Yay! I'm single again and I have the perfect reason to do/be so.
By Resy King
@resy21curapika (2116)
Pasay, Philippines
October 14, 2012 4:07pm CST
I have posted a topic about my relationship loops and hoops between me and the guy that I was dating with after he courted me with all those text and calls, and visits and favors.
Turns out to be that yeah, he is too possessive he can't handle it at times and thus giving us the fuzz to be mad about.
I am a serious girl, stick to only one man and doesn't play too much along with other gender when in a relationship to somebody else. I'm always giving him assurance that he's the only one even thought he had a lot of insecurities to begin with, blame it on that. He's too jealous about me getting along with my life that I had before we have met. The worst thing happened yesterday. the last time we've met was Friday, yesterday we have met again for the sake of having a quality time with him. he seems to be not so happy about it and he got mad as I apologized that somebody stole my MP4 player that he gave me during the event that I was working on, but instead of giving me that "It's alright, Babe" assurance and make me calm down instead, he grew angry about it as if he only cares about that gadget rather than being happy seeing me.
Sad to say, I am very particular with details. First he's not memorizing the name of my brother and my friends and he's not paying attention to things happening to me, too. Then he would ask me again and again as if he's inspecting something about me and my entire life. I have no problem about it as I am very honest and blunt until it frustrates me answering the same questions all over again.
I broke up with him personally. I had to do it. I can't just give him the cold shoulder or just text him. That will give him a mixed signal. For this one, I had to make sure that he knows what are the expected things after I broke up with him. No, don't blame it in those sudden mood swings, it's better to end it up right then and there as soon as you're foreseeing things that are unresolved.
Do me a favor guys and wish me luck in being single again. Hope I did the best decision so far. But whatever the outcome will be, I am not regretting it. Thanks and happy mylotting!
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12 responses
@deazil (4723)
• United States
15 Oct 12
Good luck in being single again!
I'm sure you know you did the right thing. He sounds very possessive and that usually leads to bigger problems. I hope he stays away from you. He may be a sore loser as well. Men like that have an ego problem. I admire you for having the ability to see what was wrong with your relationship and leaving it before things got worse. You're honest and straightforward. Good qualities to have. You made the right decision. Be happy. I wish you a wonderful life!
I'm sure you know you did the right thing. He sounds very possessive and that usually leads to bigger problems. I hope he stays away from you. He may be a sore loser as well. Men like that have an ego problem. I admire you for having the ability to see what was wrong with your relationship and leaving it before things got worse. You're honest and straightforward. Good qualities to have. You made the right decision. Be happy. I wish you a wonderful life!
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
15 Oct 12
Good decision you make it for you , its not healthy to be with a person that is too possessive and jealous . I could not stand if the guy I love not trusting me , it would best to end things if trust is not going both ways . Nothing is wrong with being single go live your life and love will come around again .
@aabuda (1722)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
it's okay girl! have fun...life is too short to be thinking on it...
@gcbarretto89 (44)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
I admire your courage. You a brave and you know what you want. good luck!
@Ivy_Bubbles (169)
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15 Oct 12
I think you made the right decision. You're ex-bf is not yet ready to be in a relationship. He only thinks of himself and how he feels. He has to grow up first before he enters into a relationship. As for you, the right man will come in God's perfect time. In the mean time, enjoy your singlehood and and good luck!
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
That's too difficult for you to end that relationship with him but for me you did the right thing.You should do that for him to realized his faults. He should be considerate enough with your feelings.He's paranoid enough to think against over you.Being single and separated with commitments will help you to avoid being exhausted with each other.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
You did the right thing. It was just a gadget. Yeah, it must be valuable to him but he overreacted? What if you didnkt lose it but something bad happened to you? Which is more better? He should be thankful that you're alright. We can change gadgets but not lives. If he's that possessive, he deserves that break up. He should be mature enough to manage his emotions. Don't mind him already. Move on. Goodluck in being single. Happy mylotting. I guess you deserve a better man. :)
@randylovesdar (4932)
• United States
15 Oct 12
You did the right thing. It seems like your ex cannot handle the fact that you like to do things without him and he is possessive. You did the right thing by telling him about the MP$ player first thing because he did have the right to know. It is weird that he was upset that you cared more about the MP4 player rather than spending time with him. If he really loved you he would want to meet your friends and spend time with your family.
@kyrararen (601)
• Indonesia
15 Oct 12
I am sorry to hear that but at the same time I agree with the decision you made.
tough girl you are!
well, I know how it feels to be in relationship with that kind of guy. if he's not mature enough, you will feel exhausted since well, naturally girls like to feel that they are safe around their man, to make them most comfy around him most of the time.
it may feel a bit lonely right after in a relationship, but I wish you luck and well, enjoy your time. go shopping and hang out with your friends more. ^_^
@riyauro (6421)
• India
15 Oct 12
Oh it is okay in the first place when you sort out things, it is much better. You knew it better and yeah you are strong girl to deal with this and come up straight forward. Good for you and now have fun being single. Thanks so sharing and have a wonderful day ahead 
@felix2000 (2)
• China
15 Oct 12
Sorry to hear that,giel.
Yes,it is suffering to break with the one you love, and it is difficult to meet the one matches us.So dont be sad, sometimes the best one comes late.
Good luck for you and may god be with you.
