Giving Oral?

United States
November 5, 2012 9:02pm CST
Me and my friend have been having a lot of fun together, and it was a couple of weeks ago that sparked my interest that she would like to have some fun. Though I'm thoroughly excited about this, I am a bit nervous on giving her oral. Would anyone like to give some tips on this? I've kind of looked deeper into this, though I don't think I've gotten into the thick of things like stimulating the "nub" of the stimulated genitalia.
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8 responses
• Philippines
9 Nov 12
My husband loves receiving oral and I've learned to love giving him that as well. But as for a guy giving oral, do it carefully since that is a very sensitive part. Remember when you're eating an ice cream, and you're licking it off? You can try that trick on the "nub" do it fast then switch to doing it slow, then fast and then slow. That would surely raise her to the roof
• United States
10 Nov 12
Ahh I totally see what you mean! Tease a bit before giving the full treatment, right? That would let her breathe a bit more normally until of course, I change my speed. Thanks for the info! And might I add, your avatar is super cute.
@narnia007 (1051)
• India
11 Nov 12
You are going to enjoy this mate.Even seeing or sensing that a girl is being aroused-this would arouse you too.Try to use you hands and tongue to caress her body.The genitals are not the only place with g-spots.Try finding those spots in your girl.It is not same for all the girls.Most common sites will be back of spine,legs,inner thighs,neck,ears etc.After you have found that and stimulated it,go for the main genitals working around with your hands and tongue.Have fun
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• United States
16 Nov 12
Oooh! Well-noted friend! I know what I'm going to be doing the next time I have fun with my love. Thanks!
• United States
9 Nov 12
After reading this discussion I had no choice but to respond. I love giving my boyfriend 'special attention.' And he does, too. He's good at it, but it doesn't last long. I tease him first, kissing him gently and lower towards his stomach. I then take off his underwear (my favorite blue pair he wears) and then I take long, slow licks like a lollypop. He starts to moan and groan and it excites me even more, especially when I look up and I can see his bright blue eyes roll to the back of his head. Then I dive right in and go deep down. It's a process where you get better at it, like stimulation with the tip of your tongue. Massaging the nub is also a thumbs up!
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• Philippines
8 Nov 12
Lol, well don't just dive in like a licking dolphin. Take it easy, kiss her, touch every inch of her (hair, neck and the body) but don't directly go to her vag. Lick her legs and inner thigh and you will know if she wants you to eat her up already. Just relax and enjoy eating your food. Good day
• United States
9 Nov 12
So I take it to basically eat it like it's a fancy dinner? Oooh, I can't wait. I think she'll be in for a surprise! Thanks :D
• United States
9 Nov 12
Like your explanation The Supersonic, though I've never heard of a "licking dolphin" before. Great advice!
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
I'm sorry for the "licking dolphin", LOL, I just can't think of anything or something that dives and lick at the same time. Good day
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
well, it seems that I'm late and this has most probably already happened, so I'd like to ask, how did it go? Was it as good as you thought it would, or better?
• United States
16 Nov 12
Yeah, haha it kind of already has, and must I say. It was fun. Much like what others have suggested, I'm so grateful I didn't directly go there and started. The slow build-up I gave satisfied her to the extent where she (I'm assuming) had her climax. Overall, I think I did a pretty good job, and I'm so glad she found this so enjoyable. Best of all, I like her taste.
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
You seemed to have had lots of fun, so congratulations on that.
@ShyBear88 (16871)
• United States
7 Nov 12
The trick I've heard for deep throat is to relax your throat and of course to practies. I don't like it and I don't do it since well I start throwing up every which way like I do when I've been pregnant. Personally I do not do oral very much since I don't enjoy giving it to my husband at all some women enjoy giving but not all.
• United States
7 Nov 12
Ohohoho, I believe you haven't fully read my explanation.. I'm giving oral to my girlfriend.. But I guess it's still useful information. Thanks anyways.
• Romania
6 Nov 12
It is a nice intent, but it is also tricky! Did she gave you oral? Or she has the intention? Because, if you do something, and only you, it's not fair. Well, now I don't want to discourage you! And speaking of tips, there are no conduit rules or step-by-step instructions. You do what you feel and ask her what she likes ( like directions...). Good luck and wish you a good experience!
• United States
7 Nov 12
She hasn't given me oral, but that's what I think she was hinting towards when she was telling me about it. I definitely do want to give something back, though I don't really want to go by the "usual" way of just ... Going in? Anyways, I think it would definitely be more enjoyable for the both of us. I'm also not particularly sure whether she's a virgin or not.. I haven't really seen her with anyone else in particular, so I suspect that this is her first.. XP
@aabuda (1729)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
Wow...I just hope that my male friend will invite me to actually do that on him.