I Am A Little Concerned...

He could have drank after someone who had one and gotten it that way. But if he doesnt drink after other people I would jump to the conclusion as well that he cheated. I hope that is not the case. Keep us posted. Talk to him about it and do some research online. I think they can lie dormant so if he had them ever as teens and hes been sick lately I think they can come back out. I really dont know for sure though.

I think it will make no sense just to keep thinking of that,firstly I think you should take your husband to hospital to cure it then you can find not what it is,if it really is that kind of virus,and I think you need to have a long talk with your husband deeply,then you can make your decision at that time.

He could have had the virus and it has been lying dormant for a long time. It may not necessarily be a cold sore either. He also could have possibly come in contact with something that was already contaminated. If the sore is not leaking fluid, you may not get infected. I get sores in my mouth but they are not cold sores. They come from stress usually.

I think it's a slightly different virus than Herpes but I could be wrong. I wouldn't worry about it though.

You needn't be over anxious.He was probably affected with high fever after catching a cold.Sometimes,there may be a sore throat from a cold.

No, this doesn't necessarily mean he had an affair with someone.I had this problem.It sometimes indicates a weak immune system.Creams can make your husband lips look better, but it will come back every year, in wintertime or even in spring.It's an annoying virus and is actually incurable, but you can make it "sleep" when you strengthen your immune system.Avoid stress, forget junk food and sleep enough.Take care of yourself.

LOL, people get cold sores all the time. It's the herpes virus, but not like herpes you get from an STD. My dad gets them all the time. He takes Lysine to get rid of them.

Hope you dont catch it too make sure he take care of it before you go making out now . Maybe he has done something are just happen to kiss someone that has it could just be a friend .

I know I'm a bit late here, but isn't it great when we have myLot as a sounding board? I think I get moments like these too, when I panic, and I need a few people to sit me down, and tell me like it is. That I don't need to panic, and that all I need is more information. Glad that the cold sore was just that (and not something else 'behind your back').

I dont have much of idea on this one for sure. But as a person and friend, I would suggest that right now, the path of action should be finding a cure. The suspicion and doubts can wait and maybe they never existed. So stay calm and take care of yourself and family first.

If you would get them, then your husband got herpes from somebody else. But if it's just ordinary cold sores brought about by lack of vitamin C or too much exposure to the sun, then you won't get infected. They said women's instinct are too strong sometimes, but I don't want to dwell on my instinct alone. Just observe what's going to happen. Knowing you and how you talk about your husband, i don't think he's capable of fooling around.

Well the most important part of a relationship is trust. So trust your husband until you other wise see that he is lieing. You should always make sure your suspicions are correct before you accuse. So talk to your husband try to find out how he got it and then attempt to cure the sore.

Now I wonder what people think of me, since I get them all the time and I usually have them for weeks. For me I am the only one in my family who gets them, and I get them when I'm stressed, when my immune system goes down i.e. cold, etc, also when the weather changes. But yes if you kiss someone, swap spit, drinks, even lipchap your likely to get them. I know I borrowed my friends Blistex and I pulled out a mini q tip container. She thought I was nuts but it can spread by contact. My friend never had cold sores before, and then she got ne. She called me up panicking. I thought it was hilarious, but again something someone with a cold sore touched, then you touch you lips.

i suggest you can take it more easily,just don't make a big deal about it,maybe it is just a small bump,it is not that serious ...and a couple of days later, it will disappeared..

It's the herpes 1 virus. Just about everyone has been exposed at one time or another. It's not sexually transmitted. Herpes II is sexuat transmitted. These two viruses are essentially identical except for where they form. They come out when the immune system is lowered for whatever reason. I have one on each side of my mouth right now. They came back out after being so sick for so long. It's kind of like mono. Everyone or almost everyone has it but never knows it. My daughter's doc told us that this was why her spleen was enlarged due to mono. I told the doc she never had it. And that is what he told me. It's similar with herpes 1. We are almost always are exposed to it. It's similar with herpes in that we are almost always exposed to it in some way. All it takes is a lowered immune system to bring it on.