Choosing the better guy or the guy that would make you a better girl

Philippines
November 20, 2012 2:02am CST
It is indeed a crucial decision. When you are faced with the reality that sometimes what you want is not actually what you need. Sometimes, your ideal man is not actually the man that you need. Isn't it ironic? Imagine having the man of your life for a couple of years. He's providing you with everything that you want. He's the ideal family man- with a house, car, business and all. But one day, you'll wake up that it is not the life you designed for yourself. And you backed out. You withdraw. You met another man, totally the opposite but has a huge heart to understand and give your emotional needs. Then the conflict arises, who would choose? What will you do? :-)
6 responses
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
It is hard to leave the life you started with a person who loves you and provides for you. Sometimes, we are setting too high standards which is sometimes unrealistic. There will always come a time that your faithfulness will be tested and it will come when you are in your most vulnerable state. I say this to you, coz I have been through that situation. I was blinded with a new person whom I think was better than the man I married. Although the new guy seemed to be perfect, the situation does not permit us to be together. This has caused me too much pain. I struggled to know which way should I take. After several years, I realized that some people just come to our lives to pas by and not to stay with us forever.
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
Truly, that is why the Bible says that the heart is tricky. Sometimes, no matter how much love we receive, we still ask for more. That is the problem. Sometimes, we don't feel contented. We leave something or someone to get more, not realizing that we already have the best. Until one day, we'll wake up, we realize that it's the same thing we wanted but it's too late cause it's already gone.:(
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
Ah, this one's from the movie, "THIS MEANS WAR" I really enjoyed that movie. I think it simply means, be with the guy who makes you happy, regardless of his status in life. I'd choose the guy who makes me happy. It's a difficult decision, but in this one, to be truly happy, we have to follow our heart.
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
Yeah, I love that movie too, and it left me with that quote marked in my mind. :-) It is indeed a difficult decision... It needs a great leap of faith and hope that you will really end up happy with your choice. :-)
@aabuda (1729)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
I think it happens to almost everybody. That whatever intensity should I say, our love to a particular person, there is still that incident that we will think and wonder why we are falling for someone else anymore and ignoring all the things that our current boyfriends is doing for us...
@blogandme (379)
• Indonesia
20 Nov 12
A. Better guy, B. Guy who can make you be a better girl. a. Better guy= handsome,cool(in indonesia called='keren'), alwaiys doing anythings by self.etc. b. Guy= fine, not handsome, not bad, but he always be a leader in something, and his leadership is very good. He can lead his self, he can lead his job, he can lead his life. Result: better guy, maybe you will like him. But i am not sure he can make you be a better girl. guy, maybe you will do dislike him in first time. But i guess, he can make you love him, and make you be a better girl.
@marcmm (1806)
• Malaysia
20 Nov 12
The hardest decision in our life is choosing our partner. There are a lot of criteria we look for and everybody have different preferences. Life comfort, luxury living, loving partners all play parts in choosing our partner.
@airasheila (5458)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
hi there, your post is really a complicated thing. hence it requires a thorough thinking. and if i will be placed in that situation, perhaps, i will choose the guy who has every wealth and everything. perhaps, i would just teach myself to love him since i know and believe that he loves me that much.