You can't please anyone: individual Differences

@Magz1989 (271)
Philippines
November 1, 2012 3:56am CST
No matter how kind you are, no matter how generous you are and how hardworking you are still many people will brand you as feeling nice. I really don't understand those people, are they jealous or they had just nothing to do but destroy other lives. Why do they fix their lives first before they comment on the other. They really love to see you down and even step you down more closer to the ground. This really sucks me...these kind of people and worst they are to many in my workplace....to bad " same birds of the same feathers flocks together and since i am different i suffer to much.
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@eiram23 (421)
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
It sounds awful but that's the bitter reality. People tend to bring you down instead of lifting you up. This cannot be avoided. wherever you are, whoever you are even how hard you try, you will not be able to please everybody. Maybe just never mind them. It's easier said than done but that's the best thing you can do. Don't dwell too much on what others would say, stay focus on positive things and be with people who have positive outlook in life so you won't end up a loser.
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
Hi! We really cannot please everybody. And we should not please them all too rather we should please God. People differ from each other and we should accept that. However, some people cannot accept that people are differennt from them, that is why they are hard to please. A lot of understanding is needed for them and pray for them too. God is the only one who can change a hard heart. Do not occupy yourself too of the thoughts of them. Just move on with your lives knowing that God is on your side.
@mzz663 (2772)
• United States
1 Nov 12
Even though there are people like that, there are just as many nice people. funny thing about people like that, the ones that destroy others lives, karma comes around and bites them later down the road! That is always something I look forward to. Seems time fixes them and fixes them good!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
Some people would be envious of what you have or what you have achieved. And their means of getting it even is by spreading rumors about you. Lame, right? But that is just the way they do it coz they could not think of anything else on how to beat you. Just do not be bothered by this kind of people. It will lead them nowhere. The most important thing to remember is that there are other people, too who knows you well and that you can provide that you are a much better than those people stabbing you.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
1 Nov 12
You can't really please everybody. You will end up hurting yourself and the rest of them will still not be happy with whatever you do. I'm sorry to hear that you have lots of people like that in your workplace, but then they're everywhere. As much as the nice people are also everywhere. Just do what you need to do and do a good job. You're there to work and earn a living anyway and not to be popular and expand your social circle. Im sure that there are still a couple of genuinely nice persons there. It's tough but then, when is life ever easy? Just be yourself and. Long as you know that you're not hurting people, you will find out that you can be happy despite the presence of the negativity.
@seliokas (346)
• Lithuania
1 Nov 12
Hello, No one can please anyone, some people are different, they hate very single people around, they get annoyed for nothing and they make people sad, you just can't do anything about that. But you know, try avoiding them as much as possible. I'm sad you have bad co-workers since mine are really good. Happy myLotting!
@jdalaqui (1073)
• Philippines
1 Nov 12
No matter how you act as good as you should, no matter how we do our best, no matter how careful we are, no matter how we behave, there are still people who will look at us as someone unpleasing. There goes the saying, "you cannot please every body." The best thing then is to act, live and work the best way we should for the Glory of God , not to please anybody.