Maybe leave is also a best choice

China
November 8, 2012 7:51pm CST
Sometimes the broken love just like a withered flower can't stand for any more test. Quarrel is just adding more hurt on each other's wounds. If both of you have no ability to cultivate the withered flower maybe leave is also a best choice.
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• Indonesia
9 Nov 12
Very difficult to keep a relationships to be survive forever. Both side have a commitment to make lasting relationship. Don't be selfish person if you still love him/her. Some times we need know each other. But some times we can't defend that relationships anymore. I think, split more better than continuing that relationship
• China
10 Nov 12
That's true after a hardest try if we still can't keep a relationship to be survive forever, maybe leave is the best choice for each other.
• Philippines
9 Nov 12
I agree with you. If they are no longer interested to each other, I guess they should decide to break up. Causing pains to your partner is really heartbreaking to him or her. Before it gets worst, they should part ways. Some are still able to stay good friends after break up but some are not. If they can't work it out already, it's time to end the relationship. It's better that way. They should thank each other because somehow, they've learned how to "love, sacrifice, respect, trust, etc." from each other.
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• China
9 Nov 12
I don't agree with you.In my opinion,love is just like a Marathon race ,we should alway keep running even when you feeling very tired .As you know,everyone will feel tired in the process,if everyone opted to give up ,so what's left?I know you can quit,but can you insure that you will find your Mr right in the next station?
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• Philippines
9 Nov 12
If one is not willing to love anymore then let go. We can't insist ourself. We should give and wish them the best.
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• China
10 Nov 12
Okay,but don't let go unless it is absolutely necessary.Keep running toward meeting the goals.
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• Philippines
12 Nov 12
it's so true Gretchen522...it's better to let go and move on in this life if there is no chance that relationship will bloom...let the love find us rather than pursuing to the relationship full of fears and anger...
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• China
12 Nov 12
You are right we should not let love turn to hate. Thanks my friend, wish you a nice day!
@kokomo (1868)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
Not all quarelling moments for the two lovers or couple is bad. Sometimes it is good also for the relationships. It will be the tool or the spices for the relationships.
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• China
11 Nov 12
I agree with you kokomo,sometimes I quarel with you just because I want a hug from you,enjoy your day my friend!
@francesca5 (1344)
9 Nov 12
it depends, if the relationship is a good one, there may be reasons, outside of the relationshi, that could be creating difficulties within it. there may be issues from the past that need resolving, or life could just be stressful, and causing problems within the relationship. on the other hand it could just be the wrong person. in which case i would agree about ending it. but it depends on so many things.
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• China
10 Nov 12
You are right it depends, after we make such a decide we should thnk twice, because it is really not easy for two people get together. Enjoy yor day my friend.I like your comment. Enjoy your day!
@ungu89 (2001)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 12
for me, if there is no trust in a relationship, better to end it. before it make u hurt mo that ever. before being caught cheating or anything else
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• China
10 Nov 12
Thanks for your sharing my friend, even we love a person very much, we also should know how to protect ourselves. Have a nice day!
@jeolex (64)
• Turkey
9 Nov 12
I don't have experience about leave. But I can said that don't give up to love. Because If you did this, you can be sorry.
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• China
10 Nov 12
Thanks jeolex,we should not easily to give up a relaionship to avoid regret.Have a nice day my friend.
• China
9 Nov 12
Temporary Leave will be active effect to your love .Treat your girlfriend just as your daughter ,you will find it a magnificent chance from the formal.
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• China
10 Nov 12
Thanks for your sharing my friend, if I find such a man I think I will never leave him. Have a nice day!
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
9 Nov 12
A relationship, even though how much we try to make it work, if one is no longer doing his part, will never be whole again. We could not force our partner to stay in the relationship once he/she feels that they do not have the same goals and interests anymore and feels that they can not be able to grow as a person. It is better to be honest about our feelings than suffer and have constant bickering towards each other. It can be heartbreaking, but it is the only way to be true to ourselves and to our partner. We just need to wish them that they may be able to find the person than they can be at their best and worst and still be able to work out their relationship.
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• China
10 Nov 12
Thanks for your reply jenny, you are right, if after many times try, the love still haven't worked out, maybe the best way is to wish him well, and say goodbye. Enjoy your day my friend.