problem with your gf/bf

Indonesia
October 22, 2012 7:07am CST
how to make sorry to your gf/bf if yoou have something wrong? whats the best way to tell sorry? what are you doing if he or she not apologize?
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11 responses
@lady1993 (17676)
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
You should just apologize yourself.. no matter who was wrong, you should just tell your partner that you are sorry... so that you can mend your relationship.. Maybe your partner will apologize too..
• Indonesia
22 Oct 12
ok, just hope it hehe
@subhojit10 (7384)
• India
22 Oct 12
Thanks for posting this discussion. Well i think the best way to make your boyfriend or girlfriend feel sorry would be by showing him or her the reality of his or her mistakes. They need to be taught a lesson so that they can get an idea about their mistake and how that can ruin their relationship. If he or she does not apologize then we can talk to him or her in person and make him or him understand about the whole issue. What say?
• Indonesia
22 Oct 12
hmm ok, thanks for your suggestion
@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
The best way to apologize is to admit that you were the one who is wrong or let her realize that she or he has a fault too. It is something that you both have to work out. The best way is to talk and try to figure out why did you have such fight. :)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 12
ok thanks for suggest :)
@langlock (15)
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
just say how sorry you are, be honest about the mistakes you've done and don't make promises you can't keep. Maybe the best way to tell sorry is by being creative but not losing your own identity. If you can sing, sing her a song. If he does not apologize, just wait. maybe he's thinking how to say sorry to you. ^_^
• Indonesia
22 Oct 12
okay thank you for your suggest :)
• Philippines
3 Nov 12
Having troubles with intimate relationship doesn't solve over night. You need to take more time, even days so that your partner will forgive you. During those days, you need to make him/her wait so that he/she will have time to heal for what problems you encounter. After that long period, Try to contact him/her... give her a call or drop by his/her place prepare a deep through explanation about what had happened and apologize. listen to his/her side of the story and don't take it as a negative statement. Lastly, a sweet kiss and make-up will do Magic! Hope this helps.
@Ollanna11 (372)
• United States
23 Oct 12
Communicate another word for talk..talk.. talk. Your partner has to be open to listen and respond. I can't stand talking to someone who can't respond or won't respond the way I'd like the to "lol". Patience too because maybe the other person isn't as emotional as you are.
• United States
23 Oct 12
You can't make a person apologize. Either they want to or they don't. And the best way to apologize is to just come out with it. If your partner doesn't apologize, then you have to decide if you can live without a apology or not.
23 Oct 12
Only true sincerity will get you by, how ever you choose, ensure your recipient know's how sincere you are.. Happy mylotting!
@Bhebelen14 (5206)
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
Usually when i did something wrong with my husband, parents, siblings or friends I stay sorry to them and show how i regretted what i have done. But if my husband did not apologized to me i make him apologized by reminding what he have done and i am glad he's always accepting his mistakes.
@WakeUpKitty (8707)
• Netherlands
22 Oct 12
There is no best way. It all depends on the person and what happened. Also it depends on what you consider as wrong. If you don't think you been wrong there is no need to apologize either. This besides of the fact saying "sorry" won't do it for me. If someone really treated me wrong and would apologize I would still have a hard time to get over my feelings after an apologize. This takes time and an apologize can't change that.
@mariaperalta (19096)
• Mexico
22 Oct 12
Sit down with them and discuss. Thats the best way to get these out there. Have a good one there.