how old are you!!and do you still single now!??

November 9, 2012 10:29am CST
i am 25 years old. but i am still single .with no money ,on car, no ……but i think i can be better because i believe my belief. and ,how old are you,do you single now because you have more important things to do ? November 9th ,2011
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• United States
9 Nov 12
I am also 25 and single! I think that we have a lot more chances to make decisions about what we want to do, where we want to go because we don't have to worry about making decisions for 2 (or more) people. For example, I teach in different countries, which is something I probably wouldn't do if I was married or had kids. I also feel good about learning to do adult things, like proper maintenance of my car, healthy living, doing my taxes, making extra money. I have learned about life as a single adult. While it would be great to be in a relationship and share the responsibilities and joys of every day, I think it's better that now, I will enter a relationship as someone who stands on my own two feet and if I am in a bad situation, I know that I can survive on my own. Many girls get married young and don't know these things, and sometimes don't leave an abusive relationship because they are scared of life by themselves. Best to you!
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@riyauro (6421)
• India
9 Nov 12
okay yeah you still have time to be something and also take decisions about yourself. enjoy the single life to the max. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
11 Nov 12
Sometimes,i think being single can have more times to do lots things i want to do.But i can not share all things with others ,these always make me feel sad.especially when i see others always a couple.So i think people should find his or her right person as soon as qiuckly.it no need to get married,but should have one person to share your feeling.
@ellyse2003 (1463)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
Hi! Nice meeting you here. I can see that you're a newbie. I'm 24 years old and I'm not single anymore. I don't know if this discussion is for single people only but you did not state anything so I will respond to your discussion. Been married for five years now, I married when I was 19. Even I'm already married, there are still a lot of things I wanted to do with my life and my husband is very supportive about it. I'm still lucky that I was able to continue with my studies after getting married and right now I'm taking up my second course. I think, you don't have to be single to achieve what you want. As for me, it was easy for me to achieve my dreams even I already have a family in such a young age but it really depends on the person if she/he wants to stay single to have all the things and achievements he wants.
11 Nov 12
thank you for your advices.i admire you very much ,especially have a good partner .i think your life is what i want to have :with the person you love and love you to do what you want to do . by the way ,i am a newbie.thank you for you useful suggestions.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
9 Nov 12
What has a car or job to do with being single? You will find single people all over the world, all kind of ages, with or without a job, house, car. There are plenty of people who love to be single, esp. in the western world, esp. if they are high(er) educatated. There is nothing wrong with being single. At least you do not need to take care of a partner as well and you are way more free.
11 Nov 12
be single ,you just make youself feel not hungry.but if you get married,you should take of all the family.you should let your family have good environment.what the environment comes from??? money.BuT ,in truth, be single can have more time to do what i want to do this is what i agree with you.
@5mahi05 (666)
• India
9 Nov 12
I am 22 and I am also single. It is just that I haven't found anyone who i have thought is the person for me. relationships and commitments are not something that we should go in search for. I believe we should wait for the right person and should not rush into any relationship just for the sake of being in an relationship. I bellieve when the right person enters our life, we will just know that this is the person who has come for us to this world. That way, there is no regrets in the relationship that we are going to be with!
11 Nov 12
you are right .i hope you can find the right person and the peoson can find you .then there will be no regrets
@riyauro (6421)
• India
9 Nov 12
I am a couple of years elder to you and am double i mean married .. Yeah you still have time to do lot of things on your own and it is okay that you are single. You will get your miss right and she will accept you as you are. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
11 Nov 12
i wish something can happen as you said.And thank you .
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
14 Nov 12
I am 27 years old and I am still single as well. I have not got a car, I am working but I am not rich. I earn enough money to be able to live on this earth. I am still living with my Mum. I find being single fun to some extent and i can just do whatever I want. I do not have to be under pressure at all.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
10 Nov 12
You are only 25 , you have time to do all those , nothing happen before the time and maybe its juts not your time to have those yet . Dont rush into a relationship , let the relationship come to you when you least expect it . What is november 9?
• United States
13 Nov 12
Well I am, as I'll call it, single again. I'm divorced. Like in everything there is benefits to both. Enjoy being single til you meet that perfect for you girl. Just remember not to put her on a "perfect" pedestal because she will make mistakes too. Love her for being imperfect just as much as you love her for being perfect for you.