how to handle heartaches

Philippines
October 17, 2012 7:33pm CST
as the saying goes when your in loved there is a possibilities that u will be hurt if end for nothing even how many years been into that relationship..there are many ways how it ends..some so hurtful and other are so civil...those who are hurt ended to divert there time into food or worst end there life...can u give me a good advise how to handle where in at the end ur the winner and u eventually u finally moved on...
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5 responses
• Qatar
18 Oct 12
I am not exempted when it comes to heartaches and how to deal with it is really up to you. comforting words from family and friends may be of help but still it is you who can help yourself on how to get over it.Prayers will also help a lot.
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
yes i do agree with you when i was in that situation prayers was a big help..thanks il add u as my friend here
@rsa101 (13337)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
There is no concrete way to really handle the situation. It differ from person to person of course they have their own sets of limitation on how they handle their own heartaches. Well one way really is to accept the situation you are now. Denying it will just make matters worst. Next step would be to heal yourself from the pain and anguish of it. Then learning to love yourself again would be the next step since this is an important factor in this situation to prepare yourself to a new you. And last thing I have in mind is the moving on. All of the above is part of moving on but you can only say you've move on is when you have passed all those three acceptance, healing and loving yourself.
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
yes thanks i done the three steps indeed its correct so im happy now at least i done right.god bless
@Shavkat (54374)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
If you've done the best you could to save the relationship and it still didn't work out, then that's the time you will moved on without regrets. Learn from it eventually.
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
thanks shavkat , always look positively ...always learned from such experienced..
• United States
18 Oct 12
The only thing you can do is try to move on on your own. that will take some time to do as well. Try not to be around the same places where you know the other person will be at. don't take their phone calls either.
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
yes perfectly correct thats what i have done avoiding palces as much as possible that reminds him..thanks and god bless
@Harold_ks (1674)
18 Oct 12
Let Go and Let God... We should learn to let go of that sad experience and just let God handle our life. Things happened for a reason, and let's just put on our mind that God has a better plan for us. Let's just stay good and keep our faith to God. Life is not yet over, wonderful things are still to come. Good luck and God bless!