True love happens only once

India
November 15, 2012 7:44am CST
Hello :) Is it true that true love happens only once? And there are rare cases in my country where love actually wins the war. Lovers are separated from each other due to old customs and traditions. If that's the case then why to fall in love?
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@goodnosi (16)
• Yemen
16 Nov 12
We fall in love because this is human nature and sometime destiny play some rules in man life. If you will just ignore love, that is mean you are a machine not human being. And this my opinion.
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• India
20 Nov 12
yes you are correct but i guess love cannot be ignored though. happy mylotting
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• China
15 Nov 12
I don't think, love just happens once, sometimes you may fall in love with the same man twice. If this one not suitable for us,there's another one waiting in some corner of the world.
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• India
15 Nov 12
Hmm.. I can agree with you. Yes love may happen again if it's true
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@Dominique25 (9475)
• United States
16 Nov 12
I think that a person can fall in love more than once. When we are young or just starting to fall in love we start to have very strong emotions. And we start to feel as if there could never be another person that we could love as much. But that's not always the case because we haven't even began to start a life with that person. In the future we could end up falling in love again if that relationship didn't work out.
• India
16 Nov 12
Sometimes usually it happens when we fall in love blindly for the first time. Later on we realise how to live life
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• United States
20 Nov 12
Yeah. So it is a good thing to wait until a couple is older and they know what they want. We can always fall in love again. It happens all the time. So we don't have to feel that there is just one particular person who is "suppose" to spend their life with us.
• India
20 Nov 12
Yeah the more we wait the more we understand and the more we become mature enough to fall in love again :D
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@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
13 Jan 13
In my experience, I think that from the past relationships that I can, I can say that I did find my true love. But, it was something that I had to end coz of a lot of complications. I say that it is true love coz we only have been together for 2 years but then I still feel the love after so many years. I have now controlled myself being crazy thinking about him. But I don't think that i would ever delete my memories of him.
• India
13 Jan 13
So you mean to say that your previous love was true love and even though you may fall in love with another person, you won't forget him?
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
13 Jan 13
It's hard to forget a person who made a major impact in your life. But since that love can no longer be "revived", I'll just let it be kept in my heart and mind.
• India
13 Jan 13
Yeah it's true. But that also depends on how to quit that relationship. I mean if you quit in good terms then both parties will have good friendship else they will totally be 'known' strangers and life will be miserable.. :(
@chiwasaki (4661)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
We are all capable of love so I guess true love can happen more than once in our life time. We are all susceptible to this so called feeling of being in love. But I guess above all of the people that you loved truly, there is this someone that is above all others. Some called it the one true love.
• India
1 Jan 13
Yeah as long as there's love, maybe we will still find that one person who will change our lives forever. Happy New Year 2013.
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
Definitely not, sometimes it's just a matter of opening your heart again and try to move on.
• India
16 Nov 12
Yeah that's too true. We should just move on accepting the reality
@voracious (624)
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
True love happened only once because when you found your true love. Do you think you will let it get away? of course you want to make it last forever even both of you get old.
• India
16 Nov 12
No one will let go if they find true love. The thing is, in most parts of our country love is not encouraged due to various customs and hence one has to sacrifice it
• Greece
15 Nov 12
I don't believe that love only happens once. And for me there is no such thing as true love. If it's love, it's true. We can love a lot of people, just in a different level. And perhaps, the one who holds the highest level of love in our hearts is the one you're referring to as true love. I believe it can happen not only once. We can fall in love again greater than before if we allow ourselves and forget our past heartaches.
• India
16 Nov 12
I totally agree with you friend. It was a great thought you shared
@doroffee (4230)
• Hungary
15 Nov 12
Love is uncontrollable... and it's true love if you feel it even though there are challenges :).
• India
16 Nov 12
Hi. Yes love does have challenges and if you love someone truly, you must overcome these challenges
• Bangladesh
15 Nov 12
Its not love but the beast lies in each human. Stil we are to depend on customes and tradition to suppress the beast. But western culture dont like to suppress that beast. They say to suppress an individuals hopes and expectations in unethical and inhumane. As a result their culture could not give us a solid bond of conjugal life. Lots of separations or break ups happens there in western life and of which influence is coming to non western life.
• India
16 Nov 12
Wow. That's great information you shared with us. Thanks friend.