places where one can find a boyfriend or girlfriend...

@Cutie18f (9564)
Philippines
November 7, 2012 11:18pm CST
I know what you are thinking. One does not go around looking for a girlfriend or boyfriend because he or she will just come along in the most unexpected places---at the pier, on the boat, school, office, on the road, etc. Usually, single girls and boys hang out in bars in order to meet up with like-minded individuals, and who knows? Well, I know a very sheltered girl who never had a boyfriend because her parents were strict and she had to maintain her grades as top 1 of her class from kindergarten to high school,and finished summa c*m laude in college. On top of her academic achievements, she was also gifted with fair looks. She was dubbed as "Not having a boyfriend from birth." After college, she proceeded to take up graduate studies. Her parents, who wanted her to be a nun, did not know what she had in mind. This good girl who always followed her parents' will, was secretly hoping to find a boyfriend. Since she was not one to go clubbing at night, she enrolled at a gym near the school where she was pursuing her masters. And there, in that gym she met her first boyfriend and first love who also became her husband. Now she has recently recovered from giving birth to their first child. Well, it does sound like this love story will have a happy ending. The baby is now a week old.
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@jenny1015 (13394)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
The usual place where couples meet would be in places where they usually see each other like the school, office, or church. But yes, you can find a partner from any place. I met my husband in school. He was my classmate in First year College. We never spoke, well, just once. I just handed him my calling card for him to give to our classmate coz I need to talk to our classmate. Then 2 years after, we became classmates again, and the rest is history.
@Cutie18f (9564)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
Wow, that was one unpredictable moment of your life, Jenny.
@jenny1015 (13394)
• Philippines
9 Nov 12
It sure was! I never thought of being friends with him lest be his wife!
• China
8 Nov 12
Love always comes to us suddenly and unpredictably. Many guys or girls just hang out to hunt for love but little of them get the fruit they want. Often you may meet your Mr or Miss Right in an unimaginable location. So whoever you are a single boy or a single girl, donot seek for your another part purposefully. Sometimes that one just stand in front of you when you are not meant to.Just keep put the best you in front of others in anytime and anywhere, and naturally someone appreciate you will come into your world. Opportunities waits for the one who always get prepared, and it's the same when we dealing with love!!
@Cutie18f (9564)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
You're right about everything Jef, and I agree with you.
@thesids (22453)
• Bhubaneswar, India
9 Nov 12
Hi Cutie I never had any girlfriend until I was 32(2005). We met and worked at an office together. I was infected with illness for life when I was 28(2000). But we became friends, fell in love and got married in 2007. I had never thought of getting married or even having a girlfriend (you know the kind of one you want to get close with) ever and my parents had almost given up hopes that I will ever get married - I was always so workaholic that I felt I never will have time for girlfriends, family etc - but destiny and fate brought us together.
• China
9 Nov 12
According to all the responses below,almost all agree with that there are no a certain places to find a boyfriend or a girlgriend,it can be any where,when it comes,it comes.And we all should not always keep a purpose to find your soulmate. But the problem is,if those chance always do not come to you,then what should you do? Like me,I am 27 years old but still do not have a girlfriend,and I don't know how to find my friend,so are there any one can give me a good advice?
• United States
9 Nov 12
As bad as things are right now I am hoping my daughter finds a nice boyfriend. of someone to spend her time with that can take her mind of this loser. she is hurting like no body can imagine. I know what that pain feels like and I know someone nice treating her well will ease the hurt.
@wenna28 (38)
9 Nov 12
I've read one of the article 2 months ago,that in australia there are lots of single ladies and single men, and australia are very nice people,,I've meet lots of australia people and they are very friendly,nice and kind people. now I have an Australian boy friend, and we love bits and pieces. :)
@ungu89 (2001)
• Malaysia
8 Nov 12
love can come and go like a wind. u will never know when or where will u find your soulmate. what can u just do,is appreciate who is with u now. just accept what she/he is
@Shavkat (49627)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
I do believe that finding the right person is not in articular place. It will come along the quest of life. If it is finally found that person, life will be a colorful for some. The situation varies from person to person.
@Asylum (48104)
• Manchester, England
8 Nov 12
As you have already mentioned there is no specific place to find a partner. I agree with you that many people go to bars and clubs in order to meet someone, but it is no more likely a source of encounter than anywhere else, except that there will probably be more people there. Considering that we constantly meet people from morning to night, whether at work, shopping or walking the dog, the right person could appear at any time.