Why woman and man tell lie to each other?

China
October 27, 2012 7:49pm CST
Never cheat those who love you, because they can easily know. Do you know the biggest different between man and woman? Woman lying is to let herself being comfortable and man lying is to let the other feeling comfortable. We choose decieve for not to hurt those we love,we are not mean to but have no courage to hurt the other, so we hide the truth.
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14 responses
28 Oct 12
In my own opinion Man and Women tell lie each other because they have different personal matters. And sometimes we do lie because we don't want to hurt someone. Happy mylotting!
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@caopaopao (12535)
• China
28 Oct 12
yeah, I agree with you. People just don't want to hurt others, I think this kind of lies are acceptable.
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• China
28 Oct 12
Thanks for your comments, yes kind lie is easily to be accptable and make the others feel comfortable. Have a nice day!
@Bhebelen14 (5206)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
The question is, if we really love our partner, why did we resort to cheating? There's a lot of topic related to cheating here in myLot and I got a lot of them responded. I believe there is no difference between man and women when it comes to cheating. Man or women tend to resort to cheating just to protect their respective relationships. I'm for one, wont tell that I will ever cheat, because that act could be accidental and it could happen as a result of an event that is not expected. You are right, we chose to deceive rather than hurt our partners. Now, I would do my best to remain faithful and stick to my partner and avoid circumstances that is too close to temptations. Thanks
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• China
29 Oct 12
Thanks for your comments Bhebelen, as you I also don't like cheating in our life, if we can make our life easier why not? Wish you a happy day!
• Philippines
28 Oct 12
I don't know why people keep cheating. May be because to some people, it's in their nature to tell lies and stories. :)
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• China
29 Oct 12
That's true, anyway cheating is not easily to be accepted, it caused more bad results and good results.
@WakeUpKitty (8706)
• Netherlands
28 Oct 12
Adults teach children not to lie, they even punish them for that. But how come adult lie that frequently, day in and out? It seems to be into most human beings. Also that human beings don't like to hear the truth. Even if they claim you have to be honest. True hurts and most of us see it as a personal attack, jealousy or envy. They prefer to be blind and deaf since this way they don't need to act. People tell lies everywhere. At their job, in the shop, on the street, to family, strangers, their partner and kids. It's not true they only do it to feel comfortable, it's more a way to make the other one shut up and not asking anymore. Since if one person starts asking questions the other one has to think and come up with something. BTW what a lie is, is different to each of us as well.
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• China
28 Oct 12
That's quite true we all were taught not to lie to others when we were kids. Now we have grown up and we begin to teach our kids not to lie,however we can't control ourselves not to lie, that's really a pity. Thanks WakeUpKitty,have a nice day!
@lady1993 (20026)
• Philippines
28 Oct 12
Yeah, i kind of agree with what you said. Most people who are in a relationship lie in order to not hurt their partner.. but they do not realize, or they realize only later that telling the truth is the best way to keep the relationship alive.. Honesty should be in a relationship.
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• China
28 Oct 12
Be frankness and honesty is important in a love relationship and it is necessary to keep the relationship steady, so if we can try to avoid lie.
@gary23 (425)
• India
28 Oct 12
That's true that people lie to each other even when they are in love. But most of the times, it becomes necessary to avoid fights or disagreements or fear that one may lose love and respect. However, keeping clarity with your partner and keeping him or her informed about everything is the best way to be in one's comfort zone.
• China
28 Oct 12
I agree with you gary,if it is possible we should try our best to avoid lies appear in our lives.
@Paper_Doll (2375)
• Philippines
28 Oct 12
I think that people, both men and women, lie because they have misconception about lying. They think that as long as they don't hurt other people, it is all right to tell a lie. Some would say that they lied out of love. It is like if you lied so as not to hurt people you love, it is just right to lie. People lie to escape, be it from a punishment/discipline or from reality. In my opinion, all the reasons I have mentioned above are all wrong. The bible has warned us many times not to lie. Why? At John 8:44 we can read: "You are of your father the devil, and you want to do the desires of your father. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth because there is no truth in him. Whenever he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own nature, for he is a liar and the father of lies." Here, the bible said clearly that God does not approve people who lie. Their nature (lying) is not from God but from Satan who is the father of lies. Lying originated from the Devil so whenever people lie, they are making the Devil happy and not God. Instead of lying, God has remind us to be always truthful and honest. Hebrews 13:18 Pray for us: for we trust we have a good conscience, in all things willing to live honestly.
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• China
28 Oct 12
When we was young our teachers all told us we should not lie to others, you are right paper_doll,lying is not a good thing, one lie would be explained by many other lies.I appreciate your comment my friend thank you.
@rberon1985 (5394)
• Philippines
28 Oct 12
As the usual belief of other people,man most of the time lie rather than woman.I don't know how did they come up with that concept. Anyway for me it is always in the mind of the people. I can say that i do some lies(sometimes white lies) for the betterment of the relationships and to avoid quarrels.sometimes girls misinterpreted it and they even react and hallucinate wthout listening to any explanations. But still I stand to be honest with my partner so we will have a succesful and fruitful relationship.as much as possible, i don't want to tell a lie,
• China
28 Oct 12
You are right rberon girls like to hear lies and also easily doubt them,they always expect more love from men.
@silverfox09 (4727)
• United States
28 Oct 12
I think people have many different reason to lie , some to have their cake and eat it , it also depends on the lie , if a girl ask a guy how she looks and he say good! well that is a good lie but for a cheater to pretend not to be cheating I cant see the positive in that , he is putting is partner life at risk for catching STDs . Some people are just mental case that lie about everything . While some may lie to protect the one they love and I am not talking about cheaters that are lying . I am taking about someone that truly love his/her family and will rather die than see risk come to them .
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• China
28 Oct 12
Thank you silverfox, I often saw different ideas from you, you are right. A lie may have different ways to speak, and to different person it have different meanings. Have a nice day my friend.
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
28 Oct 12
Not all the lies we commit are intentional. I guess, we just resort to lying so as to not to inflict harm to your partner or you would like to spare your partner from being hurt.
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• China
28 Oct 12
That's true jenny,maybe sometimes we think too much and afraid of cause misunderstand then tell a lie.Wish you a nice day!
@Tongcv (173)
• China
28 Oct 12
Between men and women.women sometimes tell lies in order to see the other sad or to make someone fell disappointed,and in order to the point of vanity and lying;man in order for her to agree with him in front of her ostentatious and extravagant,lie for her life.
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• China
28 Oct 12
I agree with you Tongce,man and woman may have different aims to tell a lie,most times woman tell a lie may wish a hug or understand from the man,and man tell a lie want to comfort the woman.
@Sir_bobby88 (8244)
• Singapore
28 Oct 12
Well i am going to look at the positive prospect of why man lie to woman. I think that man lie to woman because they actually care about how the woman feel, if the man is being to frank to woman is never a good thing and maybe there is no longer any love because he care more about himself.
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• China
28 Oct 12
You are right, one of my friend told me " If you marry to a man who would like to cheat you for your whole life maybe also a happy thing".
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
28 Oct 12
Your point is debatable and all I can say is lies are generally said for many purposes, but definitely to hide the truth. In most instances because the truth is painful or just plainly difficult to accept.
• China
28 Oct 12
You are right white lies are acceptable even be found later, but lie to other really tired.Thank you choybel, have a nice day!
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
3 Nov 12
It may be acceptable but it is not truly recommended. Sometimes, the truth is just way better, no matter how hard it is to swallow or accept. It's also redeeming, kind of releases you of a burden. Constant practice of lying can be dangerous and can ruin relationships.
• Kenya
28 Oct 12
In love I would advocate that both women and men tell the truth. When you fear that by saying the truth it will hurt just remember; whatever you're hiding in lies when discovered it will hurt even more. So be open, truthful and trust that the love will do the trick in forgiveness.
• China
28 Oct 12
That's true, some lies may be discover in future and it may cause more hurt, not include white lies, but if we want our life to be simple avoid lies.