Do you think it's normal ?

Romania
October 20, 2012 9:34am CST
A friend of mine said to me that he wants to move with his girlfriend. They talk about this big step and they have some discrepancies. I believe that's ok. But what shocked me is that the girl wants very much to spend some time with her friends without her boy. Apparently it's normal and I agree this. But she wants to let he in the house even if he doesn't something to do. I don't think that is normal. So do you think it's normal for my girlfriend to go out without me considering that I do not have any program ?
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@5mahi05 (667)
• India
20 Oct 12
it is very much normal for a girl to think about spending some time with her friends. It always feels good to have some girls time out you know. I also would love that. But you say that she always has plans to make even after knowing that you are free. Well, being a girl, I wouldn't do that. I usually hear such complaints from boys and this is the first time I am hearing it from a guy. i guess you should speak to her about it. That would be good. Because, as far as I know, unlike guys, a girl would always prioritize her guy first and then think about making plans with friends. So, there should be something about the plans she is making. Speak to her about it and get to know what is wrong.
• Romania
20 Oct 12
thanks for the advice. we are talking about my friend's girlfriend. I don't have this kind of problems
• China
21 Oct 12
After hearing your puzzle,I have a soft palce in your heart.In fact,you do not need to worry about this.Because everyone has to do his own things.If you love her authentically,you'd better give her freedom as possible as you can .Your girefriend also think that you can understand her the same as her treating you .Understand?Finally,I hope you could get rid of this.Come on ! ! !
@bembzee (769)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
It's proper. Give some time for her privacy married or not. It will be unfair if you would cage each other. Let your partner grow as you grow. Learn how to trust each other it will give you peace.
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
hi pui, I had a relationship before and before I had this relationship I already had a friends so I want my guy to understand that I need to spend time with my friends without him cause I will also let him to have a boy's night out or spend time with his friends if ever. happy mylotting
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
It's normal for a girl to spend time with friends without her boyfriend. I think your girl is very preoccupied with her other social life that she failed to plan some quality time with you. Let her know about your concern and talk to her privately about it. let her know how you feel about the situation.
• Romania
21 Oct 12
I think that it is normal and that even the boy should hang out without his girlfriend sometimes. I strongly believe that people in a relationship should give them some time without the loved one, that they should have "girl's nights out" or as a boy a sports day with your friends, etc. I consider that it's a mistake to spend all your free time with your lover, but it might be only my oppinion.
@Cutie18f (9564)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
Well in other countries I heard they have what they call a "girl's night out" wherein girls want to hang out among themselves. So I think this is it. Anyway, they're just going to move in one place together, they're not getting married, so I guess they can still do things on their own without including the other.
@GemmaR (8526)
20 Oct 12
I think that this is normal in my culture. I don't know where you are from, but this is very normal here and I don't think anything of it at all. I have a partner and when I lived with him I would go out with my friends all of the time without asking him whether he was okay with it. I also had other friends to stay over when he was away, and none of us thought that it was strange in the slightest. I would never have any kind of feelings for these friends so I suppose that it might be a little bit different if I liked them as more than a friend.
@berting600 (3458)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
My friend Puiuioandaniel,your question is somewhat confusing,that it turns out you have this girlfriend who wants you to be there in her house with you.You are the boyufriend,so it is just very normal you have some intimate things going on in her house.What is your problem she wanted it like that?You have to face the consequence once she got pregnant?Okay,so make the right move not to let her be pregnant in all your happenings there.