. But why are some people just so annoying that they really hit the nerve out of me.
I am very vocal with what I feel and I am also sensitive about what other says. I know being too sensitive is unhealthy likewise being insensitive. But I just can't avoid being pissed off by this certain person. He is awful! He sounded so boastful as if he has something to boast. I hate this kind of guys. I just can't imagine seeing myself with such guy.
Geezzz... I hate this feeling.
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16 responses
@allknowing (130066)
• India
10 Oct 12
"What can't be cured has to be endured". I am saying this because I got the impression that you cannot get rid of this person from your life. So the best thing would be to learn to accept his bragging ways.
@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
10 Oct 12
Snobbery ..it is rampant in most circles. People get to boast of their adventures and supposedly brave deeds. Rather than bursting out emotionally at those kind of people it is wise to keep self-restraint to the maximum possible level and try to discard the company of them
@beenice2 (2967)
• Sackville, New Brunswick
9 Oct 12
Well I would ask you, do you have to be in the same room as that person that annoy you? I would try to not cross his path. If you view it in a different angle it can make practice to be more self control in that department. There is some people that can annoy me to at time, and I don't stick around. Just to be helpful.
@eiram23 (421)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Oh no, we dont see each other that much..self control is really important but we have to release also the motions we have inside.. keepin an annoying emotion would freak me out., as much as i want to i easily get irritated, maybe that's one thing i really have to work out.but more often than not, i have to let go of the emotion, bursting it out in any form really help me to get out of that emotion.
@superbadx (484)
• Malaysia
9 Oct 12
Well, i am like you too. That's just the feeling you get when you force yourself on something you don't like. The best treatment would be to be yourself and express stuff in your mind without holding it too much. You can express it in a good way don't you?
@eiram23 (421)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
oh you know what if im pissed off i cant seem to control myself.. i have to relased that emotion or else i will end up frustrated. I get irritated easily but i get relieved easily as well, all i need is to let go of the feeling by simply bursting it out and i will be good.
@artemeis (4194)
• China
9 Oct 12
I suppose we need to be thankful for such irritating people, so that we will know how to appreciate and cherish the good people around us.
To me, I don't have any animosity with those that I could not get along or that they simply do not know how to relate. I would simply look away and do my own bidding. No point spoiling my day just because it will get on my nerve and affect me.
@GemmaR (8517)
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9 Oct 12
It is horrible when it seems as though nothing is going right. I am working from home at the moment and because of that I have decided that I will take over a lot of the house work so that my parents who have to go out to work can rest when they get home from work. However, my younger brother is horrible to me and will never help around the house even though he doesn't have all that much work to do at school. But the only thing that I can do is bite my tongue because I know that it would cause problems if I had an argument with him.
@eiram23 (421)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
oh yeah, especially its your younger brother. Well my sister does the same thing to me before but well she is my sister and all i can do then is to understand. I know, she might not have a lot of something to do in school but i also acknowledged the fact that when we are at school we might not get physically tired but most of the time we get mentally tired. For me that's even tiring. You might just need to understand your brother.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
hi there eiram23,
with regard to your post, perhaps, try not to dwell much on the situation as this will really make you mad though you have the right to blurt out what you feel. and that is just normal. sometimes, we need to yell out just to voice out the angry feeling. hence, this is somehow good for our heart to prevent the cause of having a cardiac heart ailment. anyway, just take it lightly and slowly.
@JijiXcebu (129)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
You can't please everyone. If you even think that, then you certainly may be fooled by yourself or might end up disappointed because you can never please everyone. However you try to be nice. Best way is to act as appropriately as you know and not care about everyone else.
@eiram23 (421)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
absolutely we cannot please evryone and will never happen. Im very much aware of that though.. But sometimes we really cannot avoid ourselves getting pissed off.. as much as we dont want to get annoyed or irritated that wont be possible either.. but your right all i can do is to act appropriately as much as i can..
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
We are all unique in so many ways. We perceive things differently like those people in our neighboorhood. We cannot please everybody to begin with. Maybe we should understand that - "Different strokes for different folks". I think that will help us all.
Just calm down and try to ignore or avoid those people. Smile and strive to be happy.
Thanks
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@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
9 Oct 12
I think you're handling it pretty well. I know how you feel, and while I don't want to take the trouble of getting back to him nor to make that person see that I am affected, sometimes this kind of attitude does get into us. I also do what you're doing, I vent it out even rant to my friends. After letting it out, I feel much better. Knowing that I didn't stooped down to that level plus I was able to make myself feel good are enough for me to cheer up once more.
@eiram23 (421)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
that's more about it.. i get easily mad and annoyed but after bursting it out im good.. all i need is to release all the tensions i have and i feel better. and yeah as much as possible i dont wanna argue with that person, i certainly will just be wasting my time coz i know he has this annoying attitude that i might just freak out if i will to argue with him,..
@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
Hi. I think you don't have to waste your time being irritated with someone you aren't connected to. :) I mean, what's the relationship between you and that guy? Just asking. :) But anyway, I understand your feeling because I have one person whom I am very irritated to. Haha. I think the best way is to ignore him. Or try to abrupt him. :D But I can tell that you don't have to waste your time with such kind of guy. If you can't handle it then just ignore him as if he never exist. Just try. Hope I'd helped.
@eiram23 (421)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
to answer your curiosity, we are not connected, it's just that we have a common friend and sometimes he is around. your probably right all i can do is to ignore. I will lose nothing in doing so. I bet the more i will react with how he carry himself the more his self esteem boost which might further annoy me.
@eiram23 (421)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Ignoring the person at the peak of my emotions won't really help me. I need to either speak it up all atleast release the emotion i have or else I willl end up really frustrated and after everything ha been vented out im good. That's all i really need. and then moving forward that's the time i have to avoid the person so that he wont be able to piss me no more.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
9 Oct 12
Well i can understand your situation very well as this is very much synonymous with many of the people who feel irritated and annoyed in the company of some people. They just try to get down to your nerves and u feel like avoiding them to the core. I think u should do that same thing. Just avoid him and give a damn to whatever he says and be in your own world and enjoy every moment that u have in your life.
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