Falling inlove: Is it Worth it?

Philippines
November 12, 2012 2:55am CST
For me falling in love is worth it whether it works or not. When we fall in love with someone and it doesn't work out it's a learning experienced and when we fall in love in a right person. IT'S GREAT!. A lot of hard work but well worth it.As the saying goes "It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all". What you think?
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@arizen (152)
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
Although I got my heart broken when I fell in love, I totally agree with you. Because the experience really makes one stronger and wiser. I know I may be sounding cliched but it is the truth. So I am more impressed by the people who got their heart broken and managed to stood up and dust it off than by the people who constantly guards themselves from the experience. No matter how heartaches seem severe, it is up to the person to emerge from the hurt, move on and imbibe positivity on life.
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
I agree with you arizen. Heart breaks are for us to learn and understand. In every heart breaks we experienced or every failures it taught us a lesson. Thank you for sharing!
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@riyauro (6428)
• India
12 Nov 12
Fortunately I have never got heart broken but I guess i was too strong for the feeling,... hahah. well if anyone who can ever break my heart is my hubby.. I hope never to see that day. all good when thoughts are good.
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
So lucky of you riyauro, you never had a heart broken...I had a lots of heart broken from the past but I learned a lot and it made me stronger and more wiser..Still i am positive about things... Thanks for sharing!
@margies (128)
• Indonesia
12 Nov 12
yup, fall in love teaches us to get to know the right people and people who aren't right for us. with the fall in love and breakups , we can know the characteristics of the person we want in our lives. we learn to grow and develop, it could make us wiser, there are many lessons that we can pick considerations behind. we have learned to love a person and we don't regret it, because it will make us better in the future for
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
Thank you Marg for sharing your views. You are right!.
@Mavic123456 (12625)
• Thailand
12 Nov 12
it really shows that you are very much in love. Good for you. Yes love is worth it. It's a feeling, it's an expression it's the greatest thing you ever have, is to love and be loved. Love can move mountains.
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
Yeah, I am very much in love. Thank you.. Being in love is what makes working all weak bearable. It makes cruising with your windows rolled down feel like you're riding in a convertible.
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
Love is a wonderful feeling! Why deprived yourself of falling in love. Nothing in this world is perfect. Everybody is bound to make a mistake and get hurt. But that is life. We just need to learn to go along with life and make the best out of it.
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
You are right Jen, It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.
@trisha27 (3498)
• United States
4 Dec 12
I agree with you on this statement that it is better to have love and lost and never to have loved at all. I think it is definitely worth falling in love. Whether it never works out or it does work out. Like I have fallen in love maybe a handful of times and the relationship in the end never worked out. Yeah, I was hurt, but I eventually moved on and I learned from what happened in those other relationships. Then eventually it looks like I fell in love with the right guy this time, because now we are married and he is the longest relationship I have ever been in and he has shown me that there is true love.
@riyauro (6428)
• India
12 Nov 12
very true, we have experience it and no matter what happens later. there are many people so so happy in love. it is not that in love you get pain only but there is much more to it. I am glad you started this beautiful discussion.. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead..