I know my fellow mylotters aee tired of me

United States
November 23, 2012 8:09pm CST
Hello fellow mylotters I kno ur tired of me always posting about my fiancee/boyfriend but I cant help it.well I can I just choose to vent on mylot instead of doing something stupid and going to jail.anyway why when women ask men to do sum for them it takes dem forever if they doing something in my case playin d f'in game.but let that man ask his woman to do something and she dont do it o its a big big problem.like really doe I was told treat others the way u want to be treated.#who can relate to this issue
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6 responses
@Angelee_27 (3473)
• United States
24 Nov 12
Hi mrshubert13, You shouldn't feel like that here on myLot. You should feel free to talk about anything you please. If someone is tired of reading your discussion, it's very easy to skip it and go to another one. As for the issue you're having with your fiance/boyfriend, I think that is something you should talk to him about. Anytime your partner is doing something you don't like, you should always let them know it's bothering you and ask them nicely if they can try not to do it anymore. That is how I think a relationship should be.
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• United States
24 Nov 12
Thanks a bunch for your comment.anyway I did talk to him over and over about it,its not that ge a bad guy cause he not he's a valentines baby so you could just imagine what type of guy im explaining.he is very quiet and he was that highschool football player who always gets alot if attention and he loves foot ball but at times I feel he not ready but then he once again prove me wrong.im not the type of person who cares about the big stuff its the little things that count but they also be the same lil stuff that can easly get me irretated
• United States
24 Nov 12
You will find out that some things you may not like about your partner cannot easily be fixed, or sometimes you just have to deal with it and get used to it. My husband does many things that irritate me. Nobody is perfect. As long as he isn't doing things to hurt me like cheating, hitting me, calling me names, and things like that... I don't get so upset if he does something small. I don't like it, but after a while you just get used to it.
• United States
30 Nov 12
I really didn't think of it like that but I understand what you saying
@jenny1015 (13390)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Here! I know what you mean and it really is annoying. My husband would be like , "do it right now", all the time. And when I need him to do something, he'd say yes, but when you get back to him after an hour, still he has not move form where he was the last time you saw him! GUYS! Quite a handful sometimes, don't you think?
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• United States
30 Nov 12
I so agree with you.I'm like you couldn't do me this small favor but men are handfuls
@pahak627 (4198)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Don't think it that way, I guess no one is tired of each other here in mylot. There are several members of this site and maybe those who responded to your discussion are not the same persons. For me, this is the first time that I came across one of your discussions. See, how can I get tired of you when in fact this is my first with you. LOL... I also talked about me, my family and everything around me in my discussions and I just didn't think that our fellow members here are tired of me.
• United States
24 Nov 12
Thanks for your comment and I appreciate it.but you do have a point about what you said thanks again
@pahak627 (4198)
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
That's alright. Hope you will not think about that. When I responded to your discussion, there was only, 10 points beside your username and now you have 60 just in less than a day... That's good.
• United States
30 Nov 12
What are the points besides ur name about anyway?
@Mavic123456 (9449)
• Thailand
24 Nov 12
I can't relate it is a matter of respect to each other. and my BF respect what I like doing most as long as I don't overdo it. Me as a respect for him I don't overdo it when he's around. Mylotting is now taking most of my time when I am alone, but if he is around i stop and listen and pay as much attention I can give.
• United States
30 Nov 12
No it's not about that it's about when you ask them to do some it takes for ever but let them ask you to do something it has to be done right then
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
We can never get tired of hearing your stories mrshubert13! This is what myLot is about. You post, we respond. We give advices or maybe just be here drop by to give you comfort or just being a friend to listen to you. Men are bossy I think and wants women to follow them right away when they say so. While women are patient and understanding. This is just a general and random thought. Not most of the time but usually men and women are like this
• United States
25 Nov 12
Thanks so much and I will keep posting
@greenline (14864)
• Canada
24 Nov 12
Oh, don't worry. Mylot is a community of friends exchanging experiences and helping one another. You can seek help and advice too. This is a very unique community of sincere people from countries around the world. Have a nice day !
• United States
30 Nov 12
Thanks for being so kind and I will keep seeking advice within every discussion I start