prince charming turned into my worst nightmare...

Romania
October 10, 2012 2:58pm CST
at least now I know he wasn't meant for me...or I hope I realised. even if I expected him to do that I"m still extremly disappointed. he left me for his ex girlfriend. and what hurts me most is that he told me he only sees me as his friend. well if this is true why the hell did he ask me if I want us to try and have a relationship. I try to stay strong...but still he hurt my ego. I feel so stupid now
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
15 Oct 12
Everyone gets hurt when it comes to relationships. He does not deserve you. So move on and forget about him. Everything happens for a reason. I know how you are feeling right now because I was once hurt myself when I was in my 20's. I thought the world was going to end because I wasn't with the man I so loved and adored. However, he cheated on me left and right because he didn't know how to have a relationship with only one female. I left him and now have been with a great man for the past 24 years who has treated me good throughout. You will one day meet the right man and be happy too. You don't want a man who feels like only a friend. He was stupid to have wanted more if he knew there could not be more on his part. Take care of yourself and go about your business as usually one day you will meet your prince charming when you are not even looking for him. Good luck and God Bless
• Romania
15 Oct 12
I wish I would meet a guy lke that because so far I only had to deal with jerks. I don't know what's wrong with me. it's like I have a special atraction to this kind of guys
@artemeis (4194)
• China
13 Oct 12
There's no better advise here and I would say that it is HIS lost not yours when he chose to return to his ex-girlfriend. Accept the fact and reality that he is history and you are moving on. It is alright to feel sad and angry but you are not being stupid, at least not one at all. However, you need to remember to rise up from this, stand up, shake the sands off your shoes and live better off than him. Make this a clean break and don't look back, you are better off without such a fool like him in this life of yours.
• Romania
13 Oct 12
I'm sad I won't denny. but I try to stay strong. it is hard for me to accept that he prefered her instead of me but this is the truth and I gotta deal with it. that's life and I have to move on
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
Oh no... Never ever do this to yourself again my dear. what he did is horrible! a guy like him doesn't deserve you. I believe that what he did to you is very cruel and he doesn't deserve to be your friend.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
13 Oct 12
Hi swiss, he was just not meant for you, you are right. Just don't think low of yourself. Think positive because you are yet to meet your prince charming and do not waste your energy on these pass by s ..Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
11 Oct 12
I remember responding to one of your discussion about your dilemma. Now, you have finally come to your senses. Don't worry, we all do foolish things for love. You are not alone in this. He doesn't deserve you. There is someone out there who deserve your love. Take time to heal and forgive yourself. I hope you will feel better soon.
• United States
12 Oct 12
I've been in this boat before. He wasn't over his ex when he started trying to date me. I told him I didn't want to be a rebound but he assured me he wanted something with me. The relationship didn't last long and he said we'd be better off as friends as well. I felt stupid at the time but now I realize we probably should have just been friends to begin with.
• Romania
13 Oct 12
he told me the same things. but my question is this: how can I bee friends with him considering what he did. he knew that I had feelings for him and if he wasn't serious about it than maybe he souldn't have asked me to be his girlfriend in the first place. this is just stupid and selfish to me