How many times you have felt cheated

November 15, 2012 9:00am CST
You might not want to speak out it, but the truth is that some times or other we have got cheated by our close ones and have felt hurt. But for the shake of our relationship we have avoided to speak out this. Let us make our closure ones to felt about our feeling, how we feel when get cheated. It may make them to feel "to be human not to cheat us again, because we are caring them and they are hurting us". Let us share our feelings.
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8 responses
@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
1 Jan 13
It really depends on what the other person did. If it was my husband and he cheated on me with another woman, I don't think I can keep quiet even for the sake of the children. But if it's just a minor thing like telling me that he's at work when he's at the coffee shop with his friends, then it doesn't really matter.
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
Being cheated by our love ones maybe to hard for us.but i think that is one thing that we can never avoid,for me it is normal to be cheated once or twice but not always.coping up with it is not easy and very painful but sometimes we also need to understand them on why they do such things. to listen and make things clear so that there will be no next time in cheating.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
16 Nov 12
Ok this is a little off topic never felt cheated on in my relationship . I have felt cheated on with friends taking credit for my hard work . I have put a lot of work in a project and I have friends that take the credit .
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
For the first 10 years of our marriage, never have I thought that my husband is capable of cheating on me. Then we had some issues with our marriage. While arguing, he suddenly brings us that he cheated on me a few times. my world crumbled! How could he do such a thing when all those years I devoted my time for him and our kids? Then about 2 years ago until just a few weeks back, I feel that he has been cheating on me again. It's hard to fight about it coz I would just be hearing him say bad things to me.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
16 Nov 12
Yeah I'm sure that it hurts tremendously when we a person has felt cheated. We start to lose our trust and confidence in that person and others. Because we feel that we have cared deeply about them and they have hurt us deeply. That is very hard to deal with because then we feel others perhaps will treat us the same.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
15 Nov 12
Except for my children I have been cheated by (nearly) everyone I knew or know. My parents, my siblings, my ex husband, my family in law, my ex boy friend, my (so called) friends, the teachers/school of my children, the energy company, the owner of the house, the one who should renovate my house in Hungary, the flight company, the one who made my wedding dress, etc. It seems to me I am an easy person to cheat on/with.
@akagami (250)
• Indonesia
15 Nov 12
yeah sometimes we got cheated by our close friend without we know.and we just trust about what our close friend told to us.
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 12
if in friendship, i think i never feel being cheat or cheat them, certainly in love relationship, with my 2nd ex . i hate him so much but, for me. if he make me feel like this some how someone will make him too. maybe not now. for me, as long i dont cheat people. its ok