facebook wall post

Philippines
November 17, 2012 12:24am CST
Hi, What do you think are the reasons of my boyfriend for hiding or deleting my post in his facebook wall. I posted a music video of a romantic song that I dedicated for him and he hide it and also yesterday i posted again a post in his wall asking him where he is and i told him that I love him but he deleted it. I am sad and confused why he did those thing. I asked him and he said, he just hide it because he doenst wasn't people to judge me that I am so deeply in-love with him but to me it doesn't matter what other people would say as long as i able to express what i wanted to say and then he also said that he don't want sweet words to be posted on facebook. why is it so? what do you think? :-(
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20 responses
@graysky (132)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
kinda odd.you have to see things beyond his answers.so whats wrong if you are deeply inlove with him if he is feeling the same with you?he should be glad and proud with what you are doing.unless he dont want his friends to know that he is in a relationship with you.talk to him.hear to heart,express how u feel.he knows the answer to your questions.
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
that is exactly the point. i feel like he don't want people to see that he is in a relationship with me and he even changed his relationship status to single and he said he just don't like people to say negative things about me which is really unacceptable on my part and he said also that his family still doesn't know about us. He has many reasons and his statement is not consistent. What should i do or say to him?
@graysky (132)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
i cant really say what you have to do coz i dont know the whole story,all i can say is,you have to weigh things.do you feel his love?do you think your relationship with him is ok?i mean is he doing his part as your bf?
• Greece
18 Nov 12
Have a serious talk with him. Relationships should not be too publicly displayed in a social network but i think and i know others too that you're bf is hiding something. Changing status to single? That is quite insulting. Talk to him nicely and listen to his side. Good luck.
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
I know how you feel, but I guess, some guys just don't want their partners to be so "clingy" or shows too much emotions publicly. Don't feel bad about it. It doesn't mean that he loves you less. he just isn't comfortable that way.
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
I agree with you Jen!. My boyfriend is like that so I don't even like on his post nor commented. And ohhh he didn't update his facebook much.
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
So obviously, your boyfriend isn't the type that types down what he feels to let the whole Facebook world to see. It is very much a typical guy. He just uses that platform to connect with family and friends and nothing more. I hope you are feeling okay now after that deletion of your post on his wall.
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
Very awful for doing such things to you!! He must be hiding something.You must be very frustrated in it.My boyfriend didn't do such things to me,i also did what you do, i sometimes post him love quotes, and when it's our monthsary i post some pictures of us and etc.. i'm glad that he didn't hide or delete it coz i will surely become wild.I guess he doesn't really loves you that much or i think he don't wants anyone to know that he has a girlfriend.. i don't know but i think it's not right.
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
I don't think that he doesn't love me that much just because he deleted or hide my post in his wall. he might have the reasons behind it but im pretty sure it is not because he doesn't love me. I am confident enough about his love for me because he show it to me through actions. all his efforts and sacrifices for me are enough reasons to say that he love me but I cannot really control myself from thinking about this thing that he deleted my post. want to know why he did this. he said he just dont like sweet post on facebook and whatever sweetness we have it should be private only. :-(
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
Well if he really loves you then why does he not tell you about these things that he don't wants you to post on his wall?and if you are confident enough that he loves you,then why does he hide something to you. i really think that he hides something,because he's reason is not enough to do such terrible thing. he knows that you will be hurt by doing such things. but he definitely did.
@glaiz_9 (366)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
worst case scenario?he doesn't want someone to see your posts especially by someone he's interested with other than you.Best case scenario,he's just the type of guy who doesn't want to broadcast the type of relationship he has with you.
@glaiz_9 (366)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
also,think of the impressions it would create to his colleagues,especially if his bosses are his friends on facebook.
@Mavic123456 (14334)
• Thailand
17 Nov 12
Ohh an overprotective boyfriend. he is just protecting you. Actually, for me, I am too annoyed to see posts with so much mooshie-mooshie thing on the facebook. I mean that's very private. It's not for public knowing or viewing. (sorry old maid here just envy). But seriously may I suggest? If you want to express what you feel you can just have it posted on his wall and not public wall. Now if he still delete it or hide it. Hmm.. there is something wrong with the relationship. You must have a second thought. Make sure he knows that it is just posted on his wall and the privacy is just for him. so he can't reason out anymore. what do you think, ok?
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
Actually you are right. I posted a sweet note on his wall and not on public wall but do you know that when you post something on a facebook wall, it will be seen by all his facebook friends. and there is nothing wrong on posting as long as you are not violation the rules of facebook and also if you are not saying rude things to that person. but well lets go back, since i posted a sweet note to my boyfriend's fb wal, then he hide or deleted it, i don't know really what is his reason. but it hurts me so bad.
• China
17 Nov 12
When we fall in love with somebody we would easily be affected by any little things,especially ladies.Actually speaking I don't like the behavior of the man, I can feel that he doesn't love me,however each one have their own way to show love.
• India
17 Nov 12
I agree with you when we love with anybody effects on small thinks also. But I not understand why people needs to fall in love on online sites even they cant see to each other and say we are in love. I watch this type of silly news on TV. A girl fall in love a facebook friend but when meet see he was 50 year old man and married. hehehe....how silly...
• Slovenia
19 Nov 12
it could be he'j just a kind of a person that doesn't want your relationship to be all over the place. maybe he jus likes privacy specially if he's not an internet person and maybe that's why he deletes. Talk to him. Or maybe he could be talking with girls saying he's free or something and he deletes it so no girl can talk to you and tell you whats happening. I do hope its not the last tho and its just him not liking it :)
@silverfox09 (4727)
• United States
18 Nov 12
He might not feel the same you do for him . That would be my only reason for hiding are deleting someone post that love me . You should call him and ask him why he keep doing that , I would also stop posting on his wall until I get a clear answer .
@aabuda (1729)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
oh? do you really know him? maybe he is hiding something from you? here's a test...add him as 'engaged'...try if he will confirm it...in this way, you can test him.
@ungu89 (2001)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 12
im not so sure why, but i have friend, her bf is an army, so , of course, if we don't know, we must think that he is really manly and not like to show this sweet text or anything especially in social net, that everyone can see. but, my friend said he really lovely and sweet. just he dont like the thing when she posting something on his wall. just keep just between them
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
While reading your discussion i come to the conclusion that he doesn't love you anymore what was the reason he hide and delete your post in his wall not unless their is a second party. You aware of it.
@allknowing (69305)
• India
18 Nov 12
Why do you want the world to know that you to are in love.That is between the two of you. He is quite right to hide your posts on his wall.
• India
18 Nov 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about this. Don't worry, may be he is depressed with other things, so only he did such things. Ask him for the reason.
@nelerkz (467)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
Oh, if that so, your boyfriend is not interested with you anymore since he hided all your sweet post. If He loves you, He must be proud of it no matter what. :)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
Could be for most guys. Males are quite privy with such personal things and also are not that into expressive emotions. Surely, he might be uncomfortable with public display of affection and wants romance to be in private. That's the best reason I can think of as I do feel the same way as he is.
• Greece
18 Nov 12
I think you need to talk to him about this. Any guy will appreciate that their girl is proud to tell the world how much she loves him. But it also depends on what type of guy your boyfriend is. Maybe he's not comfortable in public display of affection. It might be okay with you but it's not to him. People can be judgmental and may be annoyed by these posts even if it wasn't really meant for them and will start talking about you and your boyfriend's relationship. You better talk to him about this and tell him how hurt you are about what he did but you also need to understand what he's feeling about it. After all, you don't need to post how you feel about him in a social networking site, you can just tell him personally which is better and more romantic :)) But if you want to have an online space where you can post each other nice sweet messages, I suggest you to make an account in other sites where only the two of you can see and you can visit this in the future.
• India
17 Nov 12
definitely he's hiding something,,,or he is hiding from any individual,,i think you should talk to him directly..because it's bit personal,,so i don't want to miss guide you..
@zionl0l (68)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
ey.. ^^, im from cebu too.. about your boyfriend, hmm in my opinion i think he's not that serious to you.. (opinion rana nako ha?) for me there is nothing to be ashamed of.. if you really love each other you wont care what other people say.. if i was him i should be proud cuz you're not ashamed to tell the world that you love her.. if he dont like sweet words then try harsh words :D *JOKE!
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
My boyfriend is like your boyfriend very much alike on Facebook wall post. I commented on his picture like i love him then he deleted his picture. I didn't ask him why, I just ignore it. He told me not to tag pics of me and him on his Facebook I doubt him that maybe he got an affair with other girl. Lately I had the courage to asked him why. And he told me that he did not want our relationship announced in social network. He wanted it to keep private what I mean private is that he don't like people talk about our relationship on social network like facebook. Because he don't want to answer all the questions from his friends about us since he is a very private person. So what I did now is I don't even like on his post nor commented. But ohh, he didn't update his facebook so I don't care at all. I trust him so I don't care anymore about his facebook.
• Japan
17 Nov 12
That's odd. You're might hitting someone and he doesn't want to let the world knows thatched taken by you. I would talk to that boyfriend and confront him about that, why he's deleting y post on his wall!