How to be independent,a girl?

China
October 25, 2012 10:05pm CST
I am a girl from China.I love my parents and brother so much.I want to take care of my parents and take them to beautiful places.However,I do not have money as salesman.Sometimes,I feel a just like a little relying on my parents.From the bottom of my heart,I do not like the life.I want to fly high to be independent,to be successful,but how?Who can tell me?
3 responses
• China
7 Nov 12
dear avazhang, it is nice to know that you are also a chinese yong girl, the same as me. you have gotten a job when you are so young, it is better than many other people in china, though i don't know whether you are in china or not. so just make more efforts on you work, one can succeed no matter which jog he is doing. there are alot of things more important than money and travel for your parents and family. thus, take more time to love them is enough now. you can do better in the future.
• China
7 Nov 12
xiaoyang,I am in Shenzhen now.I do agree with you.Knowledge comes first.At present,it is crucial for us to learn more,not money. Where are you?
• China
8 Nov 12
wow, it is so near btween us, i don't know whether you heared about a place called ChangAn which is a small town not far from BaoAn region of Shenzhen. i am here for my new job and for my boyfriend who has been here for about 3 years. I really like the climate of Guangdong province. wish you a good day!
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
Hello, there are a lot of ways for someone to be successful. It's all in right timing, for the mean time you having a job is considered a success although this pays you a little despite it, you are successful in some little ways because you helped your family in some ways. I suggest that while you are still looking for something that would profit you more, you should also save more for your future. in that way, by saving, you can put loads of money for future use. This also is a good way to save and to invest in the future time.
• China
2 Nov 12
yes,thank you for your tips."success"do not mean you earn high salary,but improve ourselves step by step at some aspects to enjoy the joy.When we learn more,success will follow us.
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
Couldn't agree more. Success doesn't count money but how you cope up with life's challenges. It's how life works! we do not live with luxury,fame, or money. However, working hard to experience is a true definite meaning of success.
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• Philippines
26 Oct 12
I think one way is to study hard and then become a high-paying employee somewhere ... it seems the other alternative is to innovate something new ... based on a need that is not yet defined , but exists ... The great businessmen "knew" what was needed and kept going until one day the world repsonded positively ... I think there are many angles to this topic, perhaps one of the best approach is to be true to one's self and answer the million dollar question: ... how can we truly truly truly "Be." What do you think ?
• China
26 Oct 12
Yeah,at present,my understanding of ‘independent’is to have my own thoughts which is correct definitely not under charge of others to do things and ‘independent’in term of own economy. For your second point,i do believe it is beyond my ability this life.But thanks a lot. I truly agree with your third opinion.It is vital for one to be the person that he or she truely wants to be,to be the one that we are expected,to be ourselves...