Tough situations..

India
November 1, 2012 9:03am CST
This year has been full of troubles for me, it started with financial issues which are still continuing, then mental pressure and then a dispute with my friend and now I have come to know that my credit report is incorrect and because of that I'm unable to take any kind of financial help from banks. Things are getting worse day by day..don't know how to handle this and I feel sad that no one is there to help me out or at least be with me at this time...it's said that life has ups and downs but when you go through situations like this in your life, it feels like hell
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10 responses
• India
2 Nov 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about your situation. Don't give up your hope and confidence, you have the ability to over come from this hard time. Trust god and pray for your peace. The almighty will give the power to you to solve all your issues.
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@seliokas (346)
• Lithuania
1 Nov 12
Hello, For financial problems i would recommend you to find a part time job within your recent job. It will help you thought your financial problems. And for non-financial problems i offer you to make coffee, sit , and calm down, then grab your phone and meet up your friends and just hang out, maybe it will be place where you meet people who will be with you in these hard times of yours. Life isn't always happy and true, you should have known that. Happy myLotting!
• India
1 Nov 12
Hi seliokas, Thanks for your suggestions, I will try to change my routine. It's not easy to get a part time job in my country but I'll try to do something..
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
3 Nov 12
It is the law of the world that every bad situation has an equal amount of good. We must teach ourselves to find and see the good that comes from the bad. I know it seems difficult sometimes, really difficult actually but it can be done. Besides, as time passes things get better. Nothing stays the same. The more you are able to look at the whole picture and see the positives that are there, the better your life will be. I can promise you this. Another thing, while ever you are a member of this site, you are never alone.
@mzz663 (2772)
• United States
1 Nov 12
I am a true believer that positive thoughts get us through the rough spots in life. You say that things get worse by the day, but is that really true? There are things that can make everything better. You can get a free credit report, whether it's online or after you get a denial letter you can get a free copy sent to you. check into what it says and call or write (or both) to the credit company with the bad information. It can get fixed and get better! At one time I was making car payments but kept getting late letters sent to me from the finance company telling me I was behind and the payments were triple of what my payment was. It was someone else's late payments that were making my credit bad, they had the same name as me. Also, I was listed as having late house payments for an address that I never lived at. Get your report, check every part of it and see if it can be fixed.
• India
1 Nov 12
Hi mzz663, That's exactly what I've done, I've got the credit report, it's incorrect, few important details are missing in this report and I've written back to the concerned department but they are saying it'll take some time may be more than a month..that's something frustrating for me at this time and as you said, positive thoughts are something that get us through, that's what I'm trying to do, I'm trying to look at the positive side of everything but you know sometimes, you just feel..it's too much.. Thanks for your response, mzz663.
• China
1 Nov 12
LIke most people i was also put down in the dirty puddle till now this year.I got business problems,financial fraud and the couples trust,i worked hard to figure out what ways i should take to deal with them .Though i didnt get it yet i wont be back off as long as there are still strengths with me.
• India
1 Nov 12
Hi eagle2lie, I can relate to your situation, it really hurts when things go wrong and you are not responsible for it but as you said, all we can do is to try to deal with the situation till the time we can make things better for us. Thanks for your response, eagle2lie.
• United States
2 Nov 12
I am so sorry you are having to go through these hard times!! I will tell you though that there are many people in your shoes..you are not alone in this. I wanted to tell you that I am a 40 year old woman that cannot work anymore due to Rheumatoid and Osteoarthritis. I am getting to the point that sitting is even difficult for me unless I position myself when I am leaning back or even laying down. Standing for very long is a big no, no. The pain can be extremely unbearable. I am married, so my husband working has been a lifesaver, but before I had this happen, I was a strong, hardworking person with a huge future ahead of me. I had to quit a job that meant the world to me and made a great living. Several months ago my husband was laid off after being at his job for more that 15 years. We were in a bad situation..we lost our health insurance..so I was not able to go to the doctor..that being said my husband was determined and with a couple of months he began working again and we have health insurance again...I know times are really tough for you right now, and I wish that I could help somehow but please don't get sad, it will be okay. When I am having a tough time I always think of people that have it way worse than me..and boy does it help. Keep your chin up because there are way better things ahead..I promise.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
1 Nov 12
It is a shame your life is full of troubles. I think it would great if you got the incorrect credit report changed to have the correct information on it. In my home country some people get a credit building type of credit card then pay off the whole balance each month. Once that shows on the credit report it will show you are sensible with money. Alternatively I recommend you sorting out your earnings and making a budget for your spending. Maybe you could eat cheaper food. Good luck. I eat a vegan diet. The supermarket changed the recipe of the salad dressing we liked eating. I eat ever such a lot of salad so that was devastating for me. It was to only salad dressing that didn't have egg in it that could be bought at a supermarket. I don't live near to an excellent health food shop. On an expensive website I had a minimum order of 35 pounds so I included a vegan suitable salad dressing. I quite like the taste of the pricey and hard to find vegan suitable salad dressing. I have ordered six bottle of it but I am still waiting for it to arrive. I picked up a can of vegetable soup and it said new recipe. I was dismayed to read they now have cows milk in the recipe. Why I wondered. Off I rushed to a different supermarket and was delighted to buy 19 cans of the vegan suitable vegetable soups. How lucky I was to get old stock. I will be sad when it runs out.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Nov 12
I totally understand stress and pressure. I have had my share of major problems as well. Financial, depression, and physical problems. I am no way out of a hole yet. But I am trying to get there. I do see some light at the end of this tunnel. But it still seems far away.
• China
1 Nov 12
There's always unhappy times happened, and that is life. Keeping optimistic,frustration can make you strong sometimes.Have a nice day!:)
• China
2 Nov 12
Yes life has ups and downs,so when you under a down situation you should have a strong believe and a strong will,you have no choice but just face the reality and get through it. The cart will find its way round the hill when it gets there -- things will eventually sort themselves out.So dear friend,I believe that there is not doubt that you can overcome every barrier in front of you and everything goes to better.