I Can Write Well When I'm Down And In Trouble, What About You?

Philippines
October 18, 2012 5:03pm CST
When I'm down and emotionally affected, I prefer to express my feelings and emotions through writing. In that point, I will not be hurting anyone. My fingers never stop typing in the keyboard as if the words are coming from my fingers not from my heart and mind. This has been proven to me many times. And take note, I can write even four to five paragraphs especially if I am deppress. What about you, how do you express yourself when your down or feeling deppress?do you write as self? do you hurt someone?do you shout someone? let me know your thoughts.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
18 Oct 12
When I am down and upset like right now, I come straight to Mylot! I find writing very therapeutic. I used to write a daily diary writing about my feelings, emotions and life's difficulties, then my ex found and read them and I felt violated that I burnt all my diaries. I don't write any more, I just type, I come to Mylot because I know people will listen, understand and be very supportive, kind of like therapy really. I am facing the heartbreak of losing a friend of 9 years today and straight away I came to Mylot and put the discussion out there because I know that I will get warmth, support and caring advice given.
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
I'm sorry to hear about your friend. It is really hard to lose a friend especially if you love that person. The last time that felt so down and upset was last Auguts when my bestfriend resigned here in our company. We've been together for one year. We ate together, we go home together. We have hang outs during weekends. then suddenly he resigned for some personal reason. I can't hide my feeling after knowing that he is resigning. a tear fall into my eyes without noticing it. this time i am trying to move on and adjust with the situation.it is really hard from the start. I hope you can handle it. I know god will not give you that challenge if you can't take it. just be strong. we are all here for you. happy mylotting!
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
18 Oct 12
I know it is a 'test' to see how I handle it, and maybe it has happened for purpose, everything has a purpose, and I need to accept it. Life throws us so many challenges, I do wonder sometimes how we face the challenges we are sent are measured when we die.
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• Philippines
18 Oct 12
Everything happens for a reason. so don't be upset or down. I'm sure sooner or later everything will be alright. You just have to hold on. Always remember that "God never closes the window without opening the door."You have a lot of friends here in mylot so there is no reason for you to be sad.Cherr up! stand up and show her that you can do it!
@silentwill (1685)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
I can write well when I'm writing about a loved one. The words simply flow out and I write with such strong emotions. Unlike if I'm writing about something else. The well dries up quickly.
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• Philippines
19 Oct 12
My father was not perfect. He's a heavy drinker and I just found out too that he had other offsprings from a different woman. But he never left us and despite everything I loved him because he's a good person to everyone he knew and I'd still say he had been a good father to us. I miss him terribly and I am filled with much regret that we lost him and now I realize that there's a lot of things I should have done for him and told him when he was still alive. Now I can never tell him, I can never hold him and embrace him because he's no longer with us. So I learned the hard way that we should express what we feel to our loved ones before it's too late. Or regret it and feel sorry forever.
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• Philippines
19 Oct 12
I know right. I saw your post about your dad and it shows that you really love him so much.It is really hard to lose someone you love in your life.I'm sorry to hear about your father.Our father left us on our early age. He goes with another woman.I pity my mom that time so much.I know how frustrated she is that time. I'm glad that she was able to move on. I'm still happy when he left us because he was hurting us especially when he's drunk. I envy family when I see them in a park with their father.how I wish I have one.But that scenario serves as my inspiration to pursue with my goals in life. Now, I agree with you that we can write well when we talk about our love ones.
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
I agree you on that. that's why i am doing my best to provide the best thing for my mom. I want her to be happy in every way. I don't want to have any regrets in the future.she has done a lot of things when we are still young.she really deserves to be treated like a queen. I admired her so much for all the efforts that she had done for us before. I don't know if I can already forgive my dad this time.but as what the saying goes, it "God can forgive, why can't I?" I am just a human and created by God.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
19 Oct 12
hi rberon, I can write out my feelings when I am depressed, but not an article, I find it hard to write out anything on work when I am down.
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• Philippines
21 Oct 12
for me it is easy to right an article when i am down especially if that article is related to what i feel.my fingers where like cramming and feels like someone is running after them because it was really fast in typing.an overflowing information is coming out on my mind when i am depress.
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
That's definitely an effective way to get things going. I'm for one, can write a poem in just less than an hour. We can really draw some inspiration on the thingst hat transpired to us. It is one way to release our disappointments and frustrations, that is in writing. I find it therapeutic, not to menition ,if we share it to others also. Thanks
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• Philippines
21 Oct 12
For me it is easy to write a poem if it is on our own language.it would only take me around 30 minutes and it is rhyming.maybe it is already in our blood as writers.we usually have overflowing informatioon especially when we are emotionally affected
• India
19 Oct 12
Hi friend, good to know that you can write while depressed, i think really you had a unique skill. Most of the persons even writers, don't have the ability to write new articles while they are depressed. I like writing, but i will listen music while i am stressed to come out from it
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• Philippines
21 Oct 12
writers have different approach when it comes to writing. just like me, i have overflowing opinions, ideas and point of view when i am depress. as if there is a person running after my fingers while typing because it is really fast.
@eiram23 (421)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Many times, my armor has been my pen and paper when i am down. I used to have a journal.. Everyday i wrote what happened to that day. But it's been quite long now since the last time I opened it. But most of the time, i have with me my little notebook..I prefer writing it on a paper compared saving it on any of my accounts.. Like I always tell writing has been my outlet for my emotions. Like what you said, no one is hurt, you can express all you want, your anger, your frustrations and your depressions. And when it comes from the heart, it just comes so natural. It flows very smoothly. Sometimes, you can even create a lil story out of nowhere.. It's just so comfortable..
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• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Now, you are upgraded, you no longer make use of your pen and notebook. you can already type in here what you really feel inside. I'm glad that you found this site. At least, this time you are not the only person who is reading it but all the members in the site and the best thing about it is you get their point of view and ideas about your post..from there own, you get a lot of inputs.all you have to do is to combine together and weigh everything and arrive to one decision.
@eiram23 (421)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Thats right.. And for the nth time, I would like to thank you. I am very satisfied. I know especially during rough times, if you share how you feel in here, you'll get a lot of comfort. Not just because we know that we are earning based on how we made our own discussions and how we respond from others discussions but more of the feeling that you have friends in here. They might not be physically with you, they might be strangers to you as well but the thing is, they feel for you and they care for you. You got different insights from them, you got different solutions from your problems and yes their point of views about what you share. It's just awesome!!
@rsa101 (37933)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Yeah I agree to that most of the good writers around became good writers because they were into something that puts them down and gets inspired to write because of this. When the feeling gets too intense writing can sometimes be the best outlet of it since you can focus your creative juices towards it and eventually you get the best out of it.
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• Philippines
21 Oct 12
I highly agree you on that point.an overflowing information and emotions are coming out the mind of the writers and they are emotionally affected whether postive or negative, meyabe its already a nature of a writer.i've been to that situation many times. and after sharing it, the feeling is really different, as if you have a wound that was cured at once.
@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
19 Oct 12
I find writing to be a good way to get my emotions out.. Like you said I am not hurting anyone; well unless I am chewing them out online..lol No I do not do that for the most part.. I feel that when I type out my thoughts they become complete thoughts instead of partical or random thoughts that come to mind.. Also if I decide it is important for someone to see what I am feeling I can send it via email or IM.. This way I am not interupted, my thought processes is complete.. and I have prove that I did explain what I thought.. I have had many people in the past use my words against me.. along with my short term memory, which is not so great.. And it is nice to share things here because I can have others see how I am feeling and recieve their feedback; before addressing the person offline..
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• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Mylot is a very therapuetic site. You get good feedbacks from a lot of members not only from your own community but around the world. Though we have different beliefs and cultures, we still jive in one or more ideas. I really love being here.I am not only sharing my point of view but also I am getting a lot of new information from all the members.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
19 Oct 12
rberon: It differs from people to people. I can write only when my mind is happy and has no problems. If there house hold problems I tend not to write but watch video or read books. I cannot concentrate and write when I am having issues with others,(rarely nowadays--because I know I depend on others for every thing in the foreign country)
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• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Most of you has answered the same thing. you can all write when you are inspired and motivated. For me it's the other way around, I can write a lot when I'm in bad mood or something happened negatively. I tried to write all my sentiments through writing.After receiving some responses,I became calm especially if that response is really inspiring. Mylot serves as my diary everyday. Instead of writing it in a paper, i write it here.
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Well, I also write when I'm down and angry. There were several times that I wrote articles when I was hurt but my teen-aged daughter told me not to post the articles immediately because I just wrote that because I was so hurt and angry. It's true when I was already in my normal self, I decided to defer the posting of the articles.
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• Philippines
21 Oct 12
it is actually a great idea not to post the article at once because all the sentiments are written there. you have to wait for quite sometime for you to go back in your normal self before you post it at least in that moment, you already have a bit of control on your emotions.
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
In my case, I cannot focus well in writing when I'm down or in trouble. I'm really losing my concentration. :)
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• Philippines
21 Oct 12
writers actually have different approach in writing especially in the moment that they are emotionally affected,just like the two us, your approach is that you hardly write when your down, on my part, I can write very well whenever I am down. anyway, it is actually a big deal for us, as long as we get to express ourselves that is all that matters and that is important.
• China
19 Oct 12
Yes I am in the same way with you,when I am down and I will be very emotional and sensitivity,then there are a lot of thinking come to my mind and push me to write something,so I think all the good writer are emotional,do you agree with me?
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• Philippines
21 Oct 12
I cannot say all but most of the writers are emotional. it feels like there is an overflowing ideas and information coming into our mind especially when we are emotionally down.we tend to speak through writing. all our sentiments are posted. as if there are running after our fingers because we type so very fast.
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
I can see myself in you ! When i am so depress i write so well and so fast. I used to write when am so depressed . I poured all my angst and fears into writing , no holds barred. It is so good in writing it don't complains or argues with you . Writing like a close confidant to me , i can be me , no pretensions and hypocrisy. It heals me , it is my solace.
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• Philippines
19 Oct 12
We are very much similar to that. I can say whatever I want to say when I am mad.I can tell it directly and confidently.That is how I express myself. I am just being true to myself and to everyone.Sometimes I can write 5 to 6 paragraphs and you can see all my sentiments on the situation.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Just like you, I can write when I'm broken too. Oh and honestly when I checked my diary, blog site, note at FB, it's funny to admit that I have more write ups when I'm down than when I am happy =) I believe I haven't hurt someone.. but being hurt- well I've been hurt a lot x)
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• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Experiences are great tolls for us to learn.we call it a spice of life. we will not be able to determine how strong we are we were not hurt before or now.the best thing to do is to be careful already the next time you encounter it.you should know what you suppose to do since you've been to that before.
@dfollin (24172)
• United States
18 Oct 12
Hi rberon,If I write properly,it has nothing to do with whether I'm in a bad or good mood.I just write.I love to write,so it doesn't matter.
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• Philippines
18 Oct 12
I can write well when I'm down but sometimes when I'm inspired, I can also right well.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
19 Oct 12
I also write according to certain feelings , happy and sad whatever mood I am in my writing normally reflect it . Just when I am doing more thing I make a lot of mistake because I am focus on too much different things . But whenever I am down , I dont write it down , I may start a article on how to get your mood up .
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• Philippines
19 Oct 12
I agree with you, whatever our mood or our emotions during the post reflect how we feel and how we can relate to the sitaution. it's good that you can write an article to make your mood up whenever your down. it is hard to do it. i am an emotional person that is why I really express myself whenever i am feeling something.writing it down will make me feel better.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
19 Oct 12
I can control my emotions. I can smile even in problems also. my painful past experiences taught those lessons which will bring smile on my face when my heart is filled with sorrow.
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Oh my , i envy you , you are so matured and strong ! Wish i can be like you. I am so the opposite . If i am sad , my face will show it ! I don't know how to cover myself. If i am happy , you need not to guess to tell me , every bit of me is displayed. The problem with me is i don't know how to hide , what you see is what you get.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
23 Nov 12
hi, for me the emotion that i have feel really helps me to create discussion and also to response here,especially when i am lonely because of love,i usually put sad and heart broken discussion,sometimes the more sad i am the more discussion i can create.
• Indonesia
26 Oct 12
I know one thing that I cannot write well when Im tired or when Im sleepy . When Im in a bad mood, I write while listening to music because it can help me to express what I feel inside and make me feel better. I know for sure that I cannot knit or crochet when Im angry because it might ruin the whole project, I'll make more mistake when Im angry so it might anger me more When Im in bad mood and have a lot of trouble, writing can help to let out the sadness or anger, I also go out to walk alone so it can help me to be relax and to find new idea for my next writing.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
19 Oct 12
Hi rberon! Sometimes I also write when I am lonely or emotionally depressed. But if I would choose I would like to write when I am in good mood so I can write good things. Actually there are some articles that I have written during the time that I am really depressed but I never uploaded those articles. I just keep some of those to myself. Have a nice day!
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• Philippines
19 Oct 12
It is also inspiring to write when we are happy. sometimes we are motivated and a lot of ideas are coming out in our mind when we are inspired.most of the inspiring article to write is about love. the words are really overflowing especially when we are in love.