How Emotionally Mature Are We

@ARIES1973 (9437)
Legaspi, Philippines
November 7, 2012 6:53pm CST
Hello Everyone! Was there a time in our life that we doubted if we are emotionally mature or not? It is a common knowledge that we can say that a person is emotionally mature by looking directly on how happy he is ,by the kind of friends he have and how he can cope up with everyday life. Personally, one instance that I could say a person is emotionally mature is if he carefully evaluates new ideas at hand before making any decision as to accepting it or rejecting the same. How a bout you, when can you say that a person is emotionally mature? Please share your thoughts. Have a nice day!
4 responses
@silverfox09 (4727)
• United States
8 Nov 12
I would say a person is emotionally mature , when they dont break easily under pressure , can face daily problems . We all go through struggles in life , but a person that never give up on life is a person that I would consider emotionally mature .
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@ARIES1973 (9437)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Nov 12
Hi silverfox! Yes, that is true, and in addition, a person accepts the responsibility which he might have brought upon rather than putting the blame to others. Thank you for sharing!
@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
8 Nov 12
When someone could hold their feeling whether emotion, selfiss, etc. Try to look at the movies, when emotion, selfiss, kiddiss, etc are taking controls.
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@ARIES1973 (9437)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Nov 12
Hi friend! Yes, there are people who sulks, throw anything that came into their hands or takes it out out other people whenever they are angry or disappointed. A mature person knows how to control his emotion. Thank you for sharing your opinion. Have a nice day!
@jenny1015 (13394)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
I think a person that is emotionally mature is when he is able to face everyday challenges and make it as a source of strength for him to be able to achieve whatever goal that he has.
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@ARIES1973 (9437)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Nov 12
Exactly! I think you are a very matured person by the way you present your ideas. Thank you for sharing!
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
Hello aries, Those years i thought I was at the time of being a mature person knowing that I never slack off much my entire life compare to others. but in the end, i felt like being childish again, while others have families of their own, i end up being single, filled with a lot of unaccomplish things in my life. . I easily get irritated these days for no reason. there was a time were i don't get mad that easily.
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@ARIES1973 (9437)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Nov 12
Hi LK! I... I think I have to keep some distance? Seriously, I think you need someone whom you can share you frustrations, your dreams and other things. Most of the people I know who are not married at the age of 35 above usually act that way. Most of the time they don't notice it but other people do. Sometimes, they resort to fuming or acting peevish when upset or frustrated. I hope you are not to making it to that point. Have a nice day!