I take things seriously

Philippines
October 10, 2012 4:55am CST
Hello my fellow mylotters! I really hate one thing about me. That is I take things so seriously and I am so sensitive. I envy a workmate of mine who can mingle those other people, those who can laugh and take things for granted. Every words other people say affects me. It disheartens me if they would say bad things about me. Can you help me to deal with this kind of feeling? Thanks!
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@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Oh. Why don't you try loosening yourself up. It could help you gain more friends and you could mingle with people who haven't been mingled to. :) It's ok to be serious but it's much better to have some rumor in us sometimes. I think you have to be more optimistic. And also try to prove other people that there is always something new about you, that you could also be a person whom they could mingle with. Don't limit yourself to people. Try to loosen up yourself but in the way that they will still respect you. :)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Thank you! I will take your words into my heart. I think I have a personal issue that can be resolved by ME. :)
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• Philippines
13 Oct 12
I'll always do that! I think of God every time I'm pissed. I keep on asking for his guidance.
@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
And don't forget to pray. :)
10 Oct 12
It is not right to be more serious and sensitive towards anything . this is because , it will make you tense for small problem . Once you start to think lightly you can enjoy you work and can communicate with everyone easily . You will love you work and want to be with your colleague in hang outs extra .
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
But sometimes, we have to be sensitive enough. Oh well, I'll keep that on my mind.
10 Oct 12
hmmm good for you dear
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
You are like this person i know. he is really very sensitive as well and he often kind of puts a bad meaning to what people say. there was this instance at one time where he was talking and then we did not notice him and then he acted angry because no one was "listening" to him! i kind of told him about it though, and he said he thought he has already changed but i told him he should just try to not be hurt about everything and that people does not always mean anything bad...
@GemmaR (8517)
10 Oct 12
There are a lot of people who take things seriously in life, and I don't think that this is always necessarily a bad thing. One of the things that you should think about is whether you would be affected badly if something were to happen that you're worrying about. You should think about what the worst thing is that should happen, and I think that you would usually come to the conclusion that the majority of the things that you're worrying about really don't matter at all so you should stop getting so stressed out about it.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
12 Oct 12
I think that you just need to change such bad habbits coz easy to getting along with people is a good social ability and that's you need to learn after step into the society.So i mean this advice not hurt you and hopefully this constructive advice helps to you.Smile more and not all people are just so evil.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
30 Nov 12
Hi, Don't take everything seriously. It would be very bad for your mental health. If someone is talking bad about us we feel very sad. But those people are jealous people and they think we are better than us. So always think about the positive side of everything and not the negative side. If you do this you will be happy.
• Singapore
10 Oct 12
I have to tell the truth that I'm sensitive,too.I care about every words other people say. The difference is,I still keep happy and talk about good things to them, trying to make everybody feel happy and relaxed.I know they said some bad words by accident,not design. So I throw these words out of my mind.If you take these words as a joke,others would do as you unwittingly. If you shows unhappiness, you'll create a negative impression with others. Hope you have a nice day with people around you,my friend!