Ideal children

Hi Jenith, surely in order to have a complete feel of a family is to have children. However, it also depends whether the couple has the financial ability to support the child. If yes, then they can go ahead with it. Otherwise, will need proper planning to build up the foundation before the children comes to place. This will not only prepare the child a healthy brought up environment, and also the parents wouldn't feel so burden as they have prepared well financially for the child. Normally a family would prefer at least 2 child. This is because having 1 would be lonesome to the only child. But it all depends on the couple whether or not they can afford supporting that number of children in the family. Nowadays is not easy to take care of children. Their expenses a month can easily be more expensive and higher than adults. For a more well off family, they can have as many as they wanted to as long as the child is given proper brought up and education. I have seen some families giving birth to more than 5 children in a family. And then complaining to the government that they couldn't afford bringing up the child. If cannot bring up the child, why give birth to so many? Not only it burdens the family, but also the child is not being well taken care of. This end up having the child roaming around like gangsters with no proper education due to family lack of funds, and causing trouble to the society out there. Why would a parent want their children end up like that? So, the best would be to have children within your means and ability. Give the best care, nourishment and education with proper brought up, so that your child would be useful person to live a proper life they can when they grew up. =) That is what a parents heart would hope for the best for their children. =)

With our present economic situation, I guess having 2 children is fine. It is really difficult to make both ends meet. While it could be true that having a big family would be so much fun, but still, the amount of time that each children need is of utmost importance, as well.

It is one of the reasons for getting married, but in our case e had decided that children were too much of a responsibility. However when we got a little older we thought maybe we would try... and a little girl came along. By this time we were too old to have any more than one child. It is lovely to have one and be able to devote all your timer and energy in this way, but equally it would be nice to have two so that they could learn to interact together. You should not feel any external pressure to have 1, 2 or more children, you should decide if you would like to have a child and see what happens. Later on if all goes well, maybe you would like another - maybe circumstances dictate otherwise. You should make the decisions that are right for your circumstances, your marriage and your family.

i could have two if i wanted. but for health reasons, i opted to have one. of course that was planned, and she is a blessing. now she is married with a girl of her own.. our angel. have a nice day. ann

Hi friend, our life will be fulfilled after getting marriage and giving birth to our kids. In this modern world, due to the heavy population, one kid is enough for a couple. By the way i have two sons and living happily with them

I think you need to consider the economic status. if you have the ability to have more than 2 children it would be fine.

A couple need to be in love and feel they are fully compatible to get married. A house becomes a home when the couple have a baby. He or she grows into a child. The ideal number of children depends on the size of the home and the couples finances. One child can become lonely or become spoiled. Two children can keep each other company. If the couple are wealthy having three or four children is a lovely possibility. If a lady has a baby in her early twenties and then two more children after age thirty five years old it is like having two children that have company in the end. I feel that my older son felt lonely growing up and he didn't get a brother until he was 12 years old. He got a sister when he was 14 years old.

Every family has its own situation. My husband and I always said that we were going to have two kids. Hopefully one boy and one girl. We were going to have them pretty close together so they would grow up together. My little girl will be 4 soon and we do not have a real plan to have number two anytime soon. Financially we are just getting back on our feet, and am afraid that having another child right now would jeopardize that.

We have family planning policy here in China, if it is admited I want to have two kids.:)

Depends on everybody situation. Financially, 2 is double of everything. But having one, you may spoil him/her. So they probably end up almost the same. Boy and girl also different. Some wants 2 because want to have a girl and a boy. Some already have 2 boys or girls, and want to find the other gender, so they go for the third one. Depends on your partner as well. Your partner may want to have more/less kid. There is no rule.

If I would have to decide I prefer to have more than 1 kid but unfortunately because of health reason that my uterus in incapable to bear more kids,can't do nothing than to have only 1 ...