Did you and your girlfriend/boyfriend slept together?
By allenwrites
@allenwrites (263)
Philippines
November 18, 2012 12:32am CST
I haven't had a girlfriend so I haven't really experience it. But when I was still living in Manila with my cousins, they sometimes allow their girlfriend/boyfriend to slept in the house. And I thought at first that they will sleep in separate rooms. But I am shocked to see that they sleep together.
On those situations wherein their girlfriend/boyfriend slept with them, I sometimes saw them hugging each other while sleeping. And there was one time that I saw my girl cousin and her boyfriend sleeping together in one bed and her boyfriend is holding the breasts while they are sleeping. They change position when they notice that I entered the room.
And a friend of mine told me that there was a time that she and her boyfriend sleep together. And while sleeping, they are hugging each other, and sometimes, her boyfriend touches some of her private parts.
How about you? Have you experience sleeping with your girlfriend or boyfriend? Did anything happen or you just sleep together?
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9 responses
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
18 Nov 12
I slept with my boyfriend for the first time when I was at a show and got tired and we were sitting in a cheer , I spend the entire night in his arms . I do sleep with my fiance many time after that , and we hug and do what ever we want lol ...
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
19 Nov 12
I was 16 lol no didnt go beyond kissing and hugging at that time . My heart wouldn't stop beating hard lol best night ever .
@allenwrites (263)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
Haha. It's good thing that you don't go beyond kissing and hugging that time. So are you married now?
@allenwrites (263)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
Haha. So when you slept with your boyfriend for the first time, did you go beyond kissing and hugging? lol. How old are you when that happen?
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
19 Nov 12
I had to laugh a little when reading this, btw I hope you don't get offended by me laughing. But just I thought it a little funny. But yes, before my husband and I got married, we would sleep over at one another's houses and sleep in the same bed together. We even moved in together and that we slept together and in the same room.
@allenwrites (263)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
So is that the first time that you slept with your boyfriend that time? Thanks for sharing
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
18 Jan 13
hi,
its true,here in our country most of the girlfriends and boyfriends slept together especially those people who are not live together with their parents,we don't know of course if they only sleep or having something first before they sleep,because when my boyfriend slept in my house there were something happened to us.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
19 Nov 12
Hi allanwrites...I have to say I had my frist child when I was
19..does that answer your questions,,,But it obvious is a much
different culturely where you live for you to even be inquiring
about what happens..
But I am sure you will eventually find
out what its all about...But it seems that if your cousins were
sleeping with body parts in thier hands while sleeping with the
opposite gender...they already know what is happening....
@allenwrites (263)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
Yes. I think they know what they are doing. They are not teenagers anymore. They are in their 20s.
Thanks for sharing
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
My golly ! When two opposite sleeps together 60 % something will really happen. Temptation is there , desires is there and they are human beings not mannequins . You see those cats , chicken , dogs and other kinds of animals , if the two gets closer , intimacy happens. There is this attraction which pull the two to be together . Even animals can do it , though it can't talk how much more with human being. That is why while you haven't yet done it , never try it. Though how strong is your respect to your sleep mate , you will be overthrown by that human instinct and drive.
@puiuioandaniel (182)
• Romania
18 Nov 12
I think you are a child:)). And I think that subject is really strange. Many couples do what your cousins did and they don't just sleeping. My girlfriend sleep with me anytimes, but no too many because I don't what to move with her. When you will grew up you will understand this things.
@allenwrites (263)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
Haha. I'm not a child. In fact, I think I'm older than you. I'm 23 years old. But I haven't experience having a girlfriend until now and I have no regrets until now. I just post this discussion to see what people think about this matter. Because in our family, this practice is not acceptable. But I am very much aware that many couples nowadays do this.
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
Of course I did sleep with my ex-boyfriend when we were still together. 
It's normal. At the time of my first relationship I was 24 years old. Then the next time I slept with a guy again with another ex boyfriend was when I was 32 years old. I don't think at 23 you are missing out on sleeping with a girlfriend. In time you will have a serious relationship and will share good moments together, including sleeping together. 
It's normal. At the time of my first relationship I was 24 years old. Then the next time I slept with a guy again with another ex boyfriend was when I was 32 years old. I don't think at 23 you are missing out on sleeping with a girlfriend. In time you will have a serious relationship and will share good moments together, including sleeping together. @allenwrites (263)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
Haha. I don't feel like I'm missing a lot just because I don't experience having a girlfriend. Because since I am a single guy, I gain a lot of girl friends who are very much close to me. Actually my best friend is a girl.
So when you experience sleeping with your boyfriend, are you and your boyfriend alone in the room or are you sleeping with some friends? Did anything happened? You're in the right age back then. So I think that's okay
@nelerkz (467)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
I tried it in the house of my neighbor, so rude indeed. But now I'm happily single and so busy with my work. For now I need to focus to myself first. :)
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
18 Nov 12
I can see that you are a good boy. It's not good for the unmarried to sleep together before they get married. But man has that desire, when they love each other , they sometimes can't control their body and do something like that. I believe they are having fun
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