Which do you prefer... sweet guy or not so sweet guy?

November 2, 2012 12:04pm CST
In my relationship now, I'm having trouble to adjust things. My boyfriend is so sweet. I can't handle it. I think it's because of my past. it's hard to move on if your partner is so sweet and then one day he'll change... right? that's why I don't like sweet guys anymore.
7 responses
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
I personally prefer sweet guys over not-sweet ones. I don't know, I just like being cared for and being pampered like a baby.
3 Nov 12
Well, that makes you a sweet girl... And that kind of people is hard for me to deal with. :)
@mzz663 (2776)
• United States
2 Nov 12
I had to laugh. This is how my boyfriend is, we don't fight and argue like I used to do with the ex. arguing and defending myself became a way of life for me and it took a long time to realize that this is the way I like it, quiet and no arguing. I remember talking to my sister when I first started seeing him, telling her it was weird and I thought something was wrong because we talk & don't argue. If I go shopping with him, he doesn't ask questions about why I want something, he just gets it for me. I used to have to fight for anything I wanted and don't anymore. Maybe you'll get used to your sweet boyfriend and realize this is really what you need.
3 Nov 12
Isn't that boring? having no fights? no challenge in your relationship? get used to? I hope so.. haha It's quite impossible based on our situation today. I barely call him. I think my love for him is starting to fade.
• India
3 Nov 12
What you mean for sweat guy? Funny, interesting more lovable guy. If that is yes means i not prefer sweet guy for strong relationship we need more than sweet guy.
@mydanods (1017)
• Nigeria
3 Nov 12
that means you like bitter guys? i like sweetness in relationships; only if they are sincere. relationships, my pov, are supposed to be sweet or that is how we expect them to be and not bitter. check his sincerity; that must be where you have a problem from the past.
• Philippines
3 Nov 12
That's funny though, i used to had a very sweet guy before as even when we walk he always hold my hand and used to wipe my sweat with his handkerchief even in public and used to buy me flowers and other gift then after a year he just gone like a wind and left me pregnant Though after 3 years were able to met again and his back to his old self trying to be sweet with me again though i told him there's no reason for him to do that coz we don't have any relationship after all as i only agree to met up with him to settled things for our daughter sake. Though when accompanied me in going home and since its more than an hours travel i tried to have a nap then i felt his hand trying to get my head to his shoulder while were inside the bus then he extend his arm towards me
@pecito (304)
• Bulgaria
3 Nov 12
Your observation just proves my theory that women like bad boys. Girls just want to have fun and sweet boys cannot give them the entertainment they are looking for. I think sweet boys are boring because they are predictable and too mushy for me. After all, 'sweet' does not sound masculine to me and someone describes a boy as 'sweet' I would definitely stay away from that guy.
@WakeUpKitty (8711)
• Netherlands
2 Nov 12
I like sweet men but they also have to have their own opinion. I don't like people who are not able to make up their mind, always say: I don't care you can say what you want. There is nothing sweet about that, it's annoying.