Break up

I don't think that you should even think about breaking up with people just because you are going through a bit of a rough time. You have to remember that everybody has arguments from time to time, and the most important thing is the way that you deal with it. For example if you talk to the person who you have argued with then you are more likely to sort things out with them than if you just ignored the issue, so you have to talk to them rather than just thinking that you should break up rather than be mature and sort things out.

Of course not. I am the kind of person who doesn't jump into separation or breaking up for misunderstanding or small things. Misunderstanding, ups and downs is common in every relationship. But if my partner doesn't cooperate- there is no need of keeping the relationship. Maybe then, breaking up is the best solution if it doesn't work out anymore.

Whenever something really bad happens between us and I'm in the heat of the moment, the thought of breaking up does cross my mind but I immediately let it go because I know I'd be miserable without him. No matter how angry I may be, I know that I really do love him more than anything and that I need him in my life. Without him, I'd be miserable. Even when we do get into fights, they don't last long and within minutes we're back to laughing together again.

I used to be like that during the first few months of my relationship with my current bf. Luckily, I have a very understanding and patient bf. He never gave up on us. He was the one who taught me how to be a good gf, to work things out before giving up. He would always do the best he can so we can straighten out whatever misunderstandings we may have. After 3 years together, I wouldn't even resort to breaking up with him if we face another challenge.

Breaking up, daring to leave him/her and walking out everytime arguments arise are such a childish act. If there are misunderstanding or arguments, both of you should talk and work things out before the day ends... walking out can't solve it, it might even get worst... Being in a relationship is very challenging, you need to adjust and lower your pride.

Being together as a couple was already a commitment to each other. The exchange of 'i love you' is the security of the commitment made to each other. Why break up a commitment of love over an argument? Why dare your loved one's that you will leave? That would have nothing to do with solving the argument neither would it be loving each other. So think, before you speak. As after he/she leaves, you may never get him/her back.