Could we start again.....?

When the child born, the baby will give happiness to your family. Trust me. You are lucky to have someone kneel on you and begging you. He loves you. And when the baby born, he will more and more loving you. It's normal sometimes a man make a mistake due to attraction by other women, but it doesn't mean that he didn't love his wife anymore.

It is really hard to forgive a person that has betrayed you of your trust. But since you said that you still love him despite what has happened, I think you ought to give him another chance. You mentioned you are pregnant right now, the more that you need him by your side. I am sure you wouldn't want to let your baby be born in this world without a father to look up to. We all commit a mistake. We should learn to forgive. The church would tell us to forgive every time someone hurts us. But of course, it would take a lot of strong will to do it.

The pain of cheating tends to fade as time goes by...like when your husband hits you! it also tends to fade as time goes by! and you give it a second chance then a third and then a fourth until it comes as an every day occurrence and you get used to it. He is your husband you know him better than I do after all is your life give him another chance and if does not work don't feel so bad because you tried your best! Good luck!

Take the chance for the second time trial for loving someone. If he can not be true for being faithful, then it is up to you to have another step to weigh down the circumstances. Good day!

Everyone deserves a 2nd chance. If he is still after you- chances are he loves you. And has learned from his mistakes.

well, it is very important for your family to be complete. for the sake of your child, you should do your best effort in order to make your family well bonded. your child needs a father. furthermore, your husband is asking for forgiveness. give him the chance to repent for his mistakes and to do what is right. forgive him, i should say.

He may have cheated on you but he is like all other men who like the adventure of fooling around. He still holds you special in his heart. If he has been begging for you to forgive him then he must have repented and would not repeat his folly again. For the sake of your unborn baby you should not dwell so much on the pain of his cheating. It will lead you to nowhere. Reconcile is the best option.

We are only human to make mistakes, and for some reason or another, love's greatest nemesis is temptation out of a relationship where we do things that would seem to hurt someone we love and yet we do it, a mistake i would considerable that could be somehow corrected.. we learn from our mistakes, and hopefully you should realize to forgive and give him a second chance, if it reoccurs, then bid him goodbye.

Sorry to hear that but that was once my case when I find out my first husband cheated on me. Of course for the sake of our child I do forgive him but when he suddenly stop supporting us that is the time I say to myself stop and leave him. Now we are almost 3 years been separated and now I am living with my second partner and as of now we are going well. And holding on. Hope you will find a reason to forgive him and not to leave him but when after forgiving him make sure that he will not do it again or else make a choice to leave or be forever fooling yourself to him ^_^ Have a nice day

Hi! I'd like to give you my suggestion and opinion, but its really up to you if you would take it or not. :) If you said that you are actually married for 4 years and now that the two of you will soon be expecting a baby, my suggestion is that, talk to him about things. I mean really talk. Cause the blessing that the two of you are going to have is such a huge responsibility. Because from my point of view, when guys found out that they are going to be fathers, they change their old ways. Bottom line, I'd say give it another shot. Its also for your baby's sake. But like what I've said, its really up to you. You have been married for 4 years more of less you know if he is really sincere about saying sorry. Hope everything work out ok with you. Cheers! :)

I agree with some of the previous posts that you should give him another chance if you feel that he has really made a change. You might also discuss with him what his intentions are for making sure that he remains faithful to you. Will he change his work relationships? Are there any behaviors that would make it easy for him to cheat again? I would be very practical about this. However, I think for the sake of your own relationship, once that is worked out, I would try to put it behind you as soon as possible. You don't have to forget it, but don't make him be in constant penance. Try to have fun together before the baby comes. All the best to you!

Cheating is the most disgusting thing in marrige. Generally, the man who is cheating on you can not be forgiven. But you said you both love each other so much. So just try to find out a reason for his infidelity. I think you both need to sit down talking about this issue and donot condemn for anyone. Stay in peace and just find out the truth. If the problem is on your side, maybe you are not so considerate ot understanding in front of your husband, or you have put so much on your work, which deprived your time from taking care of your family. In this kind of situation, i think you need to give a chance to your husband and try to be more devoted to your family by yourself. And if you find out that your husband initially attracted someone else, which means it's hard for you to get his ture love back. Giving up is the best choice for you and your children, preventing from getting hurt one more time. What you need to do now is to find an appropriate time and location, just sit in peace and have a nice talk with your husband.

Give him another chance if you feel that he feel really sorry for what he did and that he is sincere for begging forgiveness. Everybody needs a second chance. You baby needs a father. Sometimes our loved ones made mistakes that hurt us they are only human. I know it's hard for you to trust him again, you have many doubts. Give him a chance to prove that he really feel sorry for what he did and that he won't do it again.

You can always begin again but bear in mind " Once a cheater always a cheater." Four years is four years but then again it is only four years. You can not wait on someone to grow up and decide they are ready to be there. Maybe time apart can bring you together even better.

I think you need to talk and find out why he cheated. If a person is getting all they need from their partner they do not make this mistake. I'm not excusing anyone who does this but I am saying that unless the person is totally frivolous and fickle, then they should be forgiven and the two people need to talk about how they feel and why this thing happened.

Hi! Your apprehensions are understandable. It is said - "once beaten twice shy". You could clearly tell him about your apprehensions and could put some conditions on your re-union. Even if he happens to be your husband and you are bearing his child, he has no right to hurt or cheat you. You could give him a second (but last) chance and could 'observe' his behavior for few weeks and then could finally decide. All the best.

If you still love him, I would give him another chance. Maybe knowing that you will soon have a child will change him. Everybody makes mistakes, but I can see how it would be hard to trust him again.

I'm just curious, in his 2-months of saying sorry to you, did he ever attempt to cheat again? If your answer is no, then, maybe you should give him chance. If he is still proving his love for you every day and still wanting your trust, I guess it's just fair to give a second chance. Actually, it still depends on you. Since, it is ONLY YOU who can attest if he is sincere in his actions. Try to see his character inside..and decide. Give him a chance if you trust him and not just because of fear of losing a family.

why not? take a second chance it's not bad. If you love him why ake suffer for longing and missing if you have him right now. It could never be too late. Pain is normal in a relationship, without it your relationship is a boring stock of empty ship, just sailing on the ocean and nowhere to go. But of course pain has its limitations too. You need to set yourself on how far can you go and how much can you take. Then that's it and be it. As for now, love is sweeter the second time around, he learns from his mistake, you learn from your mistake so things will go the way you wanted to be this time. But you need to talk heart to heart of how things will go so that you both know what to expect from each other. Ok? i hope I gave a good and acceptable advice.

give him a chance,let him prove to you he is sorry,anyway he is your husband and u still love him.sometimes relationships have to put into test in order to know how deep the love is for each other and its ok to give and take chances as long as the love is still there.for me,i always give three chances,the first time he made a mistake i talk to him,discuss things and tell him how i feel and if he is sorry i forgive and forget.the second time i do the same but will give him warning.the third time,thats the time i give up coz if he keeps on doing it then he dont love u the way you love him.so its about time for u to move on.the reason why i give three chances is that i dont want to have regrets and what if's..i always give my all,tried my best and if it still doesnt work its not my fault..