Have you ever liked someone after you had a dream about them?

@besweet (7364)
Greece
November 8, 2012 3:00am CST
It has happened to me! I met a guy and I was friendly with him, I wasn't attracted to him in the beginning. Then one night I had an intense dream about him and me! I woke up from that dream and suddenly I started to like him! I never told him though because he had a girlfriend, but I think it was strange that I deceloped feelings just because of a dream! Have you ever experienced something like that?
8 responses
@Roserick (41)
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
are you working? if sot, is it related to analyzing, computations or math? why i am asking this is because a friend of mine told me that dreams are close to reality. your dream could happen in the future or what you've dreamed actually happened before. this is when your mind is active in analyzing and computing. he said the mind is still working and not at rest when we are sleeping. this is true to those whose dreams are coming true. in my experience, i had a boyfriend for six long years and he left me because of another girl. i prayed and asked God to give him back to me for he is the only one i would wish for, everyday -- as in every day i went to the church just to pray for it. i did this for 2 months, but God never granted my wish. when he get married, i told myself i was destined to be single. and i asked God, why he did not gave it me, why? but in my dreams, i saw a guy who was courting me in my dreams. i met him in person. and he did court me. then i dreamed that i am getting married and he is the guy. and it happened. so, in my case, my dreams are coming true. i did not fantasized him. this happens to me always. my dreams are coming true more often. i am thinking that dreams are God's signs that Hey, i did not grant your wish before because I have someone much better for you! :D
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
corrections: are you working? if so, .....
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@besweet (7364)
• Greece
11 Nov 12
Yes, I am working and it is related to all 3 of the above! So what does it mean, was my mind calculating the possibilities of having a future with this guy and I had this dream about him? When I was younger I had a great intuition for everything but guys! My relationships didn't last very long and now that I am thinking about it, I didn't like the good guys and I was attracted to challenging people. So I wasn't lucky with my choices about boyfriends, although I was making the best choices about friends and people in my environment! maybe this was a sign, nothing happened with this guy eventually. I learned that he broke up with his girlfriend but I am in a relationsip so I never told him about my feelings back then!
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
have you ever tried to play lottery or scratch-a-prize and win? i also have a great intuition and i always win in lottery and scratch-a-prize when my intuition is high. when i have a strong feeling that i will win, i always play and i do win, but only small amounts ( i was waiting for the time to win big amount, lol..) if your dreams are also coming true, well, i guess, we do have the same gift. i do not know if it is really a gift because my friend said that it is not healthy that our mind is still working while we are sleeping. i can't tell if you have a future with this guy, only the good Lord knows what will happen in the future. even you are in a relationship now, you can't still say that your future is with this boyfriend right? since your nature of work is the same with mine, i am starting to believe that my friend is right -- through our dreams we can see the future. :)
@jenny1015 (13396)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
I think that happened to me when I was younger. It was funny to be able to take notice of that person after dreaming about him when I have known him for quite sometime.
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@besweet (7364)
• Greece
10 Nov 12
But how can a dream change our perspective? It's so weird for me because I measure everything with logic and if I don't like someone nothing can change my mind! So that dream made me re-evaluate my choices!
• Greece
10 Nov 12
It happens to me quite a lot. And my like for the people who I fancied because of a dream last the longest compared to the ones that I like for other reasons and the ones that I like the most. I don't know. I once dream of this altar boy whom I never actually hang out with and I only met twice then I started looking for him in every classroom and research about his name because I don't even know his name back then. It's really weird.
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@besweet (7364)
• Greece
10 Nov 12
What happens to me is very similar to your experience! I still don't understand how a dream can trigger those strong feelings but generally, I trust my instincts and probably he made some kind of impression to me that I hadn't realised! Did it work out for you with that boy?
• United Arab Emirates
8 Nov 12
Yeah, it's actually in your subconscious mind already and it happened to appear in your dreams. You might have already some single thought about liking him however you do not wish things to pursue as he is already taken. The feeling was already there and your curiosity just adds up because of that dream.. :)
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@besweet (7364)
• Greece
8 Nov 12
I hadn't realised that I had this thought in the back of my mind, but it was probably there because I dreamed about it eventually. After the dream it was obvious for me that I liked him but I never told anyone about this.
@sishy7 (21320)
• Australia
8 Nov 12
Usually it's when I am thinking about someone a lot then I dream about that person. So perhaps, even without realizing, you did have some feelings about him before the dream. Then the dream just made you realize about it...
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@besweet (7364)
• Greece
8 Nov 12
That's possible, I don't know what was happening is my subconcious! Maybe I had erased that possibility because I knew he had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend as well, and it came back in my dreams. We were friends for a while before this dream and we continued to hang out afterwards.
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• Turkey
14 Apr 13
It has just happened to me a few days ago. The guy that i only talked him once appeared in my dream and told me that he loved me and he hugged me. The strange thing was i really liked this thing and when i woke up, i found myself wishing that it was true. I don't quite understand if i like him or not:( the thing is i have boyfriend so does he. I don't know how to figure out my feelings, plz helpp!!
@Jyiou7 (84)
• Malaysia
22 Apr 13
Haha I can see what a confusing situation you're in. :P Perhaps spend a little more time with this guy you dreamed about to learn more about him. When you do, compare him with your current boyfriend and determine who makes you happier and more worth it. If you're dreaming about someone else other than your boyfriend, maybe you boyfriend isn't the right one? The answer is yours to decide. :P
@Jyiou7 (84)
• Malaysia
22 Apr 13
Haha this is a rare but very interesting question! :D There was this time I met a girl, she was nice and pretty, but I wasn't attracted to her at all. She is just another friend. However, I had an intimate dream one night with her, where we were holding hands and when I woke up, there was this confused feeling in me. The next time I saw her, I had this small jolt in my heart and I was slowly getting more attracted to her, in fact it came to a point where I officially liked her! If only I could get the girl of my dreams to have an intimate dream with me in it, hehe. :P
@dot247 (19)
• Philippines
15 Apr 13
Yes! I had this classmate who was annoyed the hell out of me. And then I started dreaming about him several times. The dreams were different but they always have a similar story where we were always fighting but in the end he would hug me tight and apologize. After dreaming about him a number of times, I started developing a crush on him. I never told him too and eventually we lost touch because he moved to a different country. Then years later, I found out through one of our classmates that he had a crush on me then that's why he was so annoying because he didn't know how to act around me. We just laugh about it now. :)