Another life inside me: My little angel

@Magz1989 (272)
Philippines
November 5, 2012 1:41am CST
Well, i had a mix emotion now...i am happy that i am going to have an angel soon but i sad because he will be born without a complete family. I did told my husband of what i had discovered... I was really thinking that my fever was cause of the hardship in life that i am now in but not thinking that there's also someone inside me who is very fragile that is struggling to survive. Though I have decided to continue this alone...but what do you think should i tell him? but i still can't live with him...
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@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
5 Nov 12
Hi,, Congratulations! I don't know you're situation with your husband but base on your post it seems that you're not happy to be with him. It's good that now you're going to have a baby that makes you happy. It's a really good decission that you told him what you had discovered (that's the pregnancy, right?) , he deserves to know after all. If you're asking what you should tell you're husband for deciding to continue your pregnancy and life without sharing it with him. I think it's best if you explain the situation to him, if you feel like your marriage is still not gonna work even with the baby then in my opinion, it's would be better for both of you and the baby to stay how you are right now. Try to test the water and see if something changes. I guess it is better if you be open with each other on how you are going to handle the situation with the baby on the scenario now. God Bless You and Goodluck on becoming a mother .
@Magz1989 (272)
• Philippines
6 Nov 12
I will think about that....that's another option...i will see if he stop on cheating me knowing that his gonna be a father soon....
@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
7 Nov 12
Hello, I'm sorry to hear about his infidelity, I hope everything changes by the time he finds out about baby and help you with your pregnancy all the way, it must be hard dealing with it all by yourself. Goodluck to both of you and your baby.
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
5 Nov 12
Congratulations of your new angel! I think that you need to tell your husband about it. He still needs to know. Besides, you will be needing him more than ever. I hope you could make amends. I pray to for your safe delivery!
@Magz1989 (272)
• Philippines
6 Nov 12
well, I well tell him but i don't know if i need him his my depression...seeing him will made me sad. .....but i will try to see if he will change ....thank you for the prayers...also my angel is a BOY
@doroffee (4230)
• Hungary
5 Nov 12
You should tell him, because it's a right of his to be aware of that he has a child... I think something like this would turn out sooner or later... he would see you with a child, someone would tell him etc. You should be sincere. But that you tell him doesn't force you to get together with him again. But he has the lawful right to visit the kid (not necessarily too often).
@Magz1989 (272)
• Philippines
6 Nov 12
well, i will try to see his reactions knowing that his going to have a child on me...maybe he will be faithful...but i will not save our marriage because of the child. I will rather survive it alone that suffer the rest of my life....i well give him the right that he need for the child if he acknowledge it.
• China
5 Nov 12
Hi,magz,it will be difficult for you to support your baby ,So I think you should let your husband know it,maybe he will be better with you after he know this good news.Wish you baby will grow up in a good environment .Best regards.
@Magz1989 (272)
• Philippines
6 Nov 12
Right, i will tell him and thanks for the wish. but i don't know if he will consider it a good news for we just have ended our marriage because his a cheater.
@leeandrew (1226)
• Philippines
5 Nov 12
Aww. that is so blessed of you. What do you mean when you say "sad because he will be born without a complete family?" ahhh. You and your husband are not living together? Sorry I'm just carried away. I'm confused. You don't have to answer though. Hubby and I been wanting and praying for a baby since we were married, but the Lord has His perfect time in giving us ours. Your blessed co's yours arrived already. It's just bogs me why a lot woman/girls get pregnant easily while others just can't. Sigh! I'm thankful I have the Lords as my encourager or else I'll be sad.
@Magz1989 (272)
• Philippines
6 Nov 12
My husband cheated me and we are still not in good terms....i decided to be alone but i had just discover that i am 3 months pregnant with his child and we are not still communicating....but i will tell him for its his right as the father of my child but i will not save our marriage just because we have a baby.
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
5 Nov 12
Congrats on your little one. With or without your husband's support I encourage you to carry on. The life inside you is innocent and never choose to be there inside of you- so it is your obligation to give that life a chance to live.
@Magz1989 (272)
• Philippines
6 Nov 12
Yeah..RIGHT! my son had no fault...even his father is a cheater, it is not my sons fault. I love my baby.
@ARIES1973 (9541)
• Legaspi, Philippines
5 Nov 12
Hi magz! You mean you didn't tel him? Why? I don't understand. Anyway, You should still be happy that you already have somebody that you can be with. I hope you are doing okay. Have a nice day!
@Magz1989 (272)
• Philippines
6 Nov 12
I didn't tell him because i am still angry at him. he cheated me...but i am happy that i am going to have a child soon.....
@subhojit10 (7382)
• India
5 Nov 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i am so happy for u that u are expecting a bay very soon and i am sure u must be on cloud nine after this. i know u are not happy with the fact that u are not happy with your marriage life and that is the reason u have hidden this news to him. I think u should keep aside all the differences as of now and tell him every thing as it is very difficult to cope with daily life during pregnancy and u need support of your husband during such times. What say?
@Magz1989 (272)
• Philippines
6 Nov 12
right, I guess i should tell him..even our marriage didn't work out so well because he had cheated me but it is also his right to know that he has a child soon...though i don't need his support...i wish i can carry it alone.
@lizlee (208)
• Philippines
6 Nov 12
Hi Magz! Congratulations for your little angel that would soon be the center of your life. In life, we have a lot of things going around us that we have no control over. But there are some things that we can control. Like in your situation, I'm really so sorry to hear that things between you and your husband are not going well, but I think that he has the right to know about your child. Maybe not now, because it would give you too much stress that we know that you should avoid so that it won't affect your baby. Eventually, tell him, he accept his child or not, its up to him. And as for you, be strong, your baby needs you more than anyone in the world. A child is happy and contented when he knows that he has his mother's love wrapped around him. I know a family is not complete without the other parent, but a mother's love can suffice anything and everything that lacking in his life. Take care and don't stress yourself too much, remember, its not only your life now, its also your baby's :)