torn between two lovers....

@Magz1989 (272)
Philippines
October 14, 2012 2:08am CST
I can't choose...because i love them both. I hope i don't look greedy about this. But i can't choose on person with different personalities I like. but the other 1 loves me for what i am and the other 1 loves me no matter who I am. Isn't it difficult to choose whose to be hurt and whose to be happy..And it is really hard to think know...head spinning...both are financially able, kind, lovable....Which to choose
5 responses
@Harold_ks (1674)
14 Oct 12
Then maybe you still need more time to really know who really deserves to win your heart. Let them prove you their worth, for sure time will come that one will emerge better than the other. Just don't rush things and also seek advise from your family and friends, and also don't forget to pray so that God will guide you and make you come up with the right decision. Good luck friend and God bless!
@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
14 Oct 12
If only u could have them both lol! I am kind of in the same predicament as u. My husband love me because I mothered his children. He doesn't love all of me and I wish he did. The other guy didn't love me like I love him-now he does and I don't know what to do. I'm just not gonna leave my husband for my ex that is selfish and I'm not like that I still have those feeling I had when my ex and I met and dated, they're not gone. What am I supposed to do with that load? I'm confused. I told my husband about how I felt and I know it hurt him to hear me say that but I had to. I couldn't live with him and be his wife while having these feelings. I still love him my ex like no other. And I still love my hubby. All I can say is date them both for a long time and see who is there for u the most.
@Magz1989 (272)
• Philippines
16 Oct 12
Yeah...i think i should date them more...know them more for i know its a lifelong decision i will take that will involve my whole life happiness...thanks for the comments..
@estremms (324)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
Try to be away from both of them for awhile, just be alone. Then think about your life, get to know yourself, then think about them, maybe by doing this you can choose which one of them is the most dear to you.
@Magz1989 (272)
• Philippines
16 Oct 12
Maybe, that's one thing i should do be alone and reflect to myself...
@natliegleb (5186)
• India
14 Oct 12
it happens ,these are the bad times of life ,we need to push ourself and keep moving further for sure
@GemmaR (8527)
14 Oct 12
I have never really been able to understand why people would think that they were unable to choose between two lovers. I don't think that you can be in love with more than one person at once, so I suggest that you take a little time to think about them both. You should try to imagine what life will be like without each of them, and see who is the one who you be without the easiest. If you still cannot choose then you should not be with either of them because it just isn't fair to hurt their feelings and string them along in this way.
@subhojit10 (7384)
• India
14 Oct 12
Thanks a ton for the discussion. Well i can understand what kind of situation u are going through. It must be very tough to choose who is the perfect one for u but ultimately u have to take a firm decision so that u never regret for the whole life. U should try to think for a while and consider every aspect of both the guys and then take a decision. What say?