Dont complicate life

I think that it is very common for people to complicate their lives and that is something that we should try to avoid. However, we are brought up in such a way that we should always make sure that we aren't hurting someone else's feelings. We should feel free to be ourselves, but society has made the world in such a way that we always feel like there is something about our lives in which we have to apologize in our lives.

What a wonderful thought! Being ourselves is the best thing to do. We should not try to please everybody because that would be an impossible thing. Have a nice day!

Good advice. And do not expect people to read your mind, or expect someone else to deliver your messages. Your friends, loved ones, and even enemies, have no idea what is on your mind unless you tell them.

Hi silverfox Loved reading this great inspirational post And I have learned to live with almost every word here. And to be honest, the results have been - more of peace, more of satisfaction, more of happiness and more of pleasantries. I have also felt that the biggest flaw in us humans is that we love to complicate things for us - maybe the ego and pride - and we do not also find time to say the simplest words which can express love, gratitude which really help us become what we are born to be.

Yeah there are a lot of things that we can feel makes life complicated. You brought out some good points. If we think about these things and try to do them in our life we can feel better and not have to feel stressed. It is a good thing that we stick up for ourselves and how we feel.

I love what you posted Silverfox09. I agree with you that sometime we complicate our own life, everything would have been so much easier when we don't complicate things. I used to be in that way before but then after my accident everything changed a lot especially the way I think about this life and I feel that my life becomes easier. I believe that whatever happens in my life is for a reason and everything suits me. I used to be angry when someone judge me or my life but then I realize it happens for a reason. When someone judge me or treat me badly, it's for me to learn not to treat the other in bad way and as you said the judgement will coming back to those who judge us. When I was at high school my friends judged and mocked me, but then after years I figured out that my life has improved a lot while they are still stuck at the same old life. If we don't like something it is better to say it instead of pretending that we like it and fool our self. Don't spend our life to impress other because we know that we cannot please or impress everyone, but if we impress ourself we don't care whether other like it or not as long as we are happy and be ourself. But hey I cannot do the last part "If you miss someone just call them and if you love someone just tell them have a good day" I still do not have the courage to do that...hehehe.

I agree with you. it is often why people are unhappy - that is if they let their lives become so complicated with whatever it was that people throw at you. Sometimes when we choose to be reactive, that is when our lives get too complicated. we feel sad, we feel angry (at times at someone, or something)... well if we let things be... then we would always be happier.

I totally agree with you silver and I think I need to start realizing that myself to be myself more. Stop letting people and things stand in my way or saying what I think and stop trying to get people to like me and just enjoy being myself and if people don't like me then oh well. I like what you have posted and you have encouraged me to be more like myself. Thanks

That is an abosolutely beautiful discussion. That is something that I often do I let people complicate things for me. All the things you mention are very simple. But is life really that simple? I think I already know the answer to that which is yes. Even though life is really that simple we complicate things. Add stuff that doesn't need to be added. Life is complicated enough full of ups and downs. But life can also be beautiful if you let. Thank you for this discussion have a great day.

Hi friend, you are right. We must live our life in our own way and don't worry a lot about other persons thoughts and attitudes, if we start to live our life for other persons, and wish to impress each and every one, it is really a tedious task. So we must avoid this kind of activities and live our life as per our wish

I agred with you about how to be life with no complicated thing. Enjoy our life. I believe that you want to say. I always try since I was teen until now to enjoy my life. I don't care if I got problem in my life. I always try enjoy my life. If I miss some one, I will call them. And make all thing became easy.