Our love is not as romantic as in songs

China
November 15, 2012 8:52am CST
Our love is not as romantic as in songs. Not all of us have the realm of even being hurt but still happy. We are just ordinary people, then find an ordinary love. We will have an ordinary life with our beloved man,and with him we will slowly growing old. Perhaps this is the true meaning of love.
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@doroffee (4230)
• Hungary
15 Nov 12
I agree, too. I kind of feel as if country songs describe the average, everyman-kind of love best. Some pop songs may describe the feelings themselves, but the plots and the stories... and I feel some of them are so over the top...
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• China
16 Nov 12
You know songs very well, songs really a good way to express all of our moods and feelings.:)
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@Dominique25 (9476)
• United States
15 Nov 12
Yeah love isn't always as romantic as the movies and songs are. In the beginning when a couple is starting to get to know one another it will hopefully be that way. But over time the every day activities of life takes it's toll on a couple and they have responsibilities. Which at times they start not to be as romantic since they are already with the person they care about and love.
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• China
16 Nov 12
That's true as time pass by love may turn to a family,each of the family members will have responsibility to their common family.:)
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• United States
16 Nov 12
yeah it's good for us to remember that we have a responsibility to our family. Many individuals can start to forget this and put perhaps work or friends before their family. This isn't good to do.
@kokomo (1868)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
Yes, I believe sometimes love songs were exaggerating but that's the essence of love. Some are stupid because of love.Some are very romantic like love songs. It is the person itself how he show his feelings for the one he loves either in ordinary or special way.
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• China
17 Nov 12
You are right kokomo,we can write down our feeling and we also can sing it in a song,however others' love story may not the same as our story.
@rubyroy (824)
• India
16 Nov 12
Love is not a topic to explain,or subject to deal with,but it is a fact that we have to experience to enjoy it.Share love and it will grow bigger,keep it for yourself it will shrink.If we give love unconditionally,your love will become king size and you will know the joy of giving.
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• China
17 Nov 12
Thanks rubyroy,you are right if all love is uncondition,this world will full of love!:)
• Bangladesh
15 Nov 12
Composers of those romantic songs are living in fancies. As we dont have any dreamy romanticism in real we too look for romanticism in fantacies. Me too like to live in fantacies. We cant help dreaming for fancies. Stay bouncy and fine.
• China
16 Nov 12
We all dream of romantic things, however the reality not always satisfy us, I love those romantic songs,though I can't find such a lover, listening to those songs also an enjoying.:)
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
Love is defined in million ways- differently, according to how an individual person feel and understand the word Love. For me , love doesn't need a word to express, because love doesn't have any religion, no color, no race, no scent no beliefs nor faith. Love is a universal language that even blind can feel, deaf people can hear and mute can speak. Action speaks louder than words- and that is love- no word come close enough to describe the real meaning of it.
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• China
16 Nov 12
I agree with you jaiho that action speaks louders than words,love really need not too much word,a hug, an eye can express what you want to say.:)
@ddaguno (3110)
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
for us who havent found the person we would like to grow old with even that ordinary love that you mentioned is very extra ordinary
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• China
16 Nov 12
Thanks ddaguno,maybe you are right,but love can't always be romantic and excited.
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
our love if like song how nice i like it. well even is song it started as sweet of hard then in the end they get happy in love if the couple really love each other even theirs trials they will succeed and in the end they will be happy and lets not forget that if that is god plan like a love song end happily
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• China
15 Nov 12
That's true, we all wish our love have a happy end,however the reality not always satisfy us.:)
@joliefille (3696)
• Philippines
15 Nov 12
I would like to add also - not as romantic as in movies.
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• China
15 Nov 12
Yeah,you are right,but all of us have beautiful dream about love,some people even have a high expection.:)