I'm a mess right now

Romania
October 13, 2012 4:22am CST
after that guy leaving me I needed to go out. before starting the relationship with him I went out once with a guy and he seemed ok.he kept asking me when are we going to go out again. yesterday I was depressed and i wanted to give him a chance. I told him let's go to the park. I got ready and got to the park. but when I called him he didn';t answer. i tought maybe he was in the car and he couldn't answer. i waited for him for 20 minutes and I called him again...but he gave me occupied. I messaged him and he didn't reply. I sent him another message: if you won't call me in 2 minutes I swear I'm going to leave. he didn't do that so I left. I don't get it if he didn't want to see me anymore why he kept asking to see me. now I see that he deleted me on facebook. why all this bad things happen to me?
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4 responses
@kokomo (1868)
• Philippines
13 Oct 12
I think better not to see a guy for this time. It seems that you are very longing to have a guy in your life.Do not hurry your self to be with someone most preferably to guys.Give yourself a break for depression. Go out with your girl friends.Just live your life alone for the moment. Try to pamper yourself also so that you will not get exhausted from your present misfortune with those guys.
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• Romania
13 Oct 12
I wanted him not just any man...but I can't have what I want. with the other guy yesterday I just wanted to go for a walk and talk. I know you;re right. i shouldn't get in a relationship right because I'm a mess. I shouldn't and I also couldn't do that as I still love that guy. it brokes me to know that he's with another woman but there's nothing i could do about it
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@mydanods (6749)
• Nigeria
13 Oct 12
you're in a mess right now and you speak with a vulnerable position. better take kokomo's advise. try to pamper yourself with the things you love. give yourself a break. what hobbies do you love? immerse yourself in them. give yourself a chance to say you didn't love that guy and see how it makes you feel. if you make yourself vulnerable, then you'd regret it for a longer time than now.
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• Romania
14 Oct 12
I know he;s not worth it...he was simply a distraction as I went to a break-up this week. but as I said I don't get his atitude. he was the one interested in me and who would call me and for him not to show up was really surprising and it pissed me off. this is why I left.
• United States
14 Oct 12
Maybe he removed you after he read the message about you not wanting to see him again. I might have done the same as he did. I am sure in time you will meet someone who wants to get to know you. the great thing is that you started to see life without the loser in it. so,now just go out and meet new people and hope for the best with them.
• Romania
14 Oct 12
i tought about it but I have to face the truth: when i was in the park he wouldn't answer my calls...why would he do that? what he did was just nasty and it really made me feel stupid to keep waiting for me. but still I don't understand his atitude
• Portugal
13 Oct 12
he set a date with you, let you stay waiting for nothing, and even dared to delete you from facebook? be strong and thank god for letting you stay away from a guy like this. he doesnt have any feelings. i mean maybe something could had happened and maybe he couldnt meet you but if you got deleted from his facebook is because he just didnt want to contact you anymore. im sorry for your situation but dont be sad. after his bad attitude he doesnt deserve you be sad cause of him guys can really be idiots sometimes
• Romania
14 Oct 12
true but i don't get it. we met the first time and still he was the one looking for me and so on. i don't think that something might have happened that would stop him from coming to see me. he made me wait for him and he wouldn't answer my calls. and this is just a nasty thing to do to someone
@aabuda (1729)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
cheer up girl! Life is too short to be thinking to a person who is not worth it to be in your life! Go out and have fun!