Relationship is not a joke,and its a serious thing.

Philippines
November 20, 2012 2:37am CST
. .In these generation relationship is a joke for younger a age.I saw a lot of young people enter that kind of relation they are so hot to have partner,but at the end of it,they regrets and also i think is not a right time for them to enter in that kind of relationship. .Its not a joke when you are on that level.
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@Shavkat (62489)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
It is a serious thing, it should not be take for granted. The relationships are not a game, it is being responsible. That's the reason why some people have failure in relationships.
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
yes true, and relationship is not a joke because we commit our self to our partner
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@ajithlal (14568)
• India
21 Nov 12
I also think that there should be commitment and love and trust in relationships and people should not take it as a game as you have said.
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
21 Nov 12
the parent is all responsible for it they should look after their children until they have reach their legal age.. most specially in their teenage years where they are so adventurous and wanted to try everything.. so for me we should guide our children so they avoid things that is not good for them and will make them regret in their life..
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• Philippines
21 Nov 12
Youngsters want to become mature early. They think that it's easy to be in a relationship. That's why they make a lot of mistakes. I hope they should be responsible enough for their actions. It's not a joke to enter into a relationship. I guess they will learn their lesson. They should enjoy being young first. if they're old enough already that's the time for them to enter into a relationship. They will do a lot better then. Minimize making mistakes and mature enough to deal with trials. Goodluck to them.
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@Dominique25 (9476)
• United States
20 Nov 12
I completely agree with you. A person should be ready to start a family and in a position to support one if they are starting to date. Relationships are a serious thing like you said.When one or both partners are not ready for that type of commitment it most of the time with only lead to heartache. It is crazy to see kids 13 and under dating. They are no where near ready to start a life with that person.
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@Mavic123456 (9702)
• Thailand
20 Nov 12
Yes, young people can do a lot of everything in their life, like you did maybe. That's the price of being young. They can just reason out, we were young and so much in love but in the end.. we were young and it's joke. Eventually, the young people will become old people too, just wish that that if this time comes relationship to them is real and not a joking matter.
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
being young doesn't mean to be playful all the time relation ship is not just a hobbies or game its a real connection and commitment
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
I agree! Relationships is a very serious thing which we should not take as a joke. :)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
never ever play emotions,feelings,
@alottodo (3061)
• Australia
20 Nov 12
I don't like to sound old or patronizing but I agree a lot of people go into a relationship too quickly they don't seem to give time to get to know each other they don't have time for romance at all they just jump in bed and a week later they are an item living together sharing the bills and arguing all the time!
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
yes its happen now unlike before people are well discipline but teen now a days is different
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
Younger ones usually so hot to have a partner because they are just curious about it. They are curious how it feels to have a partner how it feels when it's first time. They usually taken relationship for granted because they are not mature enough. Some are just born a player. Relationship is a serious thing and not to be taken for granted. However, how can we learn and become stronger if we don't experience failure. At our younger age we tend to play even on a serious matters. I had hurt my first boyfriend so much because he is so serious about us while me I just wanted to experience how it feels to have a boyfriend because I saw some of my classmates are happy having a boyfriend. But I learned from it to never played with someone's heart because if it happened to you, you know how its feels to be hurt by the people you love.
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
very true some people just make fun about relationship, now teens just having fun to be a player find new drop the old but its not a good thing
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
21 Nov 12
I agree with you, my friend. The relationship is not a kind of joke but a serious matter. Sometimes we can't avoid that relationship ended up with no reason or having a reason with respect to both parties. Misunderstanding and misjudgment is a common ground for the relationship end up like smoke and hurt the other parties...
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
21 Nov 12
that is true, many people rush into things with out thinking of what it actually holds for them. we see people together happy but at the end of the day, we do not know what transpire when the couples are not in public places anymore... they rush into being with someone without getting to know the person more too.. which makes everything worst as they are not ready as to who they are with, how they are to be when they are together, expectations, and all.
• United States
21 Nov 12
Oh, I agree. Kids nowadays want to act like grownups, but run scared when it comes to 'grownup games'. I don't get the mentality sometimes. It's easy to be in a relationship; that goes for kids and grownups as well. But it's serious business when you want to make it work. Not just for yourself. If they're kids involved, that too plays a part. Get serious and salvage the relationship if you want to. If not, then stop wasting time.
@glenng01 (71)
• Philippines
21 Nov 12
Relationships should indeed be taken seriously. Young people these days must be guided properly and be given proper information with regards to relationships. Being at a rebellious age with a lot of peer pressures, these young people are at their most vulnerable spot.
@ajithlal (14568)
• India
21 Nov 12
I also think that relationships are not joke when you get into it. Most young people goes for relationships as time pass and might hurt the feelings of the partners. Some people just say anything to enjoy the time and might not be in true love or consider relationships serious. I always think it is good to consider relationships serious in life and to be committed to it.
@Micmac (8462)
20 Nov 12
Most of the time the young people fall into a relationship because of passion desire and entertainment and it's not based on love, commitment and real life caring. They want to toy with each other instead of getting to know each other's personality and share common bonds. In the end, they are only playing with fire and not building a lasting relationship. Life for them is like living as a cartoon character. Most of them break up and become bitter enemies.
@nitinnair89 (2895)
• India
20 Nov 12
Yes it is true that maybe young people are eager to fall in such relationships but it is also possible that they may have seen the same for other peoples..and maybe their love is true..
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
I agree with you. Teenagers are in a hurry to have a relationship but they really do not take it seriously. Their relationship just lasts a few months then off again they go to hunt for another partner. It seems like they change partners as fast as changing their clothes! They lack sincerity and a good foundation for the relationship.
@surekharathi (14134)
• India
20 Nov 12
You are right now new generation not maintain the relationship every person think about their ego. No patience and not want to heard the suggestion of parents. No mutual understanding between couples. They dont take serious feel ohhh no problem if no family with me I can live alone.
@bLadeee (403)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
Indeed, most teenagers doesn't know what are they doing. They are rushing things up and regret at the end. They can't wait for the right timing. As I see it, they are like playing a game where they can do anything they want.