Do you force yourself to be here?

@lynboobsy11 (11343)
Philippines
October 19, 2012 2:39am CST
I know most of us here are been addicted to post and to responds specially the very active members. But I know there is also a time that we got tired and exhausted and sometimes felt that we push our self to much to keep posted and earn here. I just thought this when I was almost half a month away here been busy with offline task. I have my ways to be here I do log in all the time but I don't have courage to respond and post. That's the good thing about myLot although I have lots of friends in my list no one will get mad at me when I don't post discussion for so long no one will get mad when I don't respond to their discussion. In other words I know no one will miss me. That's one thing I love here I don't have to push myself to be here because I have my own time and I'm happy to be like that.
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@joycseer (845)
• Malaysia
19 Oct 12
Hi lynboobsy11, me too! I am like you, being here at mylot willingly. Although i am still new here, but i felt very comfortable here being able to share everything and anything. However, my time and work does not permits me to do this. Whenever during my busy times at work, i will not be able to write because of the time constraint. By the time i go home, i feel so tired and exhausted. Besides, i have no internet line at home, so i cannot login to mylot as well. But the first thing i do whenever i can online is to check on mylot for updates. I am happy to be here to share my part. =)
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
yep absolutely right adhyz.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Welcome to mylot joy, that's a good attitude no one force us here we always have our free will. I came here to be happy in the rest of my days that I'm already off to work in my house I still have my priorities.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
19 Oct 12
lyn, you are right we like mylot, we are glad because of here but it doesn`t mean we forgot our first and second priority.. your home activities is your first activities.. right??
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@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
19 Oct 12
I don't force myself to be here because whenever I am here I enjoy it so I always try to make time as much as I can to be here (without having to force myself, that is). If I can't be here, then I can't. I also don't feel I am forced by anything or anyone to be here.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
I agree and I don't let anyone do it to me also.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Hi mysd
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
19 Oct 12
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@chiumee (850)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
when i was new here, i tend to feel being forced to be here. because i have not been addicted going online. i just drop by and browse my emails and social network accounts and that's it. but hey, i realized lately, it's becoming part of my daily habit. thanks by the way.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
It's not bad to be part of the daily habit as long you did not force your self to do it.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 12
chiumee, so it`s good when you feel addicted no one is under pressure when come here.. we are fun here
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
19 Oct 12
I have to force myself not to be here I have not been here much all of this week and I really shouldn't be here now as there are jobs to be done (the ironing is still piling up ) but I seem to be drawn like a magnet to myLot and once the computer is on then I am here The beauty of myLot, as you suggest, is that we can come and go as we please. There will always be someone around when we can be here and someone responding to our discussions even when we are not here too.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
That's the reason I don't iron my clothes, I used to wash and wear.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Again hello These past few days the magnet of mylot did not work on me
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
19 Oct 12
Maybe you got your ironing done though
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@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
19 Oct 12
Never, I love it here. If someone forces them self to be here, they arent having fun here. I sure am.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
I'm glad that your having fun here.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 12
yeah maria peralta you should be lucky here you can meet many people from many countries i can say that asian country (especially phillipines and india) and america (USA) dominate this forum so you can learn their culture here and it make fun for you and it happens to me...
@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Uhm. :) Yes, like you, I don't force myself to be here too. I logged in here because I like to be here. I enjoy posting and commenting in other discussions. It's like interacting with someone that you don't know but it you still enjoy their company once they posted in your discussion. :)
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Exactly I felt the same way.
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• United States
20 Oct 12
I am new, so I am giving it a try, but I don't want a site where I feel forced to go on
• United States
23 Oct 12
I'm new to this site, I still don't understand somethings but I'm getting to it. I've answered on Yahoo! Answers and I always got BA there so why not try this site and make money for me help! :)
@AmbiePam (85273)
• United States
19 Oct 12
Sometimes I make myself get on here and look at discussions. I get them in my inbox, and it's not that I ignore them, it's just that I don't check my e-mail for a long time. Then I think I should really make at least a few cents a day. So I try to at least answer a couple of discussions a day. I don't worry so much about posting my own discussions as much.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
I'm glad that you don't have problems in posting and still you maintain to make a cent everyday. I already used to depend the discussion in my notification that's make me more easier to access my friends discussion.
@silentwill (1685)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
No, I don't force myself to be in mylot. I want to enjoy my time here so I only log in when I feel like it. In fact if one is to check my history here, he'd see that I'd be active on mylot for a week a month or two before disappearing, for years. I wish I can be more active but oftentimes other aspects of life takes ahold of me and I'll lose focus on some of the things I do in order to attend to them. Mot unfortunaty is one of the casualties whenever that happens. But I always pop back in from time to time. I may be absent most of the time but never will I forget mylot and the friends I've made here.
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
You're right. It's just there waiting for us if we leave for a while. Just make sure to login from time to time to prevent your earnings from being forfeited it you're gone for too long.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
That's what the good thing about myLot it allowed us to have more time in other more important things in our life. Mylot always wait us to drop by.
@Devilova (5392)
• Indonesia
19 Oct 12
Sometime, yes I force myself to be here. Thats happen when I get boring. Mylot is a great cure to wiped off that bad feeling.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
Mylot is the best boredom release.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Oct 12
I not force myself for staying here but my heart says mylot is the best way to share my feelings so I join this. I am the member of 2 years old and I think I will be the member of this site till mylot not throw me out his house. I love mylot friends their discussions, their respond all.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
Mylot who disobey guidelines was the one who throw him away of his house.
@rambansal (574)
• India
19 Oct 12
I don't know whether posting a discussion here is so much remunerative but from the nonsense some persons post here, I feel they may be doing it for money. For a long time, I have not posted any discussion, but responded to some discussions which I found interesting. Yes, you are right, nobody would miss someone if he/she doesn't post here. All have their own problems to solve.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Everybody us here can't deny that we also want to earn even a little cent is a lot of help to a frugal like me. I don't mind people who does posting nonsense discussion it's there own way and strategy to earn.
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@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
We really dont have to force ourselves cause sometimes the more we force and push ourselves the less discussions we think and the more we become lazy. I'm always here and try to be active but sometimes there are times that I am just contented to read post and quite lazy to comment or creat any discussion. Sometimes I am busy with ither aspects of my life and I forget to log in here but I always manage to catch up.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
That's understandable everybody feel the same way too sometimes.
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• India
19 Oct 12
It was only once I was forced myself to be here to make my payout. I was not in a good mood to do mylotting but still I forced myself to do mylot. When I realized that the payout is near my hands then I just created the mood myself and just go for it.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
That's a very good reason to force your self even though we have our free time but we are also here to earn.
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• India
19 Oct 12
Reasons are ones the which keeps me alive in this earth. Without questions there are no reasons and I am glad to tell you that I am here to the prove a question : From where I could have a lot of friends and fun at same time and MYLOT is the perfect answer
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@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
That is the beauty of Mylot ,no compulsion of time. You can be here anytime of your convenience. You are so free to join and be a part of the discussion. No one controls you , it is only you who controls everything. Your earnings in is in your hands. People in here are so supportive and Faq favors the users .
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
very well said my friend.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
19 Oct 12
Likewise Lyn. I come here only when I have time. Haven't really forced myself into mylot ever. Like today I have logged in after many many days (lost count ) and this is the first post I could relate to.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Hi mimpi I was surprised that I saw you here again, I also noticed that your not really active but as I told we have each other things to do other than mylot.
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@gerald_lian (2188)
• Australia
20 Oct 12
Like most of the other myLot members, I also don't force myself to be here. In fact, I think it has already been three days since I have been on myLot and responding to your discussion is the first participation I had in that period of three days. Churning out quality and well-articulated discussions and responses takes time and effort, and for someone like me who works a hectic 9 to 5 full-time job and have many other family obligations to tend to, coming onto myLot every single day without fail is extremely difficult and unlikely. Like yourself, I don't consider myself one of the regular "famous" active myLotters, so I know no one will miss me as well and no one will get mad if I don't respond to their discussions. . My myLot earnings are moving really slowly but I am not that perturbed by that, because my offline job salary is more than enough to support myself.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
Well I'm glad and your lucky to have offline job that are enough for your needs I understand some of the mylotters also try their luck to be active here just to earn even a little money to have.
• Australia
20 Oct 12
Yeah, I guess those myLotters who don't have a full-time job or unemployed will probably be spending more time on myLot than most of us others that do. But that's the beauty of it all I reckon, where the myLot community is uniquely made up of people from different walks of life, different backgrounds, different beliefs etc.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
19 Oct 12
of course not iam here...iam glad and iam ready for any discussion here while dringking coffee.. why i must force my self for coming here??
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
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• Philippines
19 Oct 12
hi lyn, Of course I miss you though we talk on phone or we chat it's still difference if I am talking to you here in mylot. I don't push myself to go here but there are times that I need to be here happy mylotting
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
hmm thanks for missing me too... and why you have to be here?
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Ohhh to do some evil things?
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• Philippines
19 Oct 12
cause a witch should be here
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• Indonesia
20 Oct 12
we have similar habit on mylot,lyn. I never log out from mylot, always on login position and almost everyday open mylot even I'm not post or response single of discussion. this beginning of month, I'm very busy with my collage, so I could not concentrate on mylot. I really want to post some response, but I know that concentrate for my collage is more important, especially because the task had deadline. I still can visit mylot anytime, without deadline of course
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
that's the good thing here that we are not oblige to have activity all the time, it gives us freedom to decide when we want to work.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 12
what is your department redva you take it??
• Indonesia
2 Nov 12
@adhyz: I take "economic management", but I start to think that I'm on wrong department. I'm very worst in accounting subject
@varier (5685)
• Indonesia
21 Oct 12
I don't force myself to be here, yet I keep coming back. Though there are some times when I got really busy or got really bored with myLot so I've been away for long time..
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Everybody will agree to you but for 100% sure too the boredom will only takes for a,while and we always comes back to be here again.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
21 Oct 12
varier, where do you get the interesting and inspirational avatar?? i like your current avatar..
@varier (5685)
• Indonesia
21 Oct 12
If you aware enough, some people were making a discussion about what to do when you are bored/too lazy/losing inspiration on myLot. There are tons of discussions about it. And I always responded it by "Just leave and come back again!"